Guys, for those of you that are submissive, what aspects of the dynamics do you enjoy?

[pink_baby]

If you're not submissive, don't comment. I find submissive guys like it for different reasons and curious what everyone thinks!

[abc3643]

I am not totally submissive. I will say that I am fantastically easy going. I let my wife run the show for the most part unless I think she's going to put us in danger.

In bed, this is something of a non-issue - we never really talked about it. She's not into my submissive-related fetish (*) and I never pushed it. However, we did it cowgirl because this way she gets to control her orgasm and then I can pop after she does. I like it like that because it is guilt-free and I know she will pop.

(*) I will discuss this through PM if you wish.

[pink_baby]

sure, pm me if you want :)

[jtesla90]

I really like seeing the confidence and powerful look on my wifes face when she is dominating me. She is usually very shy and anxious so seeing her overcome that and being in control is awesome. Plus i like being penetrated but i dont like men. So my wife using a strapon is a big fantasy fulfiller.

[pink_baby]

Has she ever done it for you?

[jtesla90]

Twice. Both very, very incredible. We usually ler her do me and then i am much harder and rougher than usual with her after. So its nice for both of us.

[jtesla90]

I mean she has toyed with my ass many times, but only strapon twice

[pink_baby]

So cool! Glad you have an understanding partner :)

[jtesla90]

Yeah. She is awesome. Thank u for the question. Not something i can usually talk about.

[strawberrylipstick]

It's just nice to finally not have to stress about what's next and what happens, you just follow what the other person says and you know you're doing the right thing XD I can't speak for anyone with a hard dom, but there's something about a soft dom where they can push you, but also show that they're there for you. For me it all stems from needing the feeling of ✨security✨

[wankiam]

when i have switched in the past i like the being tied up aspect of it along with the denial but most of all i liked to be humilliated, especially concentrating on my chronic masturbation habit and porn addiction

[Kaneki05]

Her been forceful and demanding. I like knowing i am her's and she can make me do things for her or i will do them for her. I like it when there a bit sadistic too. I also love been teased or tricked into been submissive for her.

[pink_baby]

tricked? that's hot :D I have this fantasy of tricking a guy to suck another guy haha

[Kaneki05]

hahaha that maybe too far for me. Since it's a guy. But i can for sure see the trickery part of it been kinda hot.

[Mickbert]

That’s hot AF!

[Finchie40]

I consider myself both , when I am submissive to her , it’s hot knowing she is taking control of me and using me for her pleasure , I will let her get on top of me and let her ride me and pretty much let her do all the work and take control over me until she gets off , while I just lay back and enjoy watching her get off on me , pretty much letting her experience what I do to please her when I am dominate , it’s something about being used that is so hot

[DJB72]

I love the "unknown" element. Being restrained by my ex and letting her decide not just when but IF I was permitted to cum was hugely arousing. She was very into taking as long as possible to delay my climax and to have as many as she wanted to first.

We didn't know about chastity cages at the time or I'm certain she would have locked me up the first date. And I'd have let her.

[nodnol32]

I like the surprise element and the feeling of her being in control and empowering her.

[Makeushiver]

From both a dom and sun POV I like to restrain motion. Usually with silk ties on bedposts and it's fun both giving or receiving pleasure to not be able to stop or not be able to stop someone. Mostly when I'm giving pleasure as a dom. I love to stay on the lovely supersensitive parts after a lover cums and I like the same thing done to me, It's also great for edging when you want to make sure your partner can't do anything about being kept on the edge of orgasm while I bring her closer and stop or she does the same for me. Either way it allows you to delay orgasm almost indefinitely and either tease or be teased a fraction at a time closer and stop, then closer, and stop. I like doing it to the edge and (when I'm dom. ) and she is just at the precipice of orgasm and insert softened ice cubes in both her pussy and her ass or in my case, run over the head of my hard on with one ice cube and another 1 or 2 inserted up my ass and I'll explode.

[Massageman]

I think it takes some of the stress out of "being in charge".
It's a great change of pace to be restricted in a nice way.

[Mickbert]

I’m totally submissive and when she’s in charge it takes away all phycological responsibility. Whatever she wants to do, wants me to do, etc. is totally out of my hands. Plus I get a lot of satisfaction out of pleasing her, whether it’s cleaning, massaging, etc.

Plus the outfits she picks out are SUPER cute! They make doing chores a LOT more fun!

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

Are you also curious about hearing an opinion of a switch? We do also play the sub role some times.