Would you ever consider being in an open relationship?

Question

I'm referring to having multiple partners or allowing your significant other to have multiple partners, on an emotional and/or sexual level.

For those that have, can you explain your experience?

Answer 1

Anonymous

I did it once when I was young and stupid. It's a stupid idea.

She initially thought that it was a great idea. She could have me and still have sex with other guys, have her cake and eat it too. She must have thought I wouldn't have as much of an easy time as her I guess, because she went through my phone and found texts from a couple of girls who I was going to meet with to have sex.

She then asked me to be exclusive, said she couldn't handle the thought of me with other women, that we shouldn't do it. I agreed. After that she accused me of being with other women constantly even though I never did. Then I find out she was banging some other guy anyway and of course ended it.

Answer 2

Andres77 | 865 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 6

My girlfriend that eventually became my wife didn't think I was serious about our relationship and she kept fucking around. I think about half her body count was after we met. I found out she was fucking around a lot. I knew I still loved her and decided to just stick with her regardless. She eventually told me about all the guys she was fucking when I'd visit her country. It became a game. Lots of stories. Eventually she realized the depth of my love for her and she stopped.
Not recommended for everyone.

Answer 3

Anonymous

No, absolutely not.

Last year I met a guy who was polyamorous, looong story short, for some time I was in a relationship with him while he was with somebody else. And it was the worst experience for me ever. Especially for my mental health.
Never again.

Answer 4

___nik

Xper 3

i think i would be to emotionally invested in the other person to not get jealous in an open relationship, so no :(

pink_baby

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Thanks for answering :)

Answer 5

pink_baby

Thanks for answering :)

Answer 6

Rando12

Xper 3

I’m not in one but I know someone who has been in one. I asked them what made them be into it and they said they liked the fact they both or feeling good and satisfied and get to enjoy fantasies they both had. The girl ended up marrying a guy she was consistently hooking up with though so there’s that.

Answer 7

winterfox10 | 6.1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

I'd be down to try. As long as the emotional intimacy was present, I could see myself in an open relationship. The physical stuff would be fine, as long as we communicated 110% and were safe about it. The emotional stuff is what makes an intimate relationship worth while.

pink_baby

7 d
Think you’d ever try it?
winterfox10

7 d
Yeah, that's what I just said. "I'm down" is a slang expression for "yes, I would."

Answer 8

pink_baby

Think you’d ever try it?

Answer 9

winterfox10

Yeah, that's what I just said. "I'm down" is a slang expression for "yes, I would."

Answer 10

Finchie40 | 1.7K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

I wouldn’t really consider that a relationship to be honest , more like a FWB’s because if you both have to screw other people while in a relationship together then you both don’t really value each other so what would really be the point of being in a relationship with that person , basically it’s 2 selfish people using each other

Answer 11

Kabluie | 760 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

Yep, I like them. One of my earlier girlfriends introduced me to open and poly and at the time I was real happy we got to fulfill both our desires without either of us being jealous. The heart wants what it wants, also allows you to delegate time for yourself, and other partners.

Answer 12

coolhandroo | 310 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 6

I have multiple chicks that fuck me when we hang out occasionally but then go weeks or months without talking and im Fucking other gorls and I'm sure they fuck other guys but I woildnt date anybof them. But thays as close as i woukd get to an open relationship

Answer 13

Lion91 | 55 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 2

Yes 😃 It gives me a Mindful Though to see many Girls based on their Self-Qualities and their Body Language. I try to keep away from Stereotyping that can Lead to Jealously & Cheating. Then seeing what Girl or Girls would have the Qualities that are my Best Interest.

Lion91

9 d
Basically saying for Example, not to confuse you. Am with a Girl Who's Open-Minded, who Loves Working Out, keeping Herself Physically Fit. Also Loves giving Me Head while am Smoking a Blunt. Where I can meets other Girls if I want, which are just like Her and She Totally Accepts that.
Lion91

9 d
*Meet. Sorry.

Answer 14

Lion91

Basically saying for Example, not to confuse you. Am with a Girl Who's Open-Minded, who Loves Working Out, keeping Herself Physically Fit. Also Loves giving Me Head while am Smoking a Blunt. Where I can meets other Girls if I want, which are just like Her and She Totally Accepts that.

Answer 15

Lion91

*Meet. Sorry.

