Have you changed who you are to appeal to the opposite sex?

Question

There are endless questions asking about what guys (as a whole) and girls like... have you changed yourself to appeal more the opposite sex, according to the answers you get?

I can't imagine doing that but it seems like the intention of a lot of people on here.

Answer 1

PrudentGuy | 3.1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Ever since i got to meet counselors, i stop using the word "change" on personality.

It is impossible, because thats our DNA imprint. That's what make us us.

Rather i use the modern word "upgrade" LOL!

Yes, from a software engineer, i "upgraded" to an architect.

Ah, from a virgin i dare call myself a sex "good enough" LOL!

And of course, i "upgraded" from being less patient to more patient; selfish to less selfish; but still extremely firely when provoked.

To conclude, i did not "upgrade" to appeal to girls. I do so because its the right thing to do. The means to reach a higher goal. Somehow girls like it 😁😁😁

Answer 2

boggboss | 5.9K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

Nope I do tend to not act my completel self at first when meeting new people but thats because I'm pretty crazy/lively person but I wouod never fully change my behaviour

Inquisitive3

1 mo
I think that's normal to not be completely open at first. Crazy/lively is a good thing. :)
boggboss

1 mo
No no I do some pretty retarded thing my friends describe it as having no filter I one time for no reason but being a fool told my girls dad she was pregnant she was not as the words came out my mouth I said why am I saying this I. Super comftble with people touchy feely only later finding out that can be a method of flirting thats not a good look lol
Inquisitive3

1 mo
Haha, the prank sounds okay to me. Did he freak out? You're touchy feely? That could be a problem for some people, for sure.
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boggboss

1 mo
He looked at me and said you think your a funny guy yeah that was uncomftble not inappropriate but yeah many are not pre covid I would lick my girls face to annoy her she would punch me back sniff her hair or chew on it thwn conplain about the taste although that's exclusivity her
Inquisitive3

1 mo
Hehe, sounds like it's all good fun. It's better than me, I have an obsession with pulling out male nose hairs. If I see a hair, I go for it. Kinda mean and makes them cry hahaha
boggboss

1 mo
Ahahahahahah thats great but yeah these are not behaviours that are accepted when u don't know people so that's why I want
Inquisitive3

1 mo
No, doing that randomly to strangers might be unwanted. 😂
boggboss

1 mo
Ikr 😅they just can't appreciate all the nice things u do to show I care 🤣🤣🤣

Answer 3

Inquisitive3

I think that's normal to not be completely open at first. Crazy/lively is a good thing. :)

Answer 4

boggboss

No no I do some pretty retarded thing my friends describe it as having no filter I one time for no reason but being a fool told my girls dad she was pregnant she was not as the words came out my mouth I said why am I saying this I. Super comftble with people touchy feely only later finding out that can be a method of flirting thats not a good look lol

Answer 5

Inquisitive3

Haha, the prank sounds okay to me. Did he freak out? You're touchy feely? That could be a problem for some people, for sure.

Answer 6

boggboss

He looked at me and said you think your a funny guy yeah that was uncomftble not inappropriate but yeah many are not pre covid I would lick my girls face to annoy her she would punch me back sniff her hair or chew on it thwn conplain about the taste although that's exclusivity her

Answer 7

Inquisitive3

Hehe, sounds like it's all good fun. It's better than me, I have an obsession with pulling out male nose hairs. If I see a hair, I go for it. Kinda mean and makes them cry hahaha

Answer 8

boggboss

Ahahahahahah thats great but yeah these are not behaviours that are accepted when u don't know people so that's why I want

Answer 9

Inquisitive3

No, doing that randomly to strangers might be unwanted. 😂

Answer 10

boggboss

Ikr 😅they just can't appreciate all the nice things u do to show I care 🤣🤣🤣

Answer 11

Account | 8K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

Nope, however I have done something else. I have made certain aspects of myself more obvious in order to NEVER get approached by a certain category of men.

Inquisitive3

1 mo
Pervs?

Answer 12

Inquisitive3

Pervs?

Answer 13

nevernevernever

Xper 4

I have not. I don't really bother with it. I know I have some characteristics that are unappealing to guys but I like them so i'm not gonna change

Inquisitive3

1 mo
I'm happy to know that!

Answer 14

Inquisitive3

I'm happy to know that!

Answer 15

Kaneki05 | 1.7K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

No not at all. I am me, you ether accept me or don't.

Inquisitive3

1 mo
Yup, agree 100%.

Answer 16

Inquisitive3

Yup, agree 100%.

Answer 17

Phoenix98 | 5.6K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

Nope don't give a shit. If I have to change who I am to be attractive to you then you ain't someone I want to be with to begin with.

Answer 18

Zeldaismyqueen | 62 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

Just how I dress. I definitely dress differently on a date than I would going out with my friends,

Answer 19

summiter | 10K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Not really for me. If they don't like me for who I am then tuff luck for them.

Answer 20

Jean-Marie_Céline | 1.9K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

Yes.
In many ways.

Answer 21

eagle1951 | 3.4K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

too old to change anymore

Inquisitive3

1 mo
No one is too old to change.

Answer 22

Inquisitive3

No one is too old to change.

Answer 23

Gedaria | 9.1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

Not really.

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