What does it mean when a guy says this?

So a guy told me “I was real shocked that you turned out to be so kinky. You look so innocent, pure and cute”. Would a guy say this to you if he wasn’t interested?
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  • How did he find out? Context is everything. If you were tying him to a bed wearing a strapon it's very different from if you told him what you like on a date or he worked out who you are from on GAG!

    Generally if I was saying that to a girl, I'd be saying it because I was interested.

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  • That's a hard one
    I say things like that just to be funny, not trying to hit on a girl.
    Did he say anything else that might lead you to believe he is interested.
    You know like - you want to come hang up in my play room? Lol

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  • A guy would say that is he found you kinky. It could be said if he was interested, or not interested.

  • Means you are gorgeous and that he is shocked you have a kinky side Cuz you have an innocent look about you , it’s a huge turn on

  • He may say that if you were too kinky for him and he was expecting someone passive in bed. On the other hand, he may say that if he was pleasantly surprised. If he mentions it again you could ask if he didn't like it.

  • I guess it depends on the guy, but if I get with a girl who seems cute / innocent and is actually really kinky, then I'd think I hit the jackpot lol

  • No he wants you in a kinky way

  • Personal i will say this to a girl that is like that and i olso enjoy been whit, olso hope whit feelings.

  • Comon man! You know the answer to this. No, people don't talk like that to people they don't want to shag.

  • Maybe you don't seem like relationship material to him anymore?

  • Nope. He has already lived every thought you may have mentioned, hinted at, thought of and a lot more in his own head and is dying for you to be bold enough to invite him to the party

    • This.

  • He likes the combination of choices you're providing him. He's still an unknown entity though. Interest in "what he can get you to do" is not the same as "what he can provide to you".
    Patience... and situational awareness.

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