Answer 16

Wiredone | 428 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

Im in one now. We each se other people. It is strictly for sex though. No regular dates like movies or dinner. We just see the other person, have sex and leave. We both enjoy it. I love hearing what her partner does to her. It's a real turn on. We usually have sex after we talk about it.

Answer 17

aus_explorer

Xper 1

It's definitely not for everyone, but I love it. I prefer to keep it on a sexual level though; emotional can be more risky to the relationship. Plenty of people enjoy including emotions though, everyone's different.

A big part of it for me is watching, another is getting close with her afterward.

Answer 18

Ripper_E | 4.9K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

if my partner felt that way, I would allow her to speak freely, knowing I'm not going to make accusations or judge her. I do not think I'd consider it, but I'd want my partner to feel comfortable talking to me.

Answer 19

bowenw | 2.1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Explorer

On the surface it seems like a great way to have the best of both worlds. In reality I believe it would permanently damage the relationship most couples have.

Answer 20

Anonymous

No. it sounds like hookup with more rules. Imagine speaking with someone after just linking for sex to join your "sex ring". Not me. I'd get bored of your face after 3 months if your lucky. Its either hook ups or a strict monogamous relationship for me. No in-between.

Answer 21

Anonymous

When I met my boyfriend and we started dating, I had a friends with benefits. My boyfriend knew about it. But when he asked me to be his girlfriend, I told him that I was really close with my friends with benefits, so I probably couldn't be his girlfriend. He said he would be OK with me keeping my friends with benefits, so I did. I told him he could have a friends with benefits if he wanted, but so far he hasn't done it.

7Roses

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That's really cool. Are you satisfied with this setup? And has he ever shown jealous?
Opinion Owner

8 d
@7Roses
I think he did get a little bit jealous, because he changed the rules a bit. He doesn't want me to go see my friends with benefits on my own anymore.
7Roses

8 d
Who do you go see your friends with benefits with if not alone?
Does he still allow you to have sex with your friends with benefits?
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Opinion Owner

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@7Roses

Now it's only threesomes. He says he doesn't like no knowing what's happening when I go alone. I can see his point.
7Roses

8 d
M. p do you mean you have threesomes with your boyfriend and your friends with benefits? Also how long have you been with your boyfriend now?
Opinion Owner

8 d
@7Roses

Yes about the threesomes with them both. I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months.
7Roses

8 d
Well you three have a great thing. It's one of my fantasies to be in something like that honestly.
Opinion Owner

8 d
@7Roses

You mean you want an open relation ship, or just a one-sided arrangement?
7Roses

8 d
I would love to have a friendship in which I either fuck their girlfriend from time to time and in a threesome half of the time. Or have a friend who has threesomes with my girl and I. He would also be able to fuck her sometimes one on one.
Opinion Owner

8 d
@7Roses

So is the threesomes you want FMF?
7Roses

8 d
Nah, MFM. I am not opposed to fmf though. I just want to try Mfm because i find it kinkier. It's more taboo and I love the idea I'd making a girl feel overwhelming pleasure. Having her feel extra slutty. Seeing her handle and take turns sucking two cocks. So I just think it would be nice to find a sweet group of friends that would be down to have a chilled time, relaxing and then at the end of the night do something extra, more than friends.
Opinion Owner

8 d
@7Roses
So would this be something you'd do with your girlfriend, or you want to do it with someone else's girlfriend?
7Roses

8 d
I enjoy the sound of both very much.
Opinion Owner

8 d
@7Roses

You should go on a swinger site and find a couple. I've done it one time.
7Roses

8 d
I would like to try both one day. Currently doing it with my own is more likely as we have spoken about it and she's into it. But I think my friends girlfriend is into me because once my friends girlfriend suggested that us 3 sleep in the same bed but that was because she thought that there wasn't a spare bed. My friend just said, nah no need because there's no one in the spare room.

I have been on them before but I can't find real ones. Usually it's just full of fake accounts or I have to pay to message anyone.
Opinion Owner

8 d
@7Roses
So if you have a girlfriend, and she's into it, all you need to do is find a guy.

And, yes, you have to pay on those sites or you can't do shit.
7Roses

8 d
Oh ok fair enough. I guess I will just pay, I'm just not sure how to find a guy who is into mfm threesomes. We do have someone in mind.

