What’s the longest you’ve had a friends with benefits and how regularly did u see each other?

for me it’s been six years and counting.
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  • I can't say exactly, but he was my favorite partner as of now. It was a chill ass black man (from Jamaica but Americanized) that iv met on tinder, he was attractive, tall, buff and funny / fun which is why we kept in contact with each other for almost half a year. Of course the first time you have sex with someone its awkward as you don't know each others bodies yet but after the third or so time we understood what each other liked, and i really appriated how he actually got my interracial fetish and knew how to talk dirty during sex.

    Although our meet ups declined, it went from us seeing each other almost daily the first 2 months, to seeing each other every other day like 3 or 4 times a week, to us only meeting once a week when we had free time. We sort of ghosted each other and sex ended up just being mutual masturbating with each others body before we eventually ghosted each other.

    • I had a very similar story with an African American guy too.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Well technically I started dating a friends with benefits and we’ve been together 3 years so does that count?

    • Of course it does. Happy you end up together.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I have 2.

    1 for 5 years, we used to meet every Thursday during lunch time till last April when she was laid off work. Now see her once or twice per week.

    The 2nd one, been with her for 3 years, see each other once per month.

  • Friends with benefits? You mean, one with a health or insurance plan?

    • What?

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  • Mmm..
    About a year.
    Saw each other a couple times a week depending on our work schedule.

  • Nine inches.

  • I don’t do friends with benefits.

  • 10 years now and counting. Wouldn’t trade him for the world.

  • Friends w benefits lasted about 2 years

  • Maybe 2 to 3 years

  • My current 18 year old friend with benefits dince April. At least two or three times s week.

  • 3-4 years and maybe 2 times in a week

  • Some of my FWBs I have known for 3-4 years. We date and fuck almost every week.

    • Do you have friends with benefits at the same time?

    • Yes, have had a number of FFM DATES. Really love it when one rides my cock and the other my face

  • 8 months was the longest.

  • i wish i had one but not in this life time i am to nice and have way to high of a sex drive

  • friends with benefits, is for losers

    • Well, it's your opinion.

    • nah, it's fact

  • thats dam good going.

    do u have just one or multiple

    do u have a boyfriend as well

    • I have only one friends with benefits. Whenever I'm in a relationship I don't see him.

    • so u not had relationship for 6 years then?

    • I did. But as I said whenever I'm on a relationship I don't see him. Means I broke with my exes and we saw each other again.

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  • I've had a few one that lasted off and on about 6 years another that was steady for 2 years and two under a year

  • My current friends with benefits, 4 years, 2 to 3 times a week and most weekends.

  • i had one for twenty years, with a three year time out while she had a short marriage

  • That's a boyfriend that don't like you. I've had lady's I'm friends with I was kind of seeing on and off. I don't know what friend with benefits is really.

    • Nah we're not dating. I don't like him either I used to be in love with him a few years ago then he fell in love with me too but we could never date because our lives are opposite and I live in a different country

    • I don't get it. Move on

    • Why should I move on? Is not like I'm stuck in a toxic relationship. I've had relationships during those 6 years and when I have a boyfriend I don't see him.

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  • Never had one

  • 5 years and minimum once a week but many times we hang out and meet up a lot more. Pm me if u wanna go into more detailed talks back and forth about it