I feel like in general guys should be confident enough to take the lead in most situation, but it's definitely nice when a girl is also confident to initiate.
It really just depends on the situation... where you're at, what y'all are doing, etc. But you can initiate with subtle things, like touching/rubbing his back or leg, initiating with kissing, or words too if you're comfortable with that. It's kinda hard to explain... it should just happen naturally in the moment, like vibing off the situation and going with the flow. Does that make sense at all?
Yeah I agree men should definitely be confident to mostly initiate. That's something a guy has to be able to do to even get me interested to begin with. But I feel like it would be nice from time to time to initiate the sex first so he feels desired. And to keep things interesting for him. Those are good ways to start! What kind of words? Lol. And yes it mostly makes sense. You helped a lot
I love it when a girl initiates it. I love it when she tells me what she is going to do to my body when we get naked. I say go for it (make sure you have tons of condoms) Telling the guy he is going to have sex will get him hard as a rock every time! Your thoughts?
They like fairness, so you have to meet them half way. They will love you for that.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Don't ask a guy how to initiate. Just initiate the way you want to initiate, that will make the moment genuine and not some negotiated protocol.
Yes men love when the right girl initiates.
I prefer it when the woman initiates sex, bc I at least know that it is something that she wants and is ok with, and that she isn't being pressured into it.
But that's just me.
A lot of guys like when girls initiate it. Some ways are to just relax on the couch, then jump on their lap and start kissing. Another way would be to greet them at the door in lingerie.
It's hot when the girl does it too because it further convinced us that she's attracted to us, that she wants us, that she lusts for us.
i like it when its not always just me
Yes a guy would like that from time to time
Very hot with the woman lets me know she wants me.
It's hot and meaningful when the girl initiates it too. And it doesn't have to be complicated. Just hug him and kiss him and tell him you want him.
Definitely both. It's very hot of she initiates.
Yes, I like both.
All but the most insecure newbie would be turned on if their girl initiated sex !
I like for you to climb on my chest and say come daddy lets do it now with a growl like a tiger LMAO That's how I like a girl to initiate sex with me :) :p
It is hot when the girl does it. The girls I have know that initiate it usually start touching in a sexy way and then take off the guy's clothes.
Yeah we find it hot when a woman takes charge every now and then.
Yes, I like when a girl initiates. Starting to make out with me and then unbuttoning by shirt or pants is a good way to initiate.
Sounds likeme everytime I have sex with my wife, she never starts anything so I'm always the inititor of sex, i'm always massaging my wifes nipples or kissing on her neck and that usually gets her going.
of course it is. consent is hot and there's no better consent than actively trying to get it xD
Yes you should.
Men are used to be lusted after. So when we feel wanted by a girl to the point she breaks the stereotyoe and makes a move... we melt!
Of course we still like to iniciate too.
Foreplay is an art. Women generally like to plan things out and take it slow. Find out what your guy likes, and if you don't have a guy, don't worry about it too much. I think most guys like it when a woman initiates sex, but then, I'm more into that than most guys are.
When girls do it is major turn on
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