Would you let your girlfriend go topless with you at the beach?

If your answer is no, what if she offers you FFM? Would you change your mind?
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  • If it's a nude beach then sure. An empty beach of course ehy not.
    But a busy beach with her being the only one topless I'd advise against it. Not because I mind her being seen but because I will mind her being approached and flirted with over it.
    I would rather not spend the entire day punching guys in the nose for making inappropriate passes at her.
    That being said I encourage all girls to go topless at the beach. Once it becomes the norm it won't be something to have issues over instead it will be common and accepted

  • If she wants to free the puppies at the beach while I'm around, that's fine with me. I would not want her to do that if she was by herself, though. It only takes one asshole to cause problems, even if 1000 other people on the beach are cool.

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  • seeing as we go to nudist beaches together it doesn't arise, but it should matter, because if a couple has any sense then things like this could be and should be talked about before the couple get serious with each other, that is the trouble today no one seems to talk any more

  • My boyfriend would do it if I threw in the extra girl. LOL

    • Which is expected xD

    • Yep, he's always asking for that.

    • I bet he won’t agree with MMF lol though many here would say they are fine with it.

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  • "Let your girlfriend?" I think it's your girlfriend's CHOICE if she WANTS to go topless at said beach.
    If your answer is "No," I think any self respecting woman is going to have a problem with you and go to the beach alone...

    • "If your answer is "No," I think any self respecting woman is going to have a problem with you and go to the beach alone". Translation: I'm guilttripping any man who has values and isn't okay with letting his woman advertise herself to the world. No woman of class who truly respects herself will go topless on a beach for everyone to see other than the man she committed herself to. She wouldn't allow herself to show intimate and very personal parts ofherself to everyone to see. Also, a woman who doesn't keep her man's feelings, norms and values into consideration is not a woman worth committing to. Clearly our views on "self-respect" differ. And any self-respecting man does best to avoid a woman with yout mindset. I smell feminism

    • doesn't his name and question just scream right-wing incel?

    • @Marriedwith2 May I ask who you are referring to?

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  • That’s so totally her call. Her tits, her toplessness.

    I fail to see the link with the FFM.

    • I am saying if he doesn’t agree to it, I would offer ffm and see if he is going to say yes.

    • Yeah, I got that ;-) But where I come from toplessness is not so rare that it would require a FFM to 'pull me in' ;-)

  • Never going to happen, as I know she doesn’t like it, but yes.
    in the right situation sure!

  • It is fine if she goes naked, so why would I be bothered by top;ess?

  • It is my choice and not for him to let me or not.

  • I dont think I would say. No. Not unless I had a reason and if she said yes I would say fine. Then I would pull off my pants and underwear and so ok cool let's go ,, she can't bribe me just like I can't tell her what to do

  • The girl should be able to do whatever she wants to. She would never need my permission. I have been to nude beaches and it is no big deal.

  • "Let her"? I don't "OWN" her!!! OMG, she makes her own choices, for herself, and I respect her, and what she thinks and believes!
    If she chose to go topless, I would be fine with it, because I have no issue with nudity, and don't understand why some are still so hung-up on women being topless!!
    I have seen women, openly nursing in restaurants, and it seems totally normal and natural. SO WHAT, if her breast shows, a bit?
    I'm just wondering why it isn't Legal, in America!!

    • People have to have some sort of boundaries otherwise the world would be complete chaos. I am personally not OK with nudity. I would not want my children to see some random naked woman on the beach.

    • @Sarahr123 I respect you, and your feelings, about this. If it isn't too uncomfortable, I would like to know why, for you, personally, as a woman, that a topless woman, on a beach, perhaps a mother, with her children, makes you uncomfortable. I just want to understand, and I am I NO WAY judging! OK? You can be as honest as you wish, and I will not be offended, OK? I just want to understand.

    • There ARE impromptu KNOWN nude beaches all over the U. S. where people go to swim naked and hang out naked. The people who go there are usually not a bunch of yahoos salivating over naked women OR men. They're just a bunch of relaxed folk who like swimming naked and hanging out more or less clothed. People sneak peeks, but that's about the size of it. Puritans settled America. It's unfortunate they did. That's why there are so many uptight people over here. It's sad. I think there should be designated areas at most beaches that are "clothing optional," where people can be left alone. You know there will always be a minority of goofballs coming and going and staring. But if you're enjoying yourself, you never notice them anyway.

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  • As for me I don’t have a girlfriend as of the moment & if I did & she wanted to run wild on the beach more power to her & it’s ok to me.

  • Yes, i dont own her body.

  • No and no. I got standards and principles. I also don't have cuckold tendencies. If I'm in a relationship with you, it's a no go. If we're our relationship is anything but a serious monogamous relationship, You're free to do what you want

  • If it's on a topless beach I'd be more open to it or accepting of it. But overall I think I'd have to simply learn to trust her and her choices

  • I wanna say yes and ide def be tempted... but no. I don’t need a3 way and I don’t want people thinking I’m dating someone without class.

  • No way unless it’s a nudist beach.

  • This isn't a business type of thing.

  • Hayır kıskanırım No i'm jealous

  • Let? I would be the one taking their tops off when they arrived!

    Ensure no one was in doubt how fine her puppies were.

    • lol "let" just screams right-wing incel doesn't it?

  • If it was at a beach that allowed that absolutely. A naked beach is even better!

  • That crosses an intimacy line for me.
    So, that's a deal breaker. I just leave the relationship and go find someone who doesn't go naked in public for all the men of the world to leer at.

    FFM? I do not do threesomes... it is just her and me... NO ONE else.
    That is also a deal breaker. Any girl who is into those and has ever done one or wants to do one, I walk away from the relationship and go find a sweet, romance, relationship oriented girl who doesn't get naked in public and who is 100% monogamous.

    Public nakedness... deal breaker.
    Threesomes... deal breaker.

    • It's good to see a wise man with a healthy amount of self-respect and good standards under this post. I was shocked at the male responses under this post. It seems there are many men with some (mild) cuckold tendencies and that's just scary

  • As long as she let’s me bang her on the beach lol

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