Dm me? I would prefer to talk about this in private if possible. I would love to get some advice from someone who has actual experience.
Opinion Owner

8 d
@7Roses

I don't like to talk in private, because I like to bounce from question to question. Just post a question about threesomes and I'll find it.
7Roses

8 d
Ok, I did about 24 hours ago titled something like ; guys, how would you react if your male friend wanted to share his girlfriend with you
Opinion Owner

8 d
@7Roses
Can you just post the link here?
7Roses

8 d
fine but i am really baiting myself out here. There is no point in me making my question private now
7Roses

8 d
Guys, how would you react if your male friend wanted to share his girlfriend with you? ↗

Answer 22

7Roses

That's really cool. Are you satisfied with this setup? And has he ever shown jealous?

Answer 23

Opinion Owner

@7Roses
I think he did get a little bit jealous, because he changed the rules a bit. He doesn't want me to go see my friends with benefits on my own anymore.

Answer 24

7Roses

Who do you go see your friends with benefits with if not alone?
Does he still allow you to have sex with your friends with benefits?

Answer 25

Opinion Owner

@7Roses

Now it's only threesomes. He says he doesn't like no knowing what's happening when I go alone. I can see his point.

Answer 26

7Roses

M. p do you mean you have threesomes with your boyfriend and your friends with benefits? Also how long have you been with your boyfriend now?

Answer 27

Opinion Owner

@7Roses

Yes about the threesomes with them both. I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months.

Answer 28

7Roses

Well you three have a great thing. It's one of my fantasies to be in something like that honestly.

Answer 29

Opinion Owner

@7Roses

You mean you want an open relation ship, or just a one-sided arrangement?

Answer 30

7Roses

I would love to have a friendship in which I either fuck their girlfriend from time to time and in a threesome half of the time. Or have a friend who has threesomes with my girl and I. He would also be able to fuck her sometimes one on one.

Answer 31

Opinion Owner

@7Roses

So is the threesomes you want FMF?

Answer 32

7Roses

Nah, MFM. I am not opposed to fmf though. I just want to try Mfm because i find it kinkier. It's more taboo and I love the idea I'd making a girl feel overwhelming pleasure. Having her feel extra slutty. Seeing her handle and take turns sucking two cocks. So I just think it would be nice to find a sweet group of friends that would be down to have a chilled time, relaxing and then at the end of the night do something extra, more than friends.

Answer 33

Opinion Owner

@7Roses
So would this be something you'd do with your girlfriend, or you want to do it with someone else's girlfriend?

Answer 34

7Roses

I enjoy the sound of both very much.

Answer 35

Opinion Owner

@7Roses

You should go on a swinger site and find a couple. I've done it one time.

Answer 36

7Roses

I would like to try both one day. Currently doing it with my own is more likely as we have spoken about it and she's into it. But I think my friends girlfriend is into me because once my friends girlfriend suggested that us 3 sleep in the same bed but that was because she thought that there wasn't a spare bed. My friend just said, nah no need because there's no one in the spare room.

I have been on them before but I can't find real ones. Usually it's just full of fake accounts or I have to pay to message anyone.

Answer 37

Opinion Owner

@7Roses
So if you have a girlfriend, and she's into it, all you need to do is find a guy.

And, yes, you have to pay on those sites or you can't do shit.

Answer 38

7Roses

Oh ok fair enough. I guess I will just pay, I'm just not sure how to find a guy who is into mfm threesomes. We do have someone in mind.

Dm me? I would prefer to talk about this in private if possible. I would love to get some advice from someone who has actual experience.

Answer 39

Opinion Owner

@7Roses

I don't like to talk in private, because I like to bounce from question to question. Just post a question about threesomes and I'll find it.

Answer 40

7Roses

Ok, I did about 24 hours ago titled something like ; guys, how would you react if your male friend wanted to share his girlfriend with you

Answer 41

Opinion Owner

@7Roses
Can you just post the link here?

Answer 42

7Roses

fine but i am really baiting myself out here. There is no point in me making my question private now

Answer 43

7Roses

Guys, how would you react if your male friend wanted to share his girlfriend with you? ↗

Answer 44

JackSmy | 2.7K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

No, I am only with one at a time. I want to focus on her, and having another, it's just too much, and I just don't want to divide my attention!

Answer 45

FlyGirl95 | 133 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

Yes absolutely but you have to have rules and trust. Trust is the most important thing. And both parties must be on board with it obviously.

Answer 46

kkirk4442 | 251 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

There is no way that I would be in an open relationship.

