It will help to explore your body and find what really gets you in the mood and then tell your partner to do those things that got you really hot and bothered.
Hopefully you get someone who is patient and gentle and willing to please you before penetrating you. Which is one of the reasons why it's good to wait until you fall in love because he will definitely be more caring and considerate vs some random person.
Being naturally aroused opens you up more than lube ever could. Lube won't help and it will still hurt a lot if you aren't very into it, but if you are really wet and turned on then it won't be as painful unless he's humongous.
The stress isn’t helping. Relax, have tons of foreplay, make sure your good and wet, and maybe use some lube. It may still hurt a little, but the only way to get to where it’s fun and just feels really good is to get past the discomfort of your first time.
How wet and aroused are you when you try “putting anything down there”? You shouldn’t just be like “well let’s try jamming something in”. You should be hips twitching uncontrollably aroused.
you don’t need to aim for no pain then but for “good satisfaction” to outweigh the discomfort.
I can say that when I tried I was doing it for the other person and I wasn’t really turned on. But I didn’t know at the time that you had to be really lubricated.
You do need to be really lubricated but lubrication alone isn’t ideal. Your body does more during arousal then just get wet. (On top of that the extent you notice pain drops when highly aroused). Anyway I’d focus on being as excited as possible and not worrying about discomfort, rather then being clinical and cold and aiming for painless without arousal. Also if not obvious... you know get to where you really enjoy finger sized objects touching and massaging and rubbing inside before you aim for larger.
Do it with someone you know but dont have feelings for. Be honest about it with them and ask for their help to guide you through your first time. I had one of my girlfriends little sister ask me if I could help her first time through so she would be more ready.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Use lube, most of the time your dry that is why it hurts. Your either dry because your nervous or maybe that just the way your body is. But use lube it helps
The only pain that comes is from never having been penetrated before. You can take care of that by yourself in the comfort of your own bed, bath, shower, or whatever you use.
I suggest going to the dr. You may have an undiagnosed medical issue. The pain from sex is a different type of pain its a pain that's easy to deal with not horribly unbearable.
A lot of foreplay, and maybe some lube.
If you numb yourself you won't feel anything including pleasure. Make sure you well lubricated and aroused when you do it, using a lube might help, try to relax and you can also try some breathing exercises to relax.
19 years old still virgin?
painlessly?, dont hold your breath missy
have him eat your pussy till orgasm with a toy big enough to go through your hymen (assuming thats what your reffering to by virginity) and have him break through during the hieght of your orgasm. likely you won't feel the break/ripping that way because the good feelings from your orgasm should more than counter that pain.
Lots and lots of foreplay, and invest in a good lube. But it’s still going to be a bit painful the first time. Take it slow.
No tips for painless
First off, there’s no rush. I was 20. But from my expert opinion... I would work it out like a muscle. Buy some different sized dildos online. You don’t need to work up to John Holmes level. Just loosen it up.
Also maybe some psychological issues. Perhaps you’re so worried about it...
Get sexually aroused and soaking wet, then try putting something up you.
Relax.
Get realy drunk :)
Tried that
May be something is wrong with you. At your age, you must have been seen by a doc... It hurts only a little. One of the 7 virgins i had cried though. A little pain is a good trade off for all the pleasure that comes after
Have the guy give you lots of oral to arouse you and get your vagina naturally lived.
Make sure he puts some Vaseline on his penis to lessen the friction.
With your hand guide his penis slowly inside of you.
Be honest with the guy. Make sure he knows you are a virgin. Knowing that he will be extra gentle with you.
Question. When you masturbate does it hurt when you finger yourself?
Painful is enjoyful
I'm always available and calm, this is my first post can we connect together so we can date, I won't mind marrying you
Only thing you can do is Get your boyfriend to get to relax you, you should relax, play with each others stuff, let him go down and muff you. Then get lube for additional help. Open your legs. Let your boyfriend hold you to not get out easily. Close your eyes and take it, it's gonna hurt but remember you want it.
The way I lost mine was really sweet. The guy did a lot of foreplay. He was above average so he went slow. He always said it was for me to enjoy. I lucked out. anyways if it’s tight relax as MUCH as possible. that worked for me and have your guy go slow until... you know.
The best way is use warm water in your bath tub and keep your pussy in that, then insert whatever you have with you, and just give a hard hit, with that warm water you don't feel much pain and will overcome in just 1 or 2 mins only
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