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Why did he cum after only putting in the tip?

So me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year now, i was never ready for full on penetration sex. (I was still a virgin) However, this situation kind of concerned me. We had a little bit of foreplay, he asked me to turn around and after a lot of tries he put in only the tip. He did not thrust however, just kept being still. 15/30 seconds later he already came, is this normal? Especially since he is someone who had a lot of sexual partners and experience. Thankyou for your help in advance.
Why did he cum after only putting in the tip?
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Also, he now only wants to receive selfies instead of my occasional r rated snaps. I am afraid to confront him because he seems sensitive to the subject.
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  • If it was his first time having sex, or having sex with you, he was probably extremely excited and couldn't last. If you are tight this could also make him cum fast. See if he can last longer going forward. Try some lube so there is less friction. If things don't improve, he may need to discuss the issue with his doctor.

    He may no longer want R Rated snaps after having sex now that he has seen you naked in real life. You shouldn't feel afraid to discuss things in a normal relationship with a reasonable person. Be brave and ask him if he still wants R Rated snaps. If he doesn't, ask him why.

  • He's hypersensitive. He might need to see a doctor about it if he wants to please you as well. If he's not willing to see a doctor about it and that's a deal breaker for you, then leave him. That or I hope you can get an orgasm on forepay alone. I also hope he's a decent enough guy to give you plenty of foreplay.

    • Thankyou, after that experience he just kept telling me in a cocky manner that he would show me what fucking was. I however refused, he did not seem embarrassed at all. Maybe just a one time thing but kind of concerning.

    • Not kind of concerning, its very concerning. Its understandable that he's embarrassed, and he's obviously flaunting confidence to hide his embarrassment, but that is definitely an immature attitude to have. He should be approaching the situation with humility if he cares about you. If he can't change his attitude, I think you should leave him. I assume you've already done this, but try to let him know you're not judging him for it. He has no control over his own sensitivity. If he can take a step back after that and apologize about his behavior, that definitely shows maturity in him.

    • Yes, but it is so confusing because the confidence seems very real and not to hide something. He has exes that can confirm his experience, so that’s why i am so confused. He really wanted a second try and seemed very secure with himself. Maybe it just was too exciting and that should have been the reason? but if you are experienced how could something like that happen. Thank you so much for your helpful replies.

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  • You had foreplay, which I assume means you sucked his dick. You probably almost nearly got him to cum from that, and when he put his head in you, he blew. I don't know whey people are making him out to be a villain. And one girl said he probably lied about his experience. Why would she assume that? I see people driving cars, that have been driving for years, and they're still not good at it. I'm not going they are lying about having driving experience.

    Talk to him about it and see if you can come up with ways to make him last longer.

    • I did not give him head, he only rubbed against me for a while and sucked on my breasts..

    • Did you talk to him about it?

    • Its quite a sensitive subject, instead of occasional r rated snaps i have been sending in our relationship he now only is asking for me to send him selfies. I feel like if i bring it up it will hurt his feelings.

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  • First of all, he probably lied about his experience.

    Secondly, he's probably embarrassed and insecure.

    Thirdly, he's acting immature.

    You need to figure out if you are willing to put up with his behavior like this. If my boyfriend would be acting this way towards me, I would leave in an instant.

    • Thankyou so much, i know for a fact he did not lie about his experience. He has exes that can confirm this. That’s why i am so shocked still. I will and am still figuring it out.

    • Don't get me wrong, but even if an "ex" can confirm, that doesn't make it truth. For all you know she might be lying about it as well. How do you feel about the whole experience of going all the way for the first time? And if it would repeat it selft in the exact same way again (part from the premature ejaculation) would you be OK with that? How has your boyfriend treated you after all that?

    • I understand your doubts, it is a fact though. She could tell things about him you could only know if you were with him. He talks very casually about sex and by foreplay alone seemed very experienced. As for the first time and after that me still not being comfortable with a second try, it did make me feel sad. I did not imagine my first time being like that and if i could even consider this a first time. He was being quite immature and making jokes, that he could spell my name on my back... and that he was soo horny and just telling me that that was not sex. That he could show me what fucking was, and i should take off my clothes again. I obviously refused. He has been way nicer to me the day after that as long as the main subject is not sex. I am still figuring out what i want, thankyou again for your reply.

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  • Seems like he either doesn't have much experience or just a one-time disappointing encounter - his reaction to it is more worrying than what actually happened.

    • Do you mean the cocky behaviour? It did make me feel even worse. Thankyou for your reply.

    • Yeah because it's not that unusual for a guy to cum early, but he acted really weird about it.

  • he... hasn't had sex in a year i think's only a normal response hahaha.

  • Sometimes guys just cum by seeing a naked girl.

  • Premature ejaculation

  • Hahahahaha oh no.

  • It’s called a little blue pill.

  • He finds you VERY sexy, the mind is the strongest sex organ

  • That happens. I have that problem at times, but other times I cannot cum. The shortest being immediately after penitration with the longest bring 2 1/2 hours. It can vary for everyone. Personally I love to go down and pleasure woman orally before, during and after.

  • Over excitement I'd say

  • Because he is lame lol

  • My guess is that he had to approach you

  • Well this happens when someone is turned on enough or when they are virgin
    I think maybe your foreplay was so strong and he was so turned on that he couldn't control himself
    but it is possible he was a virgin too and he lied to you, for virgins it will be ok over time

    the only solution I have is to give him a bj and make him cum give him 5 to 10 min and then start sex this will make his body make cum while your having sex, he should last for about 10 to 15 min with this method

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