If your partner told you they LOVED YOU for the first time during sex would you believe them or do you think they just got caught up in the moment?

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loveslongnails · Accepted Answer

Fellas, yeah, hit me
Are we ready?
I do believe we are ready

What time is it?
It's killing time, Morris
I know that's right
'Cause I am the latest fashion

Go Morris, go Morris, go Morris, go Morris
Go Morris, go Morris, go Morris, go Morris
Go Morris, go Morris, go Morris, go Morris
Go Morris, go Morris, go Morris, go Morris

I know I said I loved you
I know I said I needed you
I know I said that I'd be here always
But what I didn't tell you is that

This year the latest fashion
Is to lie in the heat of passion
This year the latest fashion
Is to lie in the heat of passion

People tell us what we want to hear
(Time)
This time the tables are turned
(Yeah yeah)
This time we're the ones that's paintin' fires
(Time)
Instead of getting burned

This year the latest fashion
Is to lie in the heat of passion
This year the latest fashion
Is to lie in the heat of passion

HawkPerception · Accepted Answer

When people are having sex, they have the thoughts "they're willing to be so intimate with me and show me such a side of them". Those thoughts elevate any feelings you already had of the person you're in bed with so if they say "I love you", they may feel they genuinely believe that in the moment. But it's not in those moments you can say what you truly think. You have to be able to see a life with that person and genuinely know you love their personality when you see them in a non sexual environment.

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

Oh they "love you," alright-
They love that you finally gave them some, lol

They're just caught up in the moment, or rather they're speaking from their hormones; not their hearts. I've had guys say all kinds of "sweet talk" during sex. Ask me if they behaved the same way after?

Nope, lol.

That's why I don't like or trust when anyone says they love me: words can be hollow and meaningless. Of course a guy will love you after sex and he enjoyed it. But will he feel that way ALL the time, outside of just sex? Ask yourself that before you believe it...

kaylaS91 · Accepted Answer

My fiancé kept saying ‘making love’ in place of having sex from when we first started hooking up. So not saying he loved me but it definitely felt weird to me.

I didn’t think anything of it more than him loving the opportunity to get some action. He didn’t end up saying he actually loves me till we were just shy of four years together at which point, aside from duration we’d been together and the experiences we’d shared, I 100% believe (d) him.

DizzyDesii · Answer

if in a relationship, I’d say it back and hope he means it but im sure they’re caught up in the moment. As for Anyone i was dating but was not yet officially in a relationship with, when we had phone sex, they’d say “i love you” before cumming and i’d just pause and think [ugh his lying ass bout to make me dry up like the sahara desert] then i’d reply “just come for me baby” 🤣

Daniela1982 · Answer

Just pillow talk. Don't take it seriously. If he was serious he would have told it to your face in nonsexual circumstances.

Yash_08 · Answer

Well she said it out of love because she is my "partner" right?
The stage until she became my partner must have obviously been platonic where we got to know each other in and out and therefore proceeded towards this highly intimate activity.
Simple.🙂

CurlyGirl42 · Answer

I would be sceptical. But sometimes sex is very intimate and if he was really looking at me and present, I would be more convinced. It could be true, but I would anyway prefer that it would be said in another context.

bobalife · Answer

Caught in the moment lol. I've experienced that before during lovemaking with those type of thoughts, but I was just in the process of falling for him. I would want someone to tell me genuinely that he loves me.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Don't believe a damned thing anybody tells you when their clothes are in a pile on the floor!

smilinjackal · Answer

I would not beleive it but women do.

Hangry22 · Answer

I will not have sex without hearing those 3 words and 8 letters from his mouth

Wade8888 · Answer

I wouldn't be having sex before some sort of marriage arrangement, so this wouldn't be a problem. If we haven't' already said "i love you" to one another and meant it, then we woudln't be getting married or having sex.

In any case you shouldn't be having sex with anyone who doesn't love you, and you shouldn't be having sex with anyone who doesn't exhibit Agape and Charity type of love either.

A man should be wiling to take a bullet for his girlfriend or wife, or even a complete stranger who is a woman... or even give his body to be burned to save her life.

If your "partner" doesn't exhibit those qualities, dump him and find someone who does.

1stranger · Answer

Caught up in the moment.. for the first time...

iseekpinetrees · Answer

Id believe them. Its only words anyways saying and showing it is two different things and sex isn't love to me.

dezzydoodles · Answer

i think it would be just caught up in the moment, bc especially if they have never said it before then all of a sudden during sex "i love you" what they mean is i love the fact you agreed and now sexually satisfying me and my sex wants and needs, but after i will never say it again.

FlyGirl95 · Answer

Love comes in many forms. For this moment they love you. But in other moments they may not. It is our job as the recipient of this expression of love to interpret the Motive of communication. I for one tell my friends I love them all the time. Similarly I tell my kids I love them. The context means a lot. But ultimately it is our heart that connects to the circumstance. We shouldn’t have to interpret the love if it is real. ❤️

Zooooooooom · Answer

Basically caught up in the moment... At the time they are deep in the moment so they actually might say it...

summiter · Answer

Maybe they got caught up with a pending orgasm.

Newhead · Answer

It depends, you should kinda know if they've been treating you like they do love you, if not then they may be caught up in the moment. If that's not the case then maybe the D was good and she really was talking to him, not you, so mind your own business damn it. Ain't nobody here to see you, Otis.

Puppystarfish23 · Answer

I'd believe them. Me and my boyfriend are always telling each other we love one another during sex. Its a very loving act

JediMom · Answer

Caught up in the moment

Jean-Marie_Céline · Answer

I'd make a mental note to slip away as soon as possible and never turn back.

Dongtai · Answer

If her previous actions (outside of the bedroom) lineup with her words then yes.

If your partner told you they LOVED YOU for the first time during sex would you believe them or do you think they just got caught up in the moment?

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