My boyfriend cums then stops before I do so Is this normal?

[Anonymous]

After my boyfriend cums he stops and sex is over. I sometimes can cum before him sometimes not. Is this normal that girls don't cum during sex?

[TonyV]

Well from what I've heard from other women yes it's kind of normal that the woman dosent come but not for that reason, he's being selfish and inconsiderate.

When girls say they dont cum it's usually more like the guy tries his best but dosent know how to get her there, the girl most likely fakes an orgasm to spare his feelings.

I dont think most guys just do what they need to get there's, bust a nut then ignore the girl.

Dudes being a selfish dick.

[TonyV]

Sometimes it's hard to get the woman off but he should at least try. If he knows he's easy to please and he cares at all about you having a good time too then maybe he need to spend more time eating you out, fingering you or playing with your nipples to get you close before his dick ever gets any attention. I'd feel like shit if I knew she didn't get to orgasm.

[Asker]

Oh I thought it was kinda normal

[TonyV]

Well to be fair, I dont sleep with men so I dont know what most of them do lol. Tbh I dont sleep with anyone, but I wouldn't leave my girlfriend hanging like that. I did have a "one night stand" with one girl, I fingered her and played with her nips till she organized but then she didn't even give me a handy, she just want ed to go to bed, so I know the feeling of being left hanging, it sucks lol

[Asker]

Ya my friends say their bfs do that lots but try to get them off I guess we ok if we dont always get off I don't know

[pierre7i]

He sounds like a totally selfish self-entitled guy and he clearly has no sexual skills at allif I were you tell him you'll no longer be sexual with him unless he treats you with more respect and learns how to make love to you properly (including foreplay !!!)

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend will eat me out until I'm just on the edge of orgasm, and then he'll fuck me. I'm usually able to cum that way, but if not, I just tell him it didn't work, and he'll go back to eating me out until I cum. But you have to be willing to communicate with him and let him know what's going on. If you do, and he still doesn't take care of you, then you need to either get rid of him, or find a fuck buddy on the side.

[heatherlou]

Its completely normal for people to reach climax at different times. It is however complete inconsiderate for him to consider it game over when he's cum. If he's not got you there beforehand, I'd definitely want him to get me off one way or another after.

[Hogwheels]

Its common, but it's not good. Have you talked with him about it. If he won't have sex in such a way that he's satisfying you as well even after you talked with him about it, then I just know that lack of care for you exists in other areas of the relationship. That means he's a shitty boyfriend.

[Hogwheels]

If you have talked to him about it and he hasn't changed yet, then he's not going to. Find a guy that's right for you.

[Hogwheels]

To clarify, if he cums fast from penetration, he can't control that, but he should give you plenty of foreplay before hand to get YOU ready to orgasm during penetration before or around the same time he does.

[Quackthulu]

Is it normal for a guy to have no idea what he is doing in the bedroom... Yeah sadly that's pretty common.

[White_Widow]

Hehe lol, sadly this is so true.

[Red_Arrow]

Guys usually cum faster and usually have a waiting period before they can go again. If they are worth anything they will makes sure she cums first so he can be sure she cums.

[ohshee]

That is called messed up and selfish. You have to make this rule he needs to make it all about you he needs to tease you seduce you and get you. RED HOT A then he needs to make you cum and now he can start making love having sexy fucking what ever. He wants to call it as long as he makes you scream Steveeee. Um. So I think I Mean. scream yessss. Lol

[psychoticanimallover]

You’re responsible for your own orgasm, Dana. Get a vibrator. Use it.

[Bat-Perv]

I used to date a girl that when we first got together said she loved anal, it was only about 2 years later she told me she didn't like it and that it hurt. Point is communicate with your boyfriend.
I remember when I was inexperienced and had just cum prematurely with an older college girl when she was riding on top of me. She was close, so what she did was rub her clit until she came still on top of me.

[Agape93]

You have a shitty partner

[chriscdi]

girls dont cum during sex? nah you dont cum during sex, i know lots of girls that cum during sex, it all depends on the guy i guess

[Sam_The_Savage]

If girls don't cum than your guy is asshole

[Andres77]

It's normal when girls date immature selfish assholes, yes. That's very common.
Now you're dating a considerate man he'll make sure you cum before he even sticks his dick inside of you.
Does he go down on you at all?

[REALSTEEL]

for most men depending on whats going threw hus mind at the moment

[sarasubmis]

He should be putting your orgasm first, or take care of you after he's done cumming. Some girls it can be more difficult to orgasm during sex, so oral is necessary.

[Wiredone]

There are times when my woman can't cum during sex. If she doesn't cum during sex I will give her an orgasm orally. After all, both partners should cum right.

[Trooper205]

Guys can go one round and tucker out. It's very common.

Girls on the other hand can go for multiple. It's very amazing.

[Meldrum]

Find another boyfriend. This one doesn't have a clue what having sex is. He can get the same satisfaction by spending money on prostitutes.

[Twalli]

Only a few girls can cum from penetration. If it seriously causes you problems you can try a vibrator or vibrating cock ring. My sister says the latter is amazing. I haven't tried sex with either yet, so I don't know how it feels for the guy when you use them.

[Whtevernever]

Its normal that men do this. I think its criminal.

[In_Trance]

It's normal for guys who dunno what they're doing

[OddBeMe]

More experienced sexers can control when he cums and makes sure she does plenty.

[Valnac]

It’s called a little blue pill.