Answer 47

MissDawn7961 | 958 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

no but that is B cos I am to smart 2 B N volved N something so ignorant and meaningless

Answer 48

Madladd

Xper 4

No, but may i ask why do you want to be in such relationship and what dies it mean to you?

Answer 49

spartan55 | 1.5K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

My ex and I were swingers and I would describe it as lots of sex, with lots of different women.

Answer 50

summiter | 9.3K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

I would consider it as long as safe sex was practiced every time.

Answer 51

bamesjond0069 | 936 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

I mean I've had multiple gfs at the same time. But hell no i never let any girl have other dudes. Thats fucking gay as shit and hella embarrassing. Tbh none ever really asked though. I like to fuck like 5x a day and have a big dick and im really rough about half the time. They always tore the fuck up so usually bringing another girl in they liked having a break. I dont think they needed more dick. Lmfao.

Answer 52

Unstoppable20 | 251 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

I would not consider an open relationship. I want to be committed to one person and one person only. I expect that from my partner. More power to people if that's what they're into, it's just not for me.

Answer 53

Madhatter920 | 1.1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Nah, I'm too jealous of a person. I know myself well enough to know I wouldn't be able to get past that.

Answer 54

Meangurl | 737 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 6

No I think it’s really stupid to be honest. I mean why be in a relationship if your going to be with other people what’s the point.

Answer 55

TeeBar | 282 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 6

No, because then I'm not in a relationship, just in a friend-with-benefits set up.

Answer 56

chHaynes | 501 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

I guarantee you it will cause complications one or the other will have feelings I want to start a relationship so be extra careful

Answer 57

1031ent

Xper 3

NEVER

If it was even suggested, I would just move on. 👻

Answer 58

Anonymous

Is like my boyfriend to fuck some other women just so that he gains some self confidence in bed. But not full on relationships.

Answer 59

monkeynutts | 1.2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Been there, got the post cast, still remember the hangover.

Answer 60

crmoore | 1.2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

I'd always consider it, but I'm generally heavily disinclined from it.

pink_baby

9 d
why's that?
crmoore

8 d
I don't like to share my romantic interests. And if she isn't so overly in love with me that she would even pleasantly think about being intimate with another man, I'll lose a significant amount of interest in her. That being said, that's just me. Others feel differently and I support that.

Answer 61

pink_baby

why's that?

Answer 62

crmoore

I don't like to share my romantic interests. And if she isn't so overly in love with me that she would even pleasantly think about being intimate with another man, I'll lose a significant amount of interest in her. That being said, that's just me. Others feel differently and I support that.

Answer 63

tallcuck | 344 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

It turns me on. My ex agreed to bring man home but only if i never bring a women. I liked it and i want it more again and again :)

Answer 64

EaterPeter | 73 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 3

No, there is lot to loose. In fact we all are in open relationships whether we believe it or not.

Answer 65

Anonymous

I could accept a oneway open relationship where I get to sleep with other girls. But I don't date gthots who have slept with other men, so I can't accept her doing it.

Answer 66

KrakenAttackin | 1.9K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

I would never have a significant other in an open relationship. I would bang some other fool, Cucks, significant other, who is in an "open relationship".

To me "open" completely negates "relationship".

Answer 67

jimmy2 | 2.4K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

I would say if we both did it together that ok and we must agree

Answer 68

msc545 | 2.5K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

No. In open relationships, only the woman gets sex. The man gets rejections.

Answer 69

Anonymous

I am in kinda open relationship but only for her, which means I'm loyal to her while she gets to fuck around as she likes.

Answer 70

bklynbadboy1 | 4.7K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Nah that's some nasty shit. So I'm supposed to eat that after I know some other dude probably just nutted all in her? Hell naw im good

Answer 71

pokenstroke | 83 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 3

If i get into another relationship, it will be open

Answer 72

DERWCOUNRTYBOY

Xper 1

i am in some online & i would like to try it in real

Answer 73

berwise13 | 850 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 7

My ex wife & I had quite a few threesomes & both played alone but was only about sex.

pink_baby

9 d
thats cool :)

Answer 74

pink_baby

thats cool :)

Answer 75

Anonymous

Id rather be poly but its not my girlfriends thing. I really do struggle with a monogamous relationship and have cheated a fair few times because of it.

