Can men and women ever 'just be friends' without there ever being a sexual aspect/attraction?

Obviously talking about two straight people here.
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  • I've had pletonic girlfriends that I've gone clubbing with, out for meals, and other social events and intimacy was never an issue.
    I believe it worked because neither of us was what the other found sexually attractive.
    It only became an issue when we did start dating someone. Then jealousy from the third party became a problem.

Most Helpful Guy

  • I have many female friends and I have a sexual attraction to almost all of them. At some point or another, I have probably jerked off to half of them. But I don't do the crush thing. I don't get jealous if they get a boyfriend. I invite her boyfriend to the party and make him my best friend. Of course, I have sexual attraction. She is a girl.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I have been friends with a guy since back in grade school. Friends nothing more. If he has ever thought more of our friendship he has kept it to himself.

  • Yes it is possible. One of my best friends when I was a teenager was a boy and we are both straight. We never had sexual thoughts about each other.

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  • Yes.
    I'd say my friends are pretty much 50/50 split, male and female. I dont want to bone any of them.

    • Do you think any of them want to bone you?

    • Nope

  • I got a lot of friends that are girls

  • I was friends with a divorced man , spent the night with him and such but we never had sex ! thanks

  • Of course we can and they're really kind of a very special type of relationship

  • Yep, definitely. My ex is actually one of my best friends

  • Yes most definitely I have quite a few female friends all tho some are just so hot especially if they have the figure. That being say to be honest I have had thought of more but I would never won't to do something that might jeopardise the friendship that I have made with them.

  • Only if they’ve never dated

  • It all depends on whether or not they're attracted to one another.

  • How this is even a question to some people is absolutely beyond me. The logical conclusion of this question would be that every human being will always be sexually attracted to pretty much EVERY SINGLE member of my sexually prefered gender. Are you aware of this insane conclusion? This would mean that I, for instance, would feel sexually attracted to every single female adult (who's not my mom, sister, etc.)...
    Does nobody ever think these things through?

    • Also, this would mean that every single mixed gender friendship that has ever existed is lying. Every single one of them. is bullshitting. I have female friends. They're just friends. Am I lying?

    • And what about two gay people? They can be just friends? Seriously people, start thinking this stuff through.

  • Yes, they can

  • Absolutely yes.

    I have many female friends that I'm not sexually attracted to.

  • Never

  • Only if the girl is ugly.

  • Of course they can! In my ROTC battalion I have a really nice female friend who I get along with magically, but we are very comfortable keeping it there. Now, she's pretty, don't get me wrong about that, but I feel no desires to start anything romantic or sexual with her. At the most, I'd want to get a hug from her, because that's what friends do.

  • Absolutely yes.