Women are into being dominated generally speaking. Not necessarily to the same degree but the overwhelming majority of women prefer a man who is in control, your fetish's are just a magnification of those things. Could be that most men in your life are to tepid with you and as a result your desires for that assertive man is much higher then it would otherwise be, could be that you crave that in a boyfriend/relationship but your not getting it and your psychologically "compensating" for that lack of leadership/assertiveness on the back end i.. e through sex (I find this happens a lot, what you are not getting in your regular life comes up in your sex life more).
As for the DDLG, well that depends, what degree of it are you into? If your heavy into it and age play, it could be that you feel like your the one who is expected to lead to the point where you want to do the exact opposite in real life (again, women biologically are inclined to be followers (this is not meant as an insult or a judgment, but it is the reality of it. This is why women want assertive men, men who can be leaders because leaders provide and they protect and that is what women want, that security that comes from that).
For me I like being called daddy and maybe some light DDLG (not extreme, when you start getting into that age play it gets a bit too weird for me), but for me the reason is because I was deprived of a lot of that emotional connection, intimacy and affection in childhood so as a result I crave it in sex. As a man I like taking the lead, I like being in control and I like her submitting to me, but I'm not a fan of the force and violent aspects of it so while I could probably do some bondage (could be fun, I like teasing), I am not a fan of inflicting pain or anything like that, I want her to submit willingly to me out of love because again that is what I lacked in my childhood and now crave it in my sex life. So that could be another aspect to your fetish of DDLG, a domination but of a more intimate and loving nature (which I prefer).
So those are some possibilities.
I am definitely into some odd things which over time, I was able to ask the right questions to the right people to know their orgins.
I like seeing women wearing really big, loose, slouch socks from the 80s and 90s when they are pushed down and all bunched up around their ankles.
Also I have mixed feelings and reactions to seeing or riding with a woman who has trouble getting her car started, if her car shakes or vibrates excessively when the car is idling either at a red light or in park and if a woman has to keep her car from stalling while at a red light or when its idling in park.
I am content to explain how they started if you want to message me
Sure why not
Not really.
People often think that if someone’s into bdsm and/or the daddy kink, that’s resulting from ‘daddy issues’ or some other form of trauma.
If you look at the stats, though, you can see how these alleged daddy issues almost exclusively affect females who are white and living in North America. So uhhh.. yeah. Inconclusive. I’d wager kinks come about mostly as a result of the environment in which one grows up vs. being biologically predetermined.
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It can be compensative behavior for various control issues, anxieties, mostly.
For example, restrictive upbringing that may deprive one of intrinsic sense of control over life choices may promote sexually dominant behavior- having control over someone sexually is seen as compensation for the perceived lack of control in one's life.
Whereas submissive behaviors may be promoted by general feelings of anxiety, things getting out of hand in one's life, uncertainty in choices and future events.
In that case, being submissive may alleviate such anxieties, because the burden of responsibility is transferred to someone else.
Others find it weird because their subjective struggles may be the opposites.
Can't form an opinion until I have a lot of info about your upbringing and initial sexual experiences.
Ummm dad abandoned me Still a virgin Insecure af about how I'll be in bed and if I'm good in all sexual aspects Insecure about my body umm yea what else do u need to know here
You're finding your way.
Relax, don't rush it or overthink it.
Just be safe, whatever you do.
I often ask my self the same question? Mine's femdom hypnosis and female supremacy, which ideologically I totally disagree with, but it's still a super turn-on for me. I write short fiction for it it too, message me if interested.
The psychological angle is that sex is all about power (and everything else is all about sex, as the saying goes). Some say that people who feel powerful in daily life tend to be subs in the power exchange, and those who feel they lack power like to have it in the bedroom. Not always true, obviously, but the reasons that a person likes something don't always match with the reasons other people like the same thing.
Yea send me a text that sounds intresting
I'm into many questionable things. I like many forms of BDSM, too, including CGL (the role and gender neutral version of DDLG). Some things might be environmental (nurture) some might be genetic (nature). I think it's mostly genetic, for me. But whether it'd nature or nurture, I say embrace it.
I know what mean, I think its very erotic too
Well you like the things you like it is just natural.
Each to their own
There is nothing psychologically wrong with someone who’s into kink and kink culture. It is perfectly healthy. Find out what turns you on and pursue it!
That’s the beauty of nature, you know what turns you on and that’s attractive.
Different strokes for different folks... normal is a relative term.
I'm into the same things. It's just what we like
I don't know why people like what they like. My kink is exhibitionism.
And what is that exactly?
Having sex out doors, or even having sex around other people. It's about the thrill of being seen.
Omg I like that too!!!
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