Answer 76

rebeliouse | 85 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 3

god ye been able to fuck other girls and also partner bringing other girls home bring it on. happy to see her gangfucked too as long as i get to watch :D

rebeliouse

7 d
@pink_baby
what do u prefer?
pink_baby

7 d
Open would be fun :)
rebeliouse

7 d
@pink_baby
how many partners have you had in past? ever been with a woman?

Answer 77

rebeliouse

@pink_baby
what do u prefer?

Answer 78

pink_baby

Open would be fun :)

Answer 79

rebeliouse

@pink_baby
how many partners have you had in past? ever been with a woman?

Answer 80

Anonymous

Im in a half open relationship. She sleeps with whoever she wants. I don't.

7Roses

2 d
Do you ever watch?
Opinion Owner

2 d
I have a few times

Answer 81

7Roses

Do you ever watch?

Answer 82

Opinion Owner

I have a few times

Answer 83

Jayla2000

Xper 4

Nope, i wouldn't even consider it

Answer 84

Hangry22 | 1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Never ever. I hate the concept of sharing

pink_baby

9 d
ya i get it :)

Answer 85

pink_baby

ya i get it :)

Answer 86

genericname85 | 16.2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

no. i prefer monogamy.

Answer 87

SouthGeorgiaGirl | 303 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

I have been in a number of them.

Answer 88

babadolulu | 70 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 3

No, i can not let to do it.

Answer 89

JesterRose

Xper 4

In one already, so yes.

Answer 90

Valnac | 10.9K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

The only cock I want in my girl is mine.

Answer 91

magiusX26 | 3.2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

am not opposed to the idea.

Answer 92

Anonymous

Yes I'm in one it's made are relationship better

pink_baby

9 d
whats the arrangement like?
Opinion Owner

9 d
That we can see other people if we want
pink_baby

9 d
cool, thanks for answering :)
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Opinion Owner

9 d
I haven't actually had sex with anyone else yet though
pink_baby

9 d
So mostly them? hows that been?
Opinion Owner

9 d
No I haven't done anything sexual with anyone else yet. But my girlfriend she dose it quite regularly
pink_baby

9 d
I'm asking how you feel about it :)
Opinion Owner

9 d
Good
Opinion Owner

9 d
Her pleasure is what most importantly to me

Answer 93

pink_baby

whats the arrangement like?

Answer 94

Opinion Owner

That we can see other people if we want

Answer 95

pink_baby

cool, thanks for answering :)

Answer 96

Opinion Owner

I haven't actually had sex with anyone else yet though

Answer 97

pink_baby

So mostly them? hows that been?

Answer 98

Opinion Owner

No I haven't done anything sexual with anyone else yet. But my girlfriend she dose it quite regularly

Answer 99

pink_baby

I'm asking how you feel about it :)

Answer 100

Opinion Owner

Good

Answer 101

Opinion Owner

Her pleasure is what most importantly to me

Answer 102

okeydoke | 969 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 7

I’m polyamorous so yes.

Answer 103

EmmaMary | 5.9K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

No, absolutely not.

Answer 104

1stranger | 373 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

Oohhhhhh... Nope

Answer 105

Joke777213

Xper 1

I'm tok jealous to try something like that

Answer 106

AmeerX | 2.5K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

I would like to try

pink_baby

7 d
How do you imagine it working
AmeerX

7 d
Main thing is trust. No matter what she and I should commit to be for each other even if we want to try other people. But up to marriage not after

Answer 107

pink_baby

How do you imagine it working

Answer 108

AmeerX

Main thing is trust. No matter what she and I should commit to be for each other even if we want to try other people. But up to marriage not after

Answer 109

andy530 | 4.2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Yes I would

pink_baby

9 d
how do you imagine that relationship dynamic working?
andy530

9 d
That would heavily depend on who my partner was and the arrangement we came up with
pink_baby

9 d
what kinda arrangement would interest you?
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andy530

9 d
That depends on what my partner would want too

Answer 110

pink_baby

how do you imagine that relationship dynamic working?

Answer 111

andy530

That would heavily depend on who my partner was and the arrangement we came up with

Answer 112

pink_baby

what kinda arrangement would interest you?

Answer 113

andy530

That depends on what my partner would want too

Answer 114

IAMNativeson87 | 180 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 3

Been there. Done that.

Answer 115

Iron_Man | 10.2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

No never

Would you ever consider being in an open relationship?

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