Should I seek counseling if I can't stop thinking about my ex having sex with his new girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

[btbc92]

You don't need counseling for that. You need counseling for your life choices and understanding what are you DOING. Understanding SELF. Because #1, what is the difference if he has premarital sex with a new girlfriend if you never waited for marriage yourself? It's hypocricy. There is a good reason why God said to wait for marriage to have sex. Because in God's eyes, once you have sex it's a marriage. So you were already married to your ex. He now divorced you for another woman which is adultery. But you need to understand WHY you need counseling. You should anyway especially if you feel that it may help. But understand that if you have no desire to really change and make serious decisions to be responsible for, then understand that it's not about your feelings, it's about making serious life decisions only you can live with. If you cannot live with knowing that he technically has the free will and right to sleep with whoever he wants, then maybe sex isn't for you. But it is still your choice. That is again IF you are not a virgin anymore. Even if you are like me, why date somebody who has that mindset? I wouldn't. I know I can never handle it, that's why I never did that or date anyway. I believe in waiting for marriage to have sex, but why would I allow myself o suffer what your suffering? It's not fair to you either way. But in the end, you still made a choice I wouldn't even do. Because all counseling is going to do is try to convince you it's okay, and maybe have sex with other people. But if you know that is not what you want, stand firm in what you believe in and again it means doing what is hard, and that may be not having sex again. Especially until you married. And if a guy refuses to understand that, it's not you, it's them.

[Anonymous]

Yes. The fact that you asked this on this lame-ass site, means you need to seek help.

[vald9inches]

Revenge

[Valnac]

Yes you should get counseling.

[Yourman89]

Thinking about it how?

[Anonymous]

Wow your ex really Ficked you good if still thinking bout him.