Why do men start acting different after y’all have had sex?

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MrOracle · Accepted Answer

The guys who act differently after you've had sex are guys who only wanted you for sex in the first place. Anyone can come across a guy like that, but if it's happening to you regularly, that means that you're either choosing guys who are only interested in casual sex (if the guy is especially good-looking, for example, chances are very high that he's not really interested in a relationship with ANY girl, and is only looking for casual sex), OR it means that you don't bring any value to the relationship beyond sex (I'm talking about things that MEN value), so men don't consider you "relationship material."

If you are with a guy who actually cares about you and values you, then you'll find that not much changes after you have sex, other than maybe he's a little closer to you emotionally. If he doesn't value you for more than casual sex, then things WILL change, and some guys will be completely done with you once they've put another notch in their bedpost - they'll be back to the chase and working on conquering the next girl.

PrudentGuy · Accepted Answer

Different? This means you give him sex too soon.

If he knows you better, and perhaps have some emotional connections, then sex would be a lot more natural.

Instead of "different", i would say we are "contented", "satisfied" and look forward to the next episode.

summiter · Answer

Maybe it is cause they just had a great orgasm!

DavidFox · Answer

Cause a lot of guys don’t want the girl to become attached.

bowenw · Answer

It often means the relationship has been taken to the next level.

Angelo75 · Answer

Cuz the man was just targetting you for sex. So he "behaves" in order to get into your pants and afterwards he doesn't have to "behave" anymore.

winterfox10 · Answer

Because they aren't looking forward to having sex anymore. So a lot of the cute, silly, sassy things you thought were charming before having sex just become annoying after you've had sex. The guy starts tallying up everything they like about the woman, and usually the list is... underwhelming.

magiusX26 · Answer

roughly same reasons women start acting different after having sex.

QueenOfAshland · Answer

For me it is the same but they just want more sex

AmeerX · Answer

What do you mean, can you explain?

cnhinton · Answer

Because the hormones released are the same ones affected by antipsychotics, benzos, and pain killers. Most me get tired, relaxed, and relaxed.

MountAverage · Answer

We don't. You're 17, so I assume the guys you've been with are boys, not men. Once you start dating men, you'll see this is not the case.

Wiredone · Answer

I never act differently after sex. I mean other than I might be a little tired. I don't treat her any different before or after sex.

chHaynes · Answer

I don't know maybe it's just you scratched it itch

Twalli · Answer

Because sex changes a relationship

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Because now they know you a ho and they aren't interested in a relationship any more. Certainly not the kind they imagined before you gave up the cake so easy.

Valnac · Answer

Different how exactly.

locutus9999 · Answer

explain a bit... different like how?

Tjsmoove · Answer

as real as i can put it because we got what we wanted and it's no longer a goal to accomplish now that don't make us wait a long time what'll keep us is if ya bring more to the table than sex