Why do guys always want to try anal sex with a new girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

Even if they're not really into anal it seems they just have to do it?

[Anonymous]

I'm not into it but if my partner doesn't have any problem with it I think it's good to try just once for the experience. I think it's good to try it once a month
also, the fact that you can have sex without a condom and not worry about getting pregnant makes it a choice for men and some women

[Anonymous]

Conquest.

[Asker]

How do you mean conquest?

[Opinion Owner]

Every territory must be taken.

[Asker]

So sort of saying "you're all mine" or "you belong to me"?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes. Exactly. The male mindset in a nutshell.

[Whitemeatchicken]

I think it’s a shame you’re disappointed and even turned off by women who won’t have anal. I do anal play but that’s only because it’s my choice and I have not received any pressure from my fiancé. Conquest means you have your own motives that don’t include the woman’s best interest and only yours. Criminals have the same mindset.

[Opinion Owner]

@Whitemeatchicken That's human nature. We are animals. The worst behaviour common to humans is appalling beyond anything you could expect of another animal.

[Whitemeatchicken]

Then you don’t deserve women.

[Opinion Owner]

@Whitemeatchicken women are the same animal. By your logic, women don't even deserve women

[Whitemeatchicken]

If they know she doesn’t like it but they press the issue, she should leave immediately.
That’s a red flag to other behavior.

[sarasubmis]

Yeah it’s one of the first questions a guy will ask me if we start having sex, if he can do anal

[nuqueunltd]

Girls indicative true level of commitment to guys.

[virgin20]

I think it just is a sign that you would do anything for them.
Personally I think the idea of anal is really hot since I'm into ass and I would love to try it after other assplay. I hear it feels better for the man but the woman can also get pleasure from it.

[chihuahua011]

Nope, wrong.

[spartan55]

Must be the morons you choose.

[kkirk4442]

Not every guy does. Apparently the ones you hang around with do.

[andreasderjuengere]

Perhaps, because the old girlfriend was worn out/went baggy?

[Orangesareyummy]

Your dick no longer satisfies me. So bend over and let me see that asshole. Spread your cheeks. I want to watch it go up your ass. You’re inadequate if you can’t do that for me.

[andreasderjuengere]

Bizarre :)

[bowenw]

It could be because they see it done in porn and assume women like it. I've never know any guys or women that have done it. If your boyfriend wants to do it and you don't, just tell him. A good guy will understand. It should never be a deal breaker.

[Sadsam43]

I know many that like it, so and some of them also like to be fisted in the ass. Maybe it hade something whit age to do. But i know girls that not like it to.

[Questionsweask]

Maybe you just have a fine ass that screams fuck me

[Orangesareyummy]

You have a sexy ass too. Bend over and let me see that asshole. Haven’t you heard, all kinds of men like it up the ass. It’s very intimate. Now come on show me that man c***.

[Andres77]

Because the last girlfriend wouldn't?

[Orangesareyummy]

Oh well since one of my boyfriends let me fuck their ass I’m sure you’ll love it too. Bend over let me see. I want tkk ok watch it go inside you. I’ll make you suck it after we are done too.

[Andres77]

@Orangesareyummy you're a dude...

[Orangesareyummy]

Nope I’m a chick who is strictly dickly.

[genericname85]

Cause probably very few girls are willing to do that. You'd do the same with a new guy, if you wanted to try something that no guy ever let you try with him.

[Whitemeatchicken]

I I respect boundaries

[genericname85]

@Whitemeatchicken have i ever mentioned that "not respecting boundaries" is a part of that?

[Whitemeatchicken]

I’d do the same by pestering my partner, who I’m supposed to hold sacred and love to do something almost nobody likes, even a lot of gay guys? No I respect boundaries and if it is something I know most people aren’t into, I let them come to me.

[genericname85]

@Whitemeatchicken i'm not sure if you're aware of that but if a guy does not respect your boundaries, you're free to leave. just saying. i don't get why you get so worked up about this. just leave.

[Whitemeatchicken]

Sorry but actions can effect permanent thoughts and actions. In fact, many people have to seek counseling because of it. I have sympathy for people who are raped though. Doesn’t sound like you do though. You can leave but that doesn’t erase the harm it’s caused.

[genericname85]

@Whitemeatchicken ok. apparently you're having a conversation about rape with someone. not sure who you're talking to. i'm out.

[Whitemeatchicken]

Well I’d say if someone isn’t respecting your boundaries, they are raping you. That’s a classic definition of rape. Think about things before you say them.

[genericname85]

@Whitemeatchicken the question was " Why do guys always want to try anal sex with a new girlfriend?" nothing about that was about "exluding consent" and nothing i said was about that either. i did not want that conversation. i don't know why you're forcing it down my throat... speaking of consent huh? if you wanna discuss with someone that actually condones rape, go talk to someone who does that, not me... i'm gonna mute this question now. good luck finding the partner for the discussion you're trying to have.

[Shah11]

Nope you're wrong.
I usually do what my partner want's to do. No force only enjoyment.

[Iknowbestgirls]

Because anal is an awesome feeling during Sex. Its great to have that tight asshole squeeze our cocks and practically milk our cocks!

[Whitemeatchicken]

Only 2% of women enjoy anal-Laurie J. Watson, LMFT. Often women are pressured to the point where they seek counseling due to distress. I’d suggest if you fit the description of who these women are complaining about you leave

[Whitemeatchicken]

No clearly yoh dont know best.

[Wise4myage]

They must anal fixation syndrome. 😂

[TheFlak38]

it's our duty

[jahaims]

Because it feels good

[Meldrum]

Never have but then I've never had a new girlfriend.

[Twalli]

I actually enjoy it, but if the girl has only had bad experiences with anal I can understand why she doesn't want to do it.

[OddBeMe]

Porn. It’s not that great.

[Whitemeatchicken]

Anal is on its way out according to google trends. It was very popular in 2004 though.

[OddBeMe]

@Whitemeatchicken ahh... I remember ‘04.

[Whitemeatchicken]

So do I. Not well but still remember.

[Valnac]

Any anal is disgusting and homosexual.
I’m heterosexual and don’t do anything anal.
I’ll take a pussy anyday.

[DanTheMan1995Xx]

I don’t enjoy it personally so I don’t try it with girls at all.

[Waldoe]

GUYs do not... maybe you attract "Freaks" I like Pussy