Have you changed who you are to appeal to the opposite sex?

[Inquisitive3]

There are endless questions asking about what guys (as a whole) and girls like... have you changed yourself to appeal more the opposite sex, according to the answers you get?

I can't imagine doing that but it seems like the intention of a lot of people on here.

[PrudentGuy]

Ever since i got to meet counselors, i stop using the word "change" on personality.

It is impossible, because thats our DNA imprint. That's what make us us.

Rather i use the modern word "upgrade" LOL!

Yes, from a software engineer, i "upgraded" to an architect.

Ah, from a virgin i dare call myself a sex "good enough" LOL!

And of course, i "upgraded" from being less patient to more patient; selfish to less selfish; but still extremely firely when provoked.

To conclude, i did not "upgrade" to appeal to girls. I do so because its the right thing to do. The means to reach a higher goal. Somehow girls like it 😁😁😁

[boggboss]

Nope I do tend to not act my completel self at first when meeting new people but thats because I'm pretty crazy/lively person but I wouod never fully change my behaviour

[Inquisitive3]

I think that's normal to not be completely open at first. Crazy/lively is a good thing. :)

[boggboss]

No no I do some pretty retarded thing my friends describe it as having no filter I one time for no reason but being a fool told my girls dad she was pregnant she was not as the words came out my mouth I said why am I saying this I. Super comftble with people touchy feely only later finding out that can be a method of flirting thats not a good look lol

[Inquisitive3]

Haha, the prank sounds okay to me. Did he freak out? You're touchy feely? That could be a problem for some people, for sure.

[boggboss]

He looked at me and said you think your a funny guy yeah that was uncomftble not inappropriate but yeah many are not pre covid I would lick my girls face to annoy her she would punch me back sniff her hair or chew on it thwn conplain about the taste although that's exclusivity her

[Inquisitive3]

Hehe, sounds like it's all good fun. It's better than me, I have an obsession with pulling out male nose hairs. If I see a hair, I go for it. Kinda mean and makes them cry hahaha

[boggboss]

Ahahahahahah thats great but yeah these are not behaviours that are accepted when u don't know people so that's why I want

[Inquisitive3]

No, doing that randomly to strangers might be unwanted. 😂

[boggboss]

Ikr 😅they just can't appreciate all the nice things u do to show I care 🤣🤣🤣

[Account]

Nope, however I have done something else. I have made certain aspects of myself more obvious in order to NEVER get approached by a certain category of men.

[Inquisitive3]

Pervs?

[nevernevernever]

I have not. I don't really bother with it. I know I have some characteristics that are unappealing to guys but I like them so i'm not gonna change

[Inquisitive3]

I'm happy to know that!

[Zeldaismyqueen]

Just how I dress. I definitely dress differently on a date than I would going out with my friends,

[summiter]

Not really for me. If they don't like me for who I am then tuff luck for them.

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

Yes.
In many ways.

[Kaneki05]

No not at all. I am me, you ether accept me or don't.

[Inquisitive3]

Yup, agree 100%.

[Phoenix98]

Nope don't give a shit. If I have to change who I am to be attractive to you then you ain't someone I want to be with to begin with.

[Gedaria]

Not really.

[eagle1951]

too old to change anymore

[Inquisitive3]

No one is too old to change.