Would you ever give your partner a "hall pass" for one reason or another?

[pink_baby]

Hall pass = letting them sleep with anyone they want for a period of time.

If you would, what reason would you do it for?

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Yea as a one time thing. Like if you had a chance to do it one time with someone neither of you would ever see again and they're just the person out of your dreams (maybe they're really hot or into something weird) why not?

If I can't trust someone to see me as their priority and still have the same level of relationship after they have meaningless sex with someone then I don't think I want to be in a relationship with that person.

Honestly, the amount of weight people put on sex makes them so shallow.

[broken_heart_at_48]

Fair is fair. If my SO was wanting to hook up with someone all she'd have to do would be to tell me what's up and be able to accept that if she gets a pass then I get a pass. As long as everything is up front and honest and safe I have no problem with it. Sex and love don't always go hand in hand. Sex can just be sex and if she loves me and I'm confident in our sex life then I figure she's just gonna have some fun but we have a commitment so she's coming home after same as me. If she thinks she found something better then move on because she's not who she was supposed to be anyways.

[ragequeen]

If I was really sick or going through a phase where he was approaching me and I always refused, I would maybe consider it. Because I know how important sex can be and how much a person can need it. But it would take a lot of thinking and soul searching. And I would have to know who it was with for std and openness reasons. To be honest though, Im the one with the high sex drive in the relationship so I doubt that would happen. If he wants sex he has me. It's not like he is lacking. And if that starts to happen, we will see. But my boyfriend would never let me get a hall pass 😂

[CrazyGirl2]

No! My boyfriend is free to fuck whoever he wants, whenever he wants... He just has to break-up with me first! But, if he doesn’t, I’m happy to break up with him after, at no cost to you, the consumer!

[EyeAmNiceGirl]

I would give a hall pass only if I sort of also wanted one. My senior-year (high school) boyfriend and I gave each other permission to date other people when we went to different colleges; we didn't call it a hall pass, but that was basically what it was. I agreed (might have even been the one who brought it up) because I knew there would probably be opportunities to date that I might want to take, and was willing to take the risk that he might get an opportunity of his own. And yes, I did get asked out by some guys I wanted to go out with, and I accepted the dates. Some were just dates, and others, well, um, lets just say by the time Thanksgiving break happened, I wasn't a virgin anymore. (And after Thanksgiving break, my HS boyfriend wasn't a virgin anymore, either.)

[purplepoppy]

I think it's ok for special occasions such as a stag party or Christmas

[Hangry22]

Nope never

[charon142]

depends on the partner. some people love each other so much that they can't live without the other person but also they don't feel good having sex with each other in that situation I'm totally ok with it

[psychoticanimallover]

Sure.

I’d do it because I’m a nice person. I wouldn’t want to be a bitch and not let
him sleep with other women like those other possessive, selfish whores.

[DevikaButts95]

I don't particularly mine them doing anything with others, so long as they stay healthy and I'm the priority.

[ShortCircuit]

Absolutely not, and if she had the audacity to ask for one, I would dump her on the spot.

[wankiam]

whenever she wanted as long as i get to watch ;)

[Miristheiss]

Nope.
I'd divorce if she ever expected to or did have sex with anyone else.

[Finchie40]

No , if my partner valued me as I valued her then no need to go fuck someone else

[nodnol32]

Nope.

[TeeBar]

The would make the 'partner' just a transient "friend with benefits" not a real partner.

[sheikalana]

I don't see myself agreeing with that.

[Wubs3000]

Hell no except in like the circumstance that I'm like dying of cancer and bedridden or maybe a very prolonged ldr.

[JustinTheGreat]

Hell no

[Kabluie]

I'd rather just start out with the relationship being non-mono or poly, instead of playing with the hall pass card. That way it's not just limited on a time basis. You might find a second lover, or someone excellent entering your life months or years later and want to have sex with them.

[Makeushiver]

Excuse me, could I get a hall pass from you?

[Andres77]

She has a favorite boyfriend from her young wild days.
If he ever comes to the US to visit we're going to propose a MFM threesome as a reunion and it's something that we've always wanted to try... but she'd only do it with a guy that she had confidence in.
But a free hall pass to do whatever? We've agreed that if we ever wanted someone else we'd do it together. That's where we are.

[Horny-ashell]

Yes as long as I had the same opportunity.

[Ilittles]

Never. Even if i cheated ( which i won't) . I would promtly end the relationshop before making it worse.