Are men supposed to have with women ONLY when women are horny?

Or, can men have sex with women, with their woman isn't horny, too
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title should say "have sex"
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what i mean is, why does it seem like men are only allowed to have sex... when she WANTS IT
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  • Depends largely. Some women will just let you do your thing, some women get into the mood, some women will make sure your sexual needs are taken care off even if they aren't feeling it.

    Are men supposed to have with women ONLY when women are horny?

    A few examples of mine would be last week when I couldn't sleep and it was 4 in the morning and I had a huge erection as she was rubbing her butt up against as she slept wearing a little thing in bed. I woke her up to see if she wanted sex and told her I couldn't sleep. She just said she was too tired so do my thing quickly because she was tired and she went back to sleep, so I pulled her thong to the side and got on top. Didn't take me long and I dont know if she was awake or asleep or just in-between but she give me a cuddle after I came.
    Another time was last year when I was on my way out to a bachelor party, I told her there would be no strippers or prostitutes but we were going to an Asian massage parlour first then stripper bar, anyway she was getting ready to go to a family thing at the same time I was leaving but before I got out the door she insisted that I drop my pants and then proceeded to give me a blowjob. Apparently she thought it a bad idea for me to go to an alcohol fueled bachelor party with a "loaded gun". she's done stuff like this before even giving me a lapdance before going out for a night out with pals.

    Are men supposed to have with women ONLY when women are horny?

    She does that all the time before a big night out. One time I ended up being late for drinks with friends because she called me upstairs and when I got up stairs she was masturbating with a new vibrator.

    Are men supposed to have with women ONLY when women are horny?

    Often my girl when she's on her period feels bloated and will give me a handjob or blowjob but sometimes she will have me jerk off to her tits or her ass. Like on her last period she had a real sore bloated stomach so bent over face down in the pillow ass sticking up and encouraged me just to jerk off. Other times its been just her with her tits out telling me to cum all over them. I get a lot of handjobs & blowjobs when she's on her period. Sometimes when she's on her period she likes to masturbate in a hot bath and will call me in just to have me watch and jerk off. Sometimes she wants me to do her when she's on her period.

    Are men supposed to have with women ONLY when women are horny?Are men supposed to have with women ONLY when women are horny?

    she's also from time to time sent nude pics or videos of herself when we've been apart. I remember onetime she came home from her aunt's funeral to find me jerking off with my laptop, she teased me and wanted to see what I was jerking off too, she was very surprised and bemused to find that it was a video of her masturbating that she made me. She put the video up on the 50 inch TV and jerked me off while I watched.

Most Helpful Guy

  • When you’re in a committed relationship and you both live each other, it’s not that hard to get in the mood.
    On the other hand, if one party categorically isn’t really into it, I don’t see why the other would want to continue to push for sex. This is where the mutual understanding and compromise part comes into play in a successful relationship.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Because if she doesn’t want it then he can’t force her. That is rape. So yeah, if she doesn’t want it and doesn’t consent to it then he can’t have sex with her. Simple. That’s the whole point of consent.

    • I think he means that the girl consents but the girl is not horny

    • Or not, wtf did i just read

    • He said why can men only have sex if a girl wants it lol I had to reread it to make sure I was reading it right because it’s amazing that some men actually think like that lol

  • Is this a serious question? Like are you such a piece of shit you have somehow made it to 31 without understanding how consent works?

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • If she consents to sex, it means she's horny... if she doesn't consent, no you can't just "take her" you're not a caveman

    • So, basically, a man can only have sex, if she's horny

    • Man can only have sex with a woman if she consents, try that mentality instead please

  • Both parties wanting to have sex seems like a good deal to me. It'd be kinda weird if only one party benefits.

  • You can attempt to turn her on with flirting but after that if she is completely not turned on guess its over then

    • Sorry I'm pretty sure that how it works the same way she only gets sex if u want it

  • Definitely not

  • if you're good enough at "getting them horny", you can get away with anything.

  • It goes both ways most of the time.