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#Poll Which would make you more mad to find out after sex and why?

Of course you should care more about the fact they lied in general rather than what about, but still, which on the poll? And would you leave or stick around?
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#Poll Which would make you more mad to find out after sex and why?
If your partner lied about being a virgin BUT they revealed after sex that they were actually not a virgin AND THEN laughed that your sexual performance couldve been better
Vote A
#Poll Which would make you more mad to find out after sex and why?
If your partner lied about not being a virgin BUT they revealed after sex that they actually were a virgin AND THEN cried that your sexual performance physically hurt them
Vote B
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Im just shocked more people didn't choose B. Dont you view it as gaslighting/manipulation in a way?
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  • I would get up, put my pants on, not say a word to this woman and just leave. The fact she lied about something like this, than laughed like she got some gratification out of it, is sick as fuck and this person is toxic.

    • Yea its messed up. How would you react to the other poll option

    • I would show empathy, understanding that she is in pain. I would stay with her made sure that she is going to be ok. After I knew she was good, I would explain to that you shouldn’t have lied and just end whatever it could of been.

    • Love it

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  • The second.
    Just because she lied, and still , i'm the one who is guilty.

    • Yea its like gaslighting right

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  • I think the first would piss me off more (both would be upsetting) because its intentionally malicious while the second one was self inflicted so while I would feel bad for it at the same time, they lied and as a result did not give me the information I needed to do things better (be more gentle or what have you).

    • Okay that makes sense. But check update as well

    • Yeah, like I said both would piss me off but the second one results in them suffering from their own actions the first I suffer for their actions. In addition I can empathize to a degree not wanting to admit to the virginity if she was insecure about it, while the second one is literally them going out of their way to be a dick. Again both are bad, but if I have to choose the second one is less bad (that relationship could continue, the first one would not.).

  • At my age, the only virgins are in a convent and most single women are grateful for a poke.

    • 😂😂😂

  • I'd say neither would have that effect per say... The only bad part that could make me bitter is if she said she was not a virgin and said she was not after only to say that she was not and she had better sex than me 😠

    • Ahh ok

  • Whew chile, Reading this shit makes me wanna call a therapist 😂 too dysfunction either way.

    • Dysfunctional

    • Hahahah

  • I wouldn’t care but I’d find it weird that they lied about being a virgin. I’d question their confidence. Nothing wrong with being experienced or not having any. Who’s she has or hasn’t slept with doesn’t cross my mind when our clothes come off.

    • You wouldn't be mad that you went too sexually/physically hard on a virgin? nor are you often gentle the first time?

    • I listen and pay attention to her body. I can tell if I’m being too rough or not rough enough. If I have any doubt I just ask. But that’s with any girl. She’d be good regardless.

    • Ahh, communication and consideration. So rare.

  • Honestly A. I would probably slap them since I don't like getting lied to. Plus they have to be incredibly petty and crazy to do something like that.

    • Exactly

  • First option.

    • Okay

  • A if I’m to be mad. I would punch them in the jaw and throw them out. B would just upset me.

    • Lmao not punch

    • Lol yeap punch. Lying to me and then immediately insulting me is going to end badly lol

  • Physically hurt them? Laughing about a sexual performance is always really bad so I voted A

    • Yea physically hurt like if a guy was too rough in bed and you played it cool but cried after

  • In second case you will be heart. But try your best to comfort her and make up with her.

    In first case you would get angry and try to avoid her later.

    Which looks better to you?

    • Yea i agree. But after comforting them, i probably wouldn't trust them again

  • I wouldn't be mad if I hurt them. i would be upset because regardless of whether they are or are not a virgin, I have no desire to her them.

    • You wouldn't be mad if you hurt her only because she lied right?

  • I'm not into virgins, in fact it's a turn off for me. As the first one simply doesn't apply to , but the second one is a possibility. I would be more upset though with the first, anyone shaming sexual activity doesn't deserve sex. (Unless it's a consensual BDSM thing)

    • Yea im shocked more people didn't choose B. But i guess A is pretty jacked up

    • Someone telling you you're bad in bed sucks

    • Nah it just motivates you to play harder next time lol

  • I think lying that they were a virgin is worse.

    • Ever dealt with that?

    • Not exactly.. but I've been in situation where someone lied about themselves just to get me to like them. Of course after a while which I mean over year, they confess to me about it. And I was livid. Not so much because of what they said, but more so building a connection with that person under false pretence then hiding it for so long. It negates everything else up until that point.

    • Yea you never know what to believe anymore

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  • First one for sure... its deceitful

    • Theyre both so messed up and deceitful. But yea any specific reason why? Would you leave?

    • The both are yes though second can be for reasons for hiding the virgin... first is strictly just deceitful as they enjoy hurting or tricking them and used thier body to do it (psychopaths mentality ) as for if I stay... nope I want honesty not that shit

    • Damn that is a psycho huh

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  • this is a very tough one. am currently unsure which would bother me more.

    • good chance of leaving for both here. the 1st one is kinda like the "point and laugh" while the 2nd breeds resentment from her for having hurt her and guilt on my side for it too, which given time likely would lead me to resent her.

    • I agree

    • bottom line is its not any good either way because of her dishonesty.

  • BothFirst is just meanSecond is ignorantI'd have left both

    • I respect that

  • Actually the first one happened to me before

    • Yea i think my first ex was similar

    • We wanna think there are men who are different somewhere but in the end of the day, they have a knack for hurting us

    • I do think lots are different. But thhe childish ones are all the same

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  • I'd be disappointed about the lying, but not mad. I'm not mad in either scenario, I still nutted.

    • Wow...

  • i can see not want to hurt someone would be preferred

    • Thats what i thought

  • The first would piss me of, the second would made me sad, the last thing I want is to hurt the person I'm intimate with.

    • But still she lied

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