Thus fear is completely normal and you have nothing to be shamed of. You should never have sex with a guy unless your comfortable. If any guy your dating gets mad or pressure you, he's not worth dating anyway. I promise you there are guys out there who will love you for you, and will love your body too, but they won't love you for your body. When you meet someone like that and you're with them long enough that you've developed a trust, you'll know when you're ready and he'll respect your decision.
0 0 0 0Sorry, I only read the first third before giving my response. I just saw you said you rediscovered your faith! That's awesome! I'm also a believer and for me that means saving myself for marriage. If you're convicted to wait as well, know there are guys out there who are believers and will love you for making that choice!
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Well believing in god is really good but if it makes you hate something that's not good anymore if you read the history correctly god wants you to do what your brain tells you is best if he wanted all humanity to go in only one way the life would become boring for everyone.
you need some time to change your mind about sex if you believe you need it in your life but if you feel great just having a relationship you don't need to have any fear about not having sex0 0 0 0
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0 8Thats shows u are clearly not ready to be in a new relationship because u still think everyone man is just like your ex
0 0 0 0What happened to you is very real and very common. And I'm very sorry. I believe in abstinence before marriage, and that is one of the main reasons why.
0 0 0 0Well perhaps that meaningless sex doesn't appeal to you, for many reasons as you've stated. Perhaps when you find "The One" the sex will be amazing and you will actually feel comfortable safe and respected.
1 0 0 0If you're looking for something for more long-term in a relationship for you I was just think about what you want want and go for it but you will fail so you can't be afraid to fail start first off the friend of guy and see what he's like and go from there
0 0 0 0I’m tired of hearing girls complain that they were used for sex only.
Why can’t girls use guys for sex only.0 0 0 01st.. no one is disposable... it was not a failure on your part, he was a failure... he was the "broken" person, I doubt you will ever meet another like him, you are wiser now. You aren't disposable and never were... he was a creep, and that's not "your baggage" to carry, that's his issue... Go on with your life, you are wiser now...
0 0 0 0So what are you trying to say?
0 0 0 0How do you begin healing?
I have tried to heal by forgiving, trying to forget, trying to stay single or trying to force myself to move on. And I can’t because I have a fear now that I can’t have a real connection. I have a phobia of falling in love and I simply didn’t use to be like this
Just fuck with someone
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