Is asking your male coworkers what part on a females body do you find the most attractive sexual harassment?

I asked them are you a thigh, boob, butt etc. guy

This was a long time ago but never thought of it as sexual harassment but maybe it is.. lol you tell me?
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  • The way to decide if anything is sexual harassment is to ask yourself "If the roles were reversed, would this be sexual harassment?" And you'll have your answer.

    • I wouldn't care honestly and it was discussed with other workers females but still not something I find creepy. Saying my personal preferences isn't creepy to me.

  • Not appropriate but not sure if that is harassment unless you are their boss.

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  • It can be especially if that's not exactly an appropriate question a man wants to answer. At the same time if he is not that type of guy, you're ready going to make him feel like you're trying to make a pass at him and he's not going to feel comfortable with that. Asking that type of question in the workplace is highly inappropriate and I can leave to get you and him if not particularly him in trouble. If anybody was to ask me that question I would suggest that they would never ask me that question again. anybody in their right mind will find it weird.

  • Harassment is, by definition, 1. unwelcome and 2. repeated. If they tell you to stop, and you stop, you're fine- at least on the harassment point. It's still not exactly work-appropriate conversation. If it doesn't bother them, or you, that's fine, but be careful who overhears you- and remember that a person may not be comfortable with it, but not say anything.

  • If he wanted to he could certainly take it up to HR. That’s definitely inappropriate conversation for the workplace and could be considered sexual harassment.

    • thank you, if I guy asked you what part of a guy he you liked, how would you respond?

    • @gausslu I’d probably tell him to fuck off

  • No, but professionally inappropriate. It's just not cool to have those types of conversations with co-workers or in the workplace.

    IF an individual informed you they were offended by the question and you persisted, THEN it's sexual harassment.

  • I don't think it's sexual harassment unless the guy tells you get doesn't like you asking him thisOtherwise it's nicely flirty imho - and tbh I wouldn't even mind if you asked me more intimately personal questions

  • Yes, it could be construed as sexual harassment.

  • Could be, depending on the circumstances. A woman in my office, told a supervisor that she thought I had a nice body. Not a word was said. She and I were dating and still are. Again, depends on the circumstances and the tone of your office

  • Only for a snowflake ❄

  • Sexual harassment is any unwanted sexual remark, sexual advance, or sexual favor. It could be sexual harassment but it would depend on the guy. Personally it wouldn't be for me unless the answer to the question would somehow be detrimental to my job.

  • it is, but mans like it. :)

  • Oh my WORD! Someone take me over to the fainting couch and grab my smelling salts! I'm SCANDALIZED that you could even THINK about asking something like that!

    BoobMan is SHOCKED by such a question!

  • It could be considered as such

  • Well... are you guy close friends? and did he answer? I've been asked that so many times at work... I don't find it offensive at all... if you are both close friends shouldn't matter :)

  • It can be but not really.

  • It's only sexual harassment if you comment on parts of her body or touch unwantedly.

  • Being female you can say, ask, anything. The men in your office are IDIOTS if they answer you. In fact the men in your office should avoid you completely.

  • No it not that really not bad at all

  • If it isn’t, it’s pretty close!

  • No one cares what guys think. You can ask that all day. Maybe other girls might get huffy.

  • No it's not

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