Do you people prefer sex with or without condoms?

[Erik-7]

I (23M) have been been have sex ever since I was 18, after I lost my Virginity to my ex girlfriend. so far I slept with roughly 7/ton10 women, I know I probably should be doing a lot better in terms of numbers. However out of those 12 women I’ve only ever used condoms with three of them, the first three I’ve slept with.

The fist time I had unprotected sex was with a 36 year old woman. She took off her underwear and told me to just put it inside her, at first I was a bit surprised cause I expected us to at least discuss wether we were gonna use condoms or not but she didn’t even consider it she just wanted me to have sex with her raw, I honestly don’t think she even considered condoms, My best guess is she had been having sex for so long without condoms that they don’t even cross her mind, so I just went along with it. And I enjoyed it.

I’ve also had sex with a girl who was my age as she was in my history class. Again same thing, the conversation of condoms never came up we just did it raw, but with her I doubt she would have slept with more people than the 36 year old woman I had previously slept with.

Now I can’t remember the last time I had sex with a condom on, I was wandering if you guys could share your experiences, do prefer to have sex with or without condoms? Also if you do have it without when was the first time you decided to have sex raw.

I personally prefer doing it without the condom as it just feels more intimate

[AustinMan]

Without if we've both been tested and are exclusive. I've had a vasectomy.

[Erik-7]

That’s brave of you hahaha

[AustinMan]

Not if I pick trustworthy partners.

[Erik-7]

I was referring to the vasectomy

[AustinMan]

I was through having children and it was pretty easy. The local isn't much fun but the rest is easy.

[Edm_queen]

When I started to hook up with guys I would tell them to bring condoms but recently some of them didn’t and I still agreed to have sex with them. I can feel once I fuck saw in a row for a few times my body got used to it and it’s hard to go back now.

[Anonymous]

I’ve actually never had sex with a condom. I went on birth control before I was sexually active and none of my past boyfriends or my current one ever put on a condom even once.

[Erik-7]

Ok, how would you feel if a partner said he wanted to use condoms, would you be ok with it?

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t know how I’d feel honestly. On one hand, I can’t fault a guy for wanting to protect himself. On the other, I’d kinda feel like he though I was dirty or something.

[Erik-7]

That’s understandable, I think I’d rather do it without condoms but I can understand the girl not wanting to get pregnant, so we’re in the same boat

[MountAverage]

Wait, you think there's people who prefer the feeling WITH condom? lol

[Erik-7]

Guess not hahah, it just seems that condoms aren’t really used that much anymore

[MountAverage]

Well, if that's true, we have a big problem. Condoms should be used more, not less.

[Alexz0]

Without. They're horrid, I won't use them.

[TaureanBull81]

I love sex without condoms and have become accustomed to going bareback each time ⏲️ whether it's been with a serious relationship partner or a regular friends with benefits.

I too have only wore condoms with two partners in the past however the rest much preferred going raw over using protection too.

At 19 I lost my virginity to a 37 year old woman and she too just slid me inside her unprotected without a 2nd thought either. The longer you continue going raw the less you'll wear condoms in the future.

[okeydoke]

When was the last time you were tested?
This is a great way to get someone pregnant, get HIV, or both.

[kimsanchez01]

Without.

[Erik-7]

This says you’re 16, I don’t think my post is appropriate for someone of your age. And the fact you started having sex without condoms at you are is worrying

[kimsanchez01]

How so?

[Erik-7]

You’re too young...

[kimsanchez01]

No? Lol

[Erik-7]

You’re 16... like you’re still a teenager

[kimsanchez01]

And?

[Erik-7]

You’re talking to me about how you have sex without condos which is very dangerous at your age, you’re still a child, I don’t really want to hear your sex life

[kimsanchez01]

Im safe.

[Erik-7]

Doesn’t change the fact that You’re a child who was Exposed to sex far too young

[kimsanchez01]

Okay

[RebeccaSJ]

Without.

[JennieF]

Without.

[Anonymous]

Definitely without.

[Anonymous]

sounds like you became good with women quite young

[Erik-7]

So far away from being good with women

[Opinion Owner]

what do you mean by that?

[Anonymous]

Fucking feels better without them, but they're necessarily.

[Erik-7]

Yeah, in my experience it just seems that it’s something people stop worrying about after a while

[Opinion Owner]

If they're in a relationship, they usually forget using them.

[Erik-7]

Not just that, I’ve only had one official relationship and I always used condoms with her, while all my one night stands and flings I’ve never used condoms

[Opinion Owner]

That seems kind of backwards.

[Erik-7]

I know, it’s just in my relationship we were young so we were very careful, but now as I’ve grown up I’ve been having sex with people in their 30, and even women in their 50, so I don’t think they’re that scared of getting pregnant, tansy probably cause they have the means to deal with it