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Would you rather teach a virgin what to do in bed or get with someone with previous experience?

In my opinion, virgin or not, you have to teach your partner how to tend to your body. Anyways, i choose D and much rather an inexperienced partner so that we can learn together and teach eachother. Only thing they need to know before hand is foreplay like how to kiss, suck dese tits, and finger me. Some things porn just can't teach ya. But forreal tho, dont let virginity fool ya. I know some virgins who you wouldve thought were pornstars in disguise. Shit my virgin ex was better in bed than my so-called experienced ex. I think its because one was a selfish lover who lacked romance/passion.
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Teach a virgin although im not a virgin
Vote A
Get with someone experienced although im a virgin
Vote B
Get with someone experienced since im also experienced
Vote C
Get with someone inexperienced like myself yet neither of us are virgins
Vote D
Learn together since we’d both be virgins
Vote E
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  • I am a virgin but I will say it like this, it is a precious experience to do something with a person for the first time. Teaching someone how to ski or swing a bat

    Would you rather teach a virgin what to do in bed or get with someone with previous experience?Would you rather teach a virgin what to do in bed or get with someone with previous experience?

    Or walking with a person the first time in a museum

    Would you rather teach a virgin what to do in bed or get with someone with previous experience?

    There is a value and fun in that, to experience something for the first time with a partner. It's a good moment

    One where you laugh, giggle and have fun roasting each other.

    It's a form of discovery for both.

    So I view it like watching a movie. If she's seen it but wants to see it again, I'd love to experience it again with her but if she has never experienced it, it would be my pleasure to show it to her for the first time.

    To me, it's less about experience and more about interacting intimately with my partner

    • Beautiful

    • Thank you 😊

Most Helpful Girls

  • I don’t know... it’s like, I don’t even want to think of being with anyone other than my boyfriend, but realistically at 18, it’s highly unlikely that we will last long enough to get married. I would like that, but it’s just not likely. We are so young that we don’t even know who we are, or who we’ll become as we get older! But that being said, I think that no matter how experienced a guy is, he STILL a has to learn MY BODY! Just because someone has had sex with a lot of people may make them an expert AT SEX, but they are still a complete amateur when it comes to ME! The things that I like, how I like to be touched, where I like to be touched, the level of pressure I like applied, how fast or slow, or deep... THERE IS SO MUCH! That’s why I hate it whenever a guy (usually over 30) posts something like “oh girl, you’re so young you have no idea what pleasure is, just ONE NIGHT with me and I’ll make you cum harder than you ever thought possible “! Like how arrogant do you have to be to think that? My boyfriend may be 18, he may not have 15+yrs of sexual experience, but he 100% KNOWS ME and MY body better than ANYONE who has never even met me! So it doesn’t matter, virgin or biggest fuck boi out there... If you’re gonna be WITH me, you are going to have to LEARN ME, the same way that I would have to learn YOU!

    • Right on 💪

    • Thanks Desii

  • I haven't generally cared much, virginity and such don't really matter much to me or in my culture. However, my current boyfriend is very experienced (~50 partners) and oh boy does it show! The sex is amazing and he's so mature about it, skilled and confident. Whereas less experienced guys have made sex or even foreplay etc feel super awkward and non-pleasurable. Although that can also have to do with other factors and shared chemistry, I really do see experience as the biggest key to good, open and mature sex. I myself have slept with 10 people, and with each I've learnt a bit more of what I want in a partner.

    • Everyone is inexperienced to an extent so that makes sense as to why you learn something new each time. But honestly my virgin boyfriend was better than my so called experienced one

Most Helpful Guy

  • I think id rather be at someone the same level as me or more experienced so I would get more out of it that way. When I was a virgin I would’ve been more comfortable with another virgin or someone with little experience so I wouldn’t embarrass myself, but if there was a person very experienced who wouldn’t judge and would teach me I woulda been up for that too!

    as a guy, When I was younger and was experienced and there were still virgin girls on the dating scene, I wouldn’t want to be with a virgin if it wasn’t a relationship and it was just for fun since it means so much to a girl and they aren’t nearly as fun in bed

    • I see

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Doesn't matter as long as both parties are healthy, consenting and CLEAN! Sometimes I'm surprised by the lack of talk of genital hygiene... it's VIP... why are we not discussing it? y'all need to be using a penis health creme-- normal lotions just don't cut it on delicate skin. Cheers.

  • I'd rather teach a virgin than have someone "experienced" if that experience came from bedding 50+ people... And experience is more about quality than quantity, even though people fail to get that... More partners doesn't mean more sex, more experience, just means more chance of catching an STD 🤷🏼‍♀️ uh yeah, no thanks you can keep that Overused diseased dick to yourself

    • Lmao i agree 😂 some just dont get it tho. To me, inexperienced means they know enough but could always learn more. Experienced is usually some professional porn shit that i want no part of

    • @DizzