If you agreed to something casual why would a guy not agree to more sex soon after but still text?

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So you’re both moving away soon, you’ve spoken for months and are very physically attracted to each other do agree to sharing some pleasure together before leaving the country for careers.
Why would someone only want sex once and not again for the last couple of weeks if they’re going to keep texting?

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AustinMan Influencer
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Maybe the sex wasn't all that good though given your description, I doubt that. Maybe the connection just wasn't what he imagined. Not your fault.
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- Asker
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  Yeah I’m old enough now to not take it personally when the connection just isn’t there, I get that.
- Asker
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  So the continued initiation of contact is thirst? Boredom? Loneliness?
- AustinMan
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  Not sure. Ask him.
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- Asker
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  He’s unlikely to admit to any of those.
- AustinMan
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  You don't know that until you ask him.

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loooooop Xper 5
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Maybe he doesn't mind not having sex that much
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- Asker
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  True, that's v we y possible. But what if he does?
- Asker
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  *very
- loooooop
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  Then he doesn't mind not having sex with you.
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- Asker
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  Yeah I gathered that much, I'm interested in the why.
- loooooop
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  You could be bad at sex, he's just not that into it, maybe he's busy or stressed, he could've made arrangements with someone else. It could really be anything.
- Asker
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  Yeah. He said he really enjoyed it so I'd hope he wouldn't lie.
- Asker
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  So then why text (and sext)?
- loooooop
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  Probably best to ask him
havingfun101 Explorer
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- Asker
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  So why continue contact?
- havingfun101
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  Just in case
- Asker
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  You mean in case there are no other options... leave nothing over to interpretation, best to be clear. 😉
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- havingfun101
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  Where's the fun it that, Mrs. Sidechick?
- Asker
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  The fun is in intimacy, if you communicate well you’re rewarded more. Have you been in many relationships? Lol
- havingfun101
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  Ambiguity is a potential communication modifier. I've passed up many beautiful women and accepted no one. Women aren't worth the financial and legal risks. Marriage, cohabitation, sex and childbirth rates are at all time lows.
- Asker
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  Well each to their own. But the risks are worth it with the right people. The majority of my friends are happily married (men and women).
- havingfun101
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  TL;DR: only for women and fat betas Women file 75% of divorces, get custody in 90% of cases, child support or alimony arrears in a certain amount is a felony and she can falsely accuse him at will without punishment. 70% of American men ages 20-34 aren't married and women lose 90% of their eggs by age thirty.
- Asker
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  That’s BS. Sorry life has been so shot for you. Best thing you could do is try and change it but I get that not everyone can.
- Asker
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  *shit
- havingfun101
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  TL;DR: "statistics, who hurt you?" I've passed up so many attractive women that I'm something of a walking meme at this point.
Anonymous
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Something bothered him when they were having sex that's why he's not wanting more
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- Asker
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  Would he likely still tell her it was good if that were the case?
- Opinion Owner
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  Definitely be would