It can be many reasons why a lady can't cum first it could be the problem with the women or the man
1 some ladies take forever to cum
2 a lot of ladies need foreplay
3 if you are going to please your lady the gspot and the clit are the best places when i eat out my girls i rub her g spot in a round motion and in a good tempo not too fast not too slow and keep the speed on a standard while i lick the insides of her vagina go in deep etc and use my other hand to finger her aswell and try to reach her g spot so that she has constant stimulation and intense euphoria and i start out slow and up the tempo until i find a good speed that fits her and i keep going until i either get tired or she orgasms note that some women even after eating them out for a hour will not cum because either they are mentally not oke or no foreplay has happened
4 if you cum too fast yourself as a man this is a problem but u can fix it by eating the girl out
5 if she's not into you or she has a kink she isn't telling you then her not cumming isn't your fault but hers for not being real or honest with you or herself
He need her trust. She needs to feel secure to relax and reach her climax.
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If she's never had one then its most likely due to the fact that she is not getting the right type of stimulation that she needs to orgasm or there is something psychological holding her back," the center of a women's orgasmic universe is her clitoris. The best way to make her orgasm is to use your fingers, mouth/tounge, or both or a vibrator or a combination of on her clit.
Some women like it when you play with the other end (anal area) as well at the same time. Its also wise to find her g spot to stimulate along with her clit. More woman orgasm from clitoris stimulation rather then sexual penetration. But she needs to be completely relaxed and comfortable make sure you let her know this is all about pleasuring her. Make certain that she does not feel pressured. You need to keep reassuring herIt usually takes a good 20 minutes or longer of clit stimulation before a woman can orgasm. If all else fails she should masterbate and get to know her body so that she knows what feels good and what it is that her body needs to have done to it in order to each an orgasm.
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If a woman cannot cum its probably because mentality she isn't ready for it. She's anxious. She's tense. She's not in the right mindset.
A woman that hadn't cum before needs the slow build up, like sensual kissing and caressing. Non sexual massages.
Neck kisses. Sensual massages, focused on leading up to the pleasure zones. Slowly leading up to caressing those sweet spots. He needs to be able to read her body...
He needs to see the subtle body cues.
Back arching heavier breathing, flushes on the skin n face. The sense of yearning, that builds intensity..
If all else fails blind fold and get a vibrator.
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Alright, I'm kidding. But jokes aside.
I noticed you valued trust as mho, and yes of course trust is important and should be there. But for an orgasm for a girl like that, mental stimulation is most important.
Patience, interested in actually pleasing her, asking what she needs
her trust in him.
I think it's TRUST 😶
To open her legs?
I won't need anything. I'mma make her bust regardless. I get off from that.
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Not sure I follow the question... women orgasm, it’s not about a man allowing such a thing to occur.
Clitoral stimulation but not too direct. Anything that gets the tissues moving together is amazing, but too much right on it is painful. Well painful isn't really the sensation, but it's like touching a raw nerve.
I got 1 word for you.. Lubrication!! Lol
@Smurphanie that helps, but DCS is too intense for me, especially right after O.
Womem are wired to be more into emotional connection and need more foreplay before sex however every woman is different and the only one who can tell you what they need is the woman in question
Nothing. If she can’t cum the man is shit or she isn’t attracted to him or just not in the mood
feedback about what's working for her
More like she needs something from him to make her orgasm.
Direction she should tell him were it feels better if they should go fast hard soft slow if she likes being bit choked hair pulled etc. So the one thing honesty and my opinion.
All i need is 5 minutes and her panties off
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I don't think it's the woman who should placate the man for her to receive pleasure. But it might help if she lets him know, in a subtle way, when he is on the right path.
I believe that it's the man's responsibility. Using myself as an example - if my woman doesn't have an enjoy, have an orgasm, then it's not enjoyable for me either and I'm actually embarrassed.
To lust for him... If she lust for him, she'll always cum whether they have sex or not. Trust 😉
Patience while he's sucking and slurping away...
Seriously...
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