What sexual things would someone have to NOT be into (that you’re into) for you to consider them “vanilla”?

Speak for yourself personally when answering the question... but yea, I feel like people consider you vanilla if you’re not into a lot of taboo and fetishes. So whats something that you’re into but if they weren’t into it, you’d consider them vanilla— For example, anal, oral, threesomes, etc— by the way, Do you consider yourself vanilla?
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  • If she doesn’t like giving head and she is scared of cum then that’s a turn off to me cuz I have no problem going Down on her , so if she is just into just having intercourse then I consider her vanilla , , I prefer a girl to be more submissive but also like when she can be dominate at times and she has no problem getting my cum in her mouth or all over her body , it’s the girls that say hurry get it off that kills the moment lol

    • Scared of cum as in dont cum in them? Or scared to swallow? Wym? I mean i dont like cum on top of me but im fine with it in my mouth. I wouldn't push a guy off but i dont believe in birth control and like it raw, so you’d probably push yourself off anyway lmao

    • Her mouth , if she is scared to get it in her mouth or she doesn’t like it on her body and rushes to get it off , that is a turn off to me , A guys cum is his couple seconds of fame and she should applaud it not kick it off the stage lol

    • I can't stand seeing it on my body. The one time he asked to cum on my tits, i said maybe we should do stomach instead. It was awful. Looked all snotty and gooey and was hard to cleanup. Seeing it makes me nauseous but i’ll play it off like its sexy. Still, i rather it be somewhere i can't see it, like my mouth. The taste of cum is awful which i why i prefer precum instead. But i have a trick i do so that he doenst know i think the taste is awful. But yea you gotta pity the girl a bit. Its like if she asked you to lick her while her period is on. Its just not hot. But we do things we hate for our partners

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  • Ngl but I love 69... like it's a perfect way to show your love before getting into it (actal fucking)... but i think it's a personal preference of people... some may like it... some may not... we shouldn't judge them on basis of that... might be they're having potential in bed😂... anyways jokes apart... but yeah am into everything which involves in intercourse...😋

    • Even anal? 😭 but i like 69 long as he's on top

    • Not into anal... it's cringe 🤧

    • Okay good

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  • People who only want to do missionary pose.

    • Lmao oh heck yea

  • Oral, little handcuff/blindfold, watch porn together

    • Yea those should be automatically included

  • public sex or foreplay.

    • For sure

  • I’ll have to say choking lol if he’s uncomfortable with that he’d be with things that are a lot kinkier than that.

    • Lol i used to like to choke em while riding but i hated being choked bakc

    • I never liked choking them, though sometimes it’d happen accidentally lol but if I was to put his hands on my neck and he said nah then he’s vanilla as hell 😂

  • Ejaculating into the eye.

    Well sex.

    Coffin sex.

    Anal destruction.

    Fisting.

    • So theyre vanilla if they dont do those?

  • I'm probably more vanilla than most 😅 but I think a good christian girl simply wanting to have sex for having children could be a "vanilla" place. I'm sure that exists... But overall, I sure hope me and my future partner will have a fun and active sex life

    • Yea sex to me is about procreation first and foremost and secondly pleasure

    • @DizzyDesii I see it the other way around lol. (But I can tell other people we're doing it to make babies if that makes them happy.)

  • I think mild BDSM is just about the most tame "kink" and it's extremely common, so if someone isn't even into *that*, then I'd definitely consider them vanilla.

    • Yea like handcuffs? But i dont wanna be cuffed. I rather do the cuffing

    • Yeah, that kind of stuff.

  • I turn vanilla people 🥳 I’m talented like that.
    But anyway, personally I consider you a vanilla partner when your mentality is limited. The outright rejection of stepping out of your comfort zone is the exact qualification.

    You don’t have to be all into the “taboo”, you just have to be ambitious and curious enough to explore those options to be “kinky”.

    • Yea im def vanilla then

  • Doing a lot of positions, some playful none harmful bdsm, cuffing, roleplay, few sex toys, making a homemade sex video, watching porn together, make a sex plan for no reason. And few other things

    • Yea i would never make a tape

    • I probably wouldn't watch porn with my wife, just because I think it's extra and unnecessary.

    • @Jamie05rhs yea i prefer to watch it alone

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  • If you don't enjoy receiving or giving pain (with consent of course), or getting handcuffed then you are a vanilla for me.

    • Im def vanilla 🤣

  • If your biggest fetish or kink is just handcuffs and a blindfold, you’re vanilla.

    • I’ll take that

  • I'm pretty vanilla. But oral sex both ways us essential.

    • Yea me too

  • Not sure. No blood, piss or feces. Otherwise how far I'll go would depend on how far I could trust her

    • Ahh ok

  • If they weren't into BDSM or DDLG

    • @lanadelrey25 are you into those?

    • @rebeliouse and I quote "So whats something that you’re into but if they weren’t into it, you’d consider them vanilla"

    • @lanadelrey25 ah my mistake so u are into them what is ddlg?

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  • Good question. I guess not being into my girlfriend watching us is pretty vanilla.

    • Wait what lol... are you a damn cuck lol

    • I literally said "my girlfriend watching us", how does that makes me the cuck? Lmfao

    • No one ever reads what I say correctly when it comes to this ffs.

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  • I think I'm pretty vanilla so I have trouble coming up with something. If they were only into missionary, I supposed that could be far less adventurous.

  • I don't kink shame. If they're into anything a little odd they're kinky, vanilla is just not willing to explore a little. The list of stuff I do do is long and extensive, and much of it is just out of most people's willingness to try.

    • Im probably vanilla in that case 😂

    • Lol maybe

  • Just the simplest thing of oral or toys or even not intrested to explore I'll class them as vanilla

    • I’ll be vanilla then lol cause im not into toys

    • But into exploring though

    • Not really lol

  • Oral... honestly... Gotta live a little, and sometimes that means getting your genitalia explored by someone's mouth.

    • 😂😂😂

  • alright desii, gonna list some i rarely say publicly because a lot like to go after folks into some of these.

    keep your judgements to yourself folks.

    peeing in her vag

    frontal (pussy) spankings (not all the time)

    ddlg

    a few types of taboo play (ddlg being a big part of that)

    and by no means is this anything but a minor cursory listing of my kinks.

    as for if i find myself vanilla, hell no. i did however come across one woman who found me that way with these and more kinks via a mmorpg about 12 years back. which i found funny.

    • Whats dlg

    • ddlg. same thing fifi talked to some dude about.

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