Why do people pick on me and bully me and think that I'm less of a man for being a virgin at age 30?

So I've been rejected all my life and I can't seem to get anyone to date me. I tried tinder and I got no luck at all. People make fun of me for being a 30 year old virgin and say that I got no game. Some people even told me to go gay because they say that if you reach this age and got nowhere then you need to switch teams. Hearing that makes me feel bad because gay men actually wants me. I've been hit on by so many gay guys. I'm not gay I'm straight. I just don't understand why people associate my virginity status with my social status. I'm seen as a loser to a lot of people. Why do people make fun of me for being a virgin at this age? How does it make me less of a man?
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Superb Opinion

  • Those people have no brains in their skulls ignore them. Opinions like theirs are silly and you’d do well to just ignore it. You shouldn’t switch your sexual preference just because you’re a virgin. Keep reaching out to women that interest you and eventually you’ll find a good fit.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Stop the chase and invest in yourself. You're better off with a hooker anyway. If you have to struggle to get a woman then you're playing a rigged game. You don't play rigged games. You move away from them. By the way, ignore all female advice, here or anyone else. Women will never be honest with you.

  • i sometimes like to feel that women, not men, are the only gender that are owed or entitled to a date, relationship, sex, etc.

Most Helpful Girl

  • how do people know that U R a virgin? do U go around telling others that U R 1 ? if so then that is what U get for teling them personal stuff about yourself ! do U tell them what size U R down there too? try this - grow up and then shut up - ! thanks

    • those who R virgins until they R married and on their honeymoon R more mature then those who loose their virginity B for they R married ! those who do sex B for marriage R not mature enuFF to take care of their bodies so they let others do it for them ! thanks

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • How do they know you're a virgin? Do you have a sign on your back or do you tell them? If the latter then keep your mouth shut. It's no one's business but yours.

    Why do people pick on me and bully me and think that I'm less of a man for being a virgin at age 30?
  • Dude, nobody picks on you or bullies you. Because literally nobody in the world gives a fuck if you are a virgin or not. The only reason they would even know in the first place is if you bring it up.

  • You whining like this makes you less of a man, not because I am against men showing emotions, but the way you whine as if people owe you something or as if you're seeking sympathy. Stop trying so hard to get laid and just relax, even if you're ugly physically, that is never the reason you don't get p... y. It's your energy, it's desperate and entitled.

  • Lift heavy care lite

  • Another reminder of something I can't stand