When is it okay to send nudes?

[Anonymous]

How long should someone wait to send their significant other nudes?

[Gosceewual]

Lol I don’t get the retards here that are scared if they send nudes their images may “surface”
Lol do u retards think at all?

Sure if a celebrity sends a nude it will surface and be popular... but ur jus a random average normal person... what makes u think if some guy on the internet uploads your pic that they’re gonna spread?
People aren’t going to be like “oh look, a random average girl who I have no idea of her identity, lets share it to everyone!!”

Are they? Only famous peoples celebrity pics get big time recognition... your average ass little nudes will get 1,000 views at best... and what are the chances those 1,000 people who see t will ever be anyone you actually know in real life?

There’s 7,0000,0000,0000 people in the world... highly unlikely those 1,000 people will be someone you know... trust me hun your nudes will get no recognition unless the guy sends it to your family personally... and that is the only case... otherwise ur pics will be pretty much invisible online

[JackSmy]

With every Lady, I have been in a relationship with, once we have spent a night together, and had sex, I let her decide when to send, and what to send.
Personally, I prefer some 'suggestive' images, and not showing complete nudity, for her own protection!!
Not that I WOULD EVER BETRAY HER TRUST, but what if one of our phones is hacked? What if she wants to run for President, some day?
Besides, 'Teasing' images are much more arousing, and erotic, especially with couples that know, and have loved!!

[JuliaStyles]

Never, or always be wondering if they would surface and bite you in the ass. You can get fired from a job for a social media post. What would happen if a Teacher's pics are spread allover the internet? Of course you don't have to be a teacher, but today people like exposing everyone so it pays to keep them to yourself. Do you think some ex of yours would hesitate to sell them to some site, especially if he/she thought you were a POS? All I can say is "Promises promises does anyone keep, when they want to get back at you because you're a creep?".

Yeah, tell me another one.

[Daniela1982]

Some downvoter must be a guy. Guys want girls to send nudes because they are crass.

[Daniela1982]

@juliastyles some dumb ass fake pink account is downvoting all the girls that are against sending nudes.

[JuliaStyles]

@Daniela1982 Well, then they can't complain when some guy they trusted, or thought they did, leaks her nudes to sites she has never even heard of.

[Smoothshave]

I Have Never Shared Nudes That Were Sent To Me With Anyone, Never Posted Online And I Never Will... I Would Never Ever Betray Someone’s Trust, Whether I Personally Know Her Or Not... Someone Has Trusted You Me With Their Nudes, As Far As I Am Concerned, They Are For My Eyes Only, I Don’t Brag About Them, Talk About Them, And I Will Never Share Them... Yes, There Are Lots Of Guys Who Lie To Women To Get Their Nudes, Those Guys Are Scum... Treat Everyone With The Same Trust And Respect You Want In Return...

[Luv2BRealExotic13]

Well if you’re established dating of a three month time period I guess. I don’t know the level of trustworthiness. Just casual dating you have to be super careful because some of these dudes are scammers. Like taking girls nudes uploading them to porn sites and stuff for money. Then hopefully the guy isn’t the revengeful leak an ex’s nudes. Always ask for an exchange. Just no face shots, birthmarks, tattoos, deformities, defining features of any kind in the photo and who’s to say if the biscuit is yours if it got out.

[Asker]

you're so pretty!

[Blume20]

Until you say your “I do”s.

[Laura_Marx]

You have to be sure that they want nudes. This is the only condition for me >:3

[N192K001]

I agree with a number of female-peers here: Never.

And even if you don't show your face, remember that modern digital photo-files generally also contain the digital-device's G. P. S.-coordinates at the time of the picture-taking. So, even if people cannot immediately recognize your background, it can be easy to pinpoint your location (s), find you, and (potentially) start covertly following you in person. Do you really want that potentially being spread online?

[Account]

Don't. Anyone can use that against you. Anyone. Even if you trust them right now, they might use it against you in the future. Try to be careful.

[Bluemax]

Ding!

[BunChan]

Don't... it will come back to bite you in the ass.

[lukiduki]

Gonna hop in here and agree. Thats some serious ammo you're giving someone

[DizzyDesii]

In my opinion, never. If he wants to see you naked, he needs to come over

[Bluemax]

Ding!

[Little_Bumblebee]

It's okay if you agree on it and when asked to (and you are okay with doing so)

[Ilikegirls2-2]

Good answer and I’d add don’t show your face.

[Katie1964]

When is it okay to send nudes? I would wait a long time, once they are out there... well they are out there and you no longer control who gets to see your nude body.

How long should someone wait to send their significant other nudes? Better never to send at all, but I will confess I send them to Hubby once in a while.

[TheorionMage]

"WHY" are you SENDING nudes?
Why is your SO not doing 'boudoir shoots' when the two of you are together?
MOST cameras have the capacity for delayed exposures, make those nudes as couples shots;
there is NO SANE reason for solo photos to indemnify JUST You for eventual 'trophy' exploitation. :(

[snowboarder720]

Upon consent and request 👍

[Wade8888]

Marriage, because that's the only time you can really trust the other person with that.

Maybe send a thong photo if you think you really trust the guy, but otherwise do NOT send full nudes, the guy WILL abuse them.

[Red_Arrow]

As soon as you want to. You just need to follow simple rules. First, make sure nothing in the photo can identify you. That means no face or distinguishing tats or jewelry. But also, check the background. I have seen gals post nudes from in their bedroom, and photos of their families were in the picture. When you cannot be identified, you cannot really be hurt if the photos are leaked.
After doing that for a while, you may develop more trust and start including your face. But remember that his feelings may change and your trust may be misplaced. Safer without the face, but that is up to you to decide after you really know him.

[midnightmoon05]

Any reason why being together not enough? Or wait till two get together? The real thing is better.
phone chat is awesome to get it going till you see each other...
inam talking about normal healthy connection...

not online dating where people don’t want to meet in person

even though I am in LDR with my boyfriend... no nudes needed... till we meet in 2-3 weeks... lot more exciting...
and more to relationships than sex chats/nudes...
we boned through love... then sex is a nice part of it

[Blabster]

When you trust someone enough. You will never know if someone might turn on you but if you trust someone enough id say its fine. I did it twice in my life. One was my SO at the time with whom i had been together for 1 year and the other one is the guy im dating now who i have been seeing for a few months. I trusted them both enough to send nudes. Go with your gut instinct!

[iseekpinetrees]

After they've had sex. Or if you're lazy and just looking for something to fuck anytime is good too.

[GoodEnoughThen]

Mmm, I would not do this. Eventuslly these pics make it out onto the internet.

[HeyMikeyLikesIt]

Depends on the relationship really, if your super flirty, or if you’ve already messed around you might as well

[Sonorous]

Well, it would depend on whatever is allowing it to be okay. Like what is placing the conceptual boundary. And as you can see, many variables can be at play. So it's up to you to analyze your situation and apply what you think is best for you and whoever is involved.

[FlyGirl95]

When ever it is mutually agreed upon.

[paigegracie1234]

whenever providing no one else sees