Can we even still be friends?
A few months later, I was frustrated, so I finally asked him how he felt about me, as a person. He told me that I’m a close friend that he cares about and if we weren’t married, we would probably be together. We talked some more and agreed that nothing could happen. Then quarantine hit.
The picture requests got a little spicier and then the conversations. We talked a lot, shared a lot and found that we have way more in common in how we see life and other various things... especially sexually. Everything he’s into, I enjoy and his wife hates and vice versa.
After agreeing nothing would happen, and more quarantine discussions, we have uh, sent one another links to videos we thought one another would like during choice times in the day. Now I feel like the emotional affair (which was rough admitting already) has turned into a sexual affair, even though we’ve only hugged?
I tend to see him more since we work in the same building. We do spend time together for lunch and when I see him at work, we ONLY talk about work. No flirting, no off topic conversation, it’s only when we text and only ONCE in AWHILE. I find that when I do see him, my mind is wandering to things he’s said or visually thinking about them.
I tried to get our families and our sons together to see if we could be friends, this was before he told me how he felt. I don’t feel like we’re on the same page anymore and that my feelings are much stronger. I try to brush them aside every day. I just want to be friends but is it even possible any more?
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