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Do you smaller guys think it's impossible to cause pain?

Sometimes I think the smaller guy puts in more work but finds it hard to believe that he is causing some discomfort or pain if the girl complains. I think they think pain is only possible by a monster d.
Because of this my ex bought a big dildo to try and convince me that it was all in my head but how does he have the right to tell me that it doesn't hurt.
I was anxious sleeping with him so I tensed up. When he got rough it was too much for me to handle my body no longer liked being used like that.
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  • Why are you assigning this to all small guys?

    Why can't it just be because he is an asshole? Then it all rather explains itself doesn't it?

    Why did this asshole not care that he was hurting me? Oh, right, yeah..

    What you are talking about is 1 specific guy so dont ask the question like its about 100s of millions or billions of people.

    There are no doubt guys out there with massive dicks who also dont give a shit about hurting you because?

    They are assholes...

  • Don't know if I'm small but yes smaller guys can cause pain. Maybe not with the dick but by thrusting too hard because the public region, his abdomen, upper thighs would be colliding with the girls body more or less depending on the position.

    • Well you have to think of the vagina differently think of it like a container with playdough in it. When you push into it, you're causing pressure so the playdough tries to find space to evenly distribute itself to disperse the pressure. Since the vaginal walls are a solid form it basically returns with resistance... So what we experience is discomfort that eventually becomes painful. Especially if you're stabbing at the same area.

    • Doesn't the vagina expand when aroused? I don't think small guys can really cause enough pressure to experience discomfort but then again I'm a guy not girl and don't really know much about the vagina.

    • Well most guys that think they are small are in the 7inch category. Men are obsessed with their size onces it's not hanging by their ankles. And I'm sorry to say that that is not every girls dream. That's fugging scary.

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  • My first ex was too big (as in long) to handle. It took near the end of our relationship for sex to just reeeeally feel good. As for one of the other exes, he was like 4 or less when hard. Spooning (like the ball bumper) felt so good. Cowgirl on the couch (like 2 for 1) felt so good. But it was after the sex that inwas in a lot of pain. I dont think he hit the cervix like the first ex. But i think its cause we went from 10a to 2am. Anyways, yes its possible that any size can hurt you

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  • It might be a possible mindset for them to have. But it might be worth asking them to be gentle if it is getting rough

  • Are you talking about dick size?

    • No I'm talking about penis size!

    • The best selling vibrators/dildo in the main toy shop in my country is average, so we musn't be too bad ;)

  • He is an idiot. Pain is not always about size. Its lubercation and arousal. If you are anxious and dont trust him then sex can be very painful

  • No, I don't think it's impossible.
    But isn't it less likely?

    Still, I would be careful regardless.

  • Ha I can’t answer this because I’m not a smaller guy. Lol.

  • Explain that you not like it and it's not enjoyable for you

  • i think any size can cause pain but i have never caused pain with 3 partners so far in my 41 years alive i am only 5 when hard and uncut... if that is the kind of pain u be talking about

    • Nah, this was basically meant to just be a conversation of consideration. Do you consider not being able to cause some kind of discomfort or pain if your basically not doing something that is to your partners liking. In my experience I've heard someone tell me its impossible. How many more think this way? Simple question really

    • i would stop if i saw i was hurting a girl i am also an empathic so i have no issues picking up what a girl is feeling

    • Your partner is very lucky

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  • Because you seem to be the exception in my experience

  • Well it's certainly difficult for me to imagine myself hurting a girl with my dick but if you say so I suppose it could happen

  • Why cause pain?

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