Are there still guys that would date someone without having sex?

Question

I'm just going, to be honest, and get straight to the point. Sex is normal for teens and adults. As long as you're responsible for it and are old enough to know the risks and consequences, what's the deal? Around my age is when we start questioning sexuality, drugs, and who we are as people.

Although I technically pansexual, but I am very close to being a lesbian. I only find two types of guys attractive. The thing is, I want a relationship, but I can't seem to do anything sexual with a guy. Everything about a male's genitalia just makes me uncomfortable and grossed out. It makes dating hard as we all know that sex is important in a relationship, whether you like it or not.

Of course, I wouldn't mind my partner seeing other people to deal with the sex issue, but I still feel as it would be weird for us to do so. Basically, what I'm asking is how do you deal with these types of issues so you can have a good relationship?

ohshee · Accepted Answer

Well you find a guy that is your age and see the world the SAME way you do and then you don't HAVE to worry about that until your older and wiser you don't need to grow up before your time keep thinking keep using your head keep gaining knowledge your very Smart but stay a kid am long as you can ,,, one day everything you just said. Your going to have to deal with it oneway or another but that's when it's right in front of you

slatyb · Accepted Answer

Why don't you have a relationship with another woman? You no longer have to marry a man to gain social acceptance.

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

A lot (though not all) Christian virgins are willing to wait. Theyre still usually closet freaks but at least they dont often pressure you to do something before you ready

Quackthulu · Accepted Answer

Do you buy milk just to let it sit in the fridge till it goes bad too?

phorse · Answer

I don't mind if there isn't any sex in the relationship. Not because of preferences or personal beliefs. I just don't need it that much. Having a supportive partner, who has a fun personality is much more important to me.

ChrisMike1919 · Answer

I am that one guy. That's why I'm single af

Alexandrubaschet08 · Answer

Ther are not guys who don't want sex. All guys want sex.

FýrdracaDócincel · Answer

Only guys who were raised via the Jesus method.

_no_one_ · Answer

I am asexual then.

okeydoke · Answer

Why not just stick to datimg women?

jahaims · Answer

Depends on why we aren't having sex

Mijopapi215 · Answer

Only stupid ones.

Twalli · Answer

I wait up to 2 yearsfir a girl to be comfortable enough for sex. I think being comfortable together while naked is important before having sex.

Filip127 · Answer

Yes, for example me.

Torari · Answer

Relationships without sex are just friendship with extra obligations.

Valnac · Answer

Probably not

AFellowWeeb · Answer

Hmmm, funny thing, but when i was around 12-13 i would think girls vaginas were kinda nasty too 🤔. You will change a lot.

GAGSucksBalls1 · Answer

Then isn't that just a "friendship"?

WalkingBassist · Answer

Um. If all the women have to offer, that's why we're not dating. MGTOW

Sampan2017 · Answer

I think you can openly discuss about your sexulality and what you feel with your partner

bclbn77006 · Answer

yea. dating is not always sex. if I like someone I would prefer to spend some quality time with her but that doesn't mean I want sex from her.

Anonymous · Answer

I think you just didn't find the person to feel comfortable with that is all. I am grossed by my own genitalia as well and wanted to be a woman many times. Besides that you should still wait many years to have sex since you are just too young. FInally to answer your question yes there are guys who would date someone without having sex for years and years.