Have you ever met someone online and had sex with them the first time you met in person?

[sheikalana]

[godfatherfan]

Yea... it was a very memorable night. We connected online. We were unable to meet for a week, so we texted and talked every night for sometimes several hours. By the time date night came, we knew each other better then many know after 8 or more dates. We danced around the sex topic, kidding at first that maybe we change our date or just eat at home. Finally, she just straight out said "how about you come over and just fuck me". lol. So who am I to argue? I went over to her house. We said hi, hugged, she got on her knees, and the night was off and running. When I left I thought to myself " I think I was just used for sex". I was giving myself high fives. We actually dated about a month. But had we never seen each other again, it would still have been one of my most treasured memories. We had sex twice, we played for a few hours, and we talked a lot. it was a great night.

[Apope16]

Absolutely, the girl I am currently dating is someone I met online and we had sex the first in person date. Been dating her nearly 2 months. Apparently she said she loved me for the first time today.

There are other girls though. It is common.

For example. I met a girl once on okcupid. She directed me to kik. On kick we chatted then sent naughty picks to each other. She sent her vag and I sent my penis pick. Then the next evening we start masturbating to orgasm together live on chat. She was an older woman. A year later I saw her for a work training for the first time. We still had numbers from our conversation. I called her up and we started having sex in real life.

[Dazed0N0Confused]

Yes, sometimes it leads to more interactions and dating, other times it's just sex, but I always know what I'm walking into or potentially walking into before we meet. I never want my hopes up...

[DizzyDesii]

Legit almost made that mistake ONCE. The Lord cancelled that meeting for a reason. Thank you Lord from protecting me from a wolf in sheeps clothing

[sheikalana]

that was a very clear sign from God.

[Stylish27]

Nah i think id have to be super attracted to them to let them hit it first go.

[MarkyMark77]

@stylish27 ahah makese sense have u ever met someone in real life u met online?

[Stylish27]

@MarkyMark77 yeah i have but just as friends

[MarkyMark77]

@stylish27 oh cool what app or site did u use?

[Stylish27]

@MarkyMark77 insta

[MarkyMark77]

@stylish27 oh how u find someone on insta?

[OlderAndWiser]

No, I have not. I want to know a girl and learn to respect her before I abuse her body! :) :) :)

[pajamasam]

Just once. Fun, but the friends with benefits, then oh no I got feelings but you don't is a mess, not worth the headache.

[rachel776]

if we really get along online i will

most no

[abc3643]

Yes. That happened with my girlfriend from 25 years ago.

[sheikalana]

oh I didn’t know online dating was already a thing 25 years ago.

[abc3643]

It wasn't that there were online dating sites but that people met at chat sites - the early form of social media - sort of like reddit but more interactive. Once you exchange email addresses and/or phone numbers (this was before smartphones), you can get to know each other more privately and take it from there.

[sheikalana]

OMG I remember those website chat rooms lol that's so vintage. Even I used to use them as a teen just for fun.

[abc3643]

They are still around and I use them on occasion. They are fun places to roleplay.

[abc3643]

Really, when you think about, PMing (for example here), is like a private chat room.

[sheikalana]

Oh is there a lot of people there? Would be fun to try it in 2021. Which chat rooms do you use this days?

[sheikalana]

I mean when I think of a chat room I think of a chat where there's a bunch of people talking at the same time.

[abc3643]

Chatzy you can make your own chat room. I go to Chatiw but it is annoying because of spam and autoemojis like here and you can't send URLs or too many numbers.

[abc3643]

Chatiw is solely 1-on1 chats. I firget the chatroom I used 25 years ago.

[Jjpayne]

I met one person online and probably could have had sex with them but I wanted to wait. We were in sleeping in the same bed as a romantic relationship so it would have been only a matter of time for that that happen if it did.

But it's tough holding out for the right girl, especially with me getting older and less desirable every year 😔

[Dongtai]

Yes. Lol. BUT we had talked for at least a week. So there was somewhat of a relationship established. We were kinda strangers but not really.

[wankiam]

three times i have met women off a dating site and three times they took me back to their place and we had sex

[wankiam]

have you ever done that?

[sheikalana]

Nope.

[wankiam]

good... its not the best way to start a relationship

[kkirk4442]

I have never had sex with someone the first time I met them.

[Gwenhwyfar]

No. Wbu?

[Gwenhwyfar]

Oh wait. Yes! But only once. Almost forgot about him.

[vanshh]

Lol. How did this happen

[Gwenhwyfar]

@vanshh my last date ever on Tinder. He was really hot and I knew it wasn’t gonna happen with him relationship wise so I just went for it.

[vanshh]

So you guys just had sex in the first date?

[Gwenhwyfar]

@vanshh yes. Well, oral.

[vanshh]

Oh, just a blowjob?

[vanshh]

In his car or where?

[Gwenhwyfar]

@vanshh no! In his bed. He did it to me first then I did it back to him.

[vanshh]

Ahh! Interesting. It’s strange that you went to his flat on/after the first date

[vanshh]

Let’s talk in dm instead of spamming here?

[Gwenhwyfar]

@vanshh cause I knew it wasn’t gonna happen relationship wise and I just wanted to get laid (well, licked, technically). This was back in my mid-twenties. I was kinda fed up with Tinder but like I said he was charming and really hot and I knew it would be the last time I used the app.

[vanshh]

Why last time of using the app?

[Gwenhwyfar]

@vanshh tired of getting disappointed. Wanted to focus on school and getting an rl boyfriend instead.

[vanshh]

So did you get a rl boyfriend now? Can you just dm me? I couldn’t be able to message you

[Gwenhwyfar]

@vanshh I have an rl boyfriend now

[vanshh]

With him also things started like this?

[andreasderjuengere]

I have. That had been the basic idea in such cases.

[JosyJosy]

Yes I have

[Anpu23]

Yes, and afterwards ghosted her. Not intentionally mind you, but I did. Something came up and I had to cut all contact. It wasn't until over a year later that I had a chance to explain and apologize

[Angelo75]

Oh yes. And it was marvelous.

[Kabluie]

Yep, the best was someone I was talking to ended up getting accepted into my university. So we got to finally meet and have sex during her orientation weekend :) It was wonderful, we liked each other a lot, and dated frequently during our time at school.

[Redstang88]

Yeah

[Eeeyore18]

I could only wish for such a thing to happen 🥺

[genericname85]

Yeah. Not a big fan but it's ok.

[SouthGeorgiaGirl]

Yes, i have

[Justneedtokno]

NoThis sounds very disastrous I know this is a new way of meeting new people but it’s a little scary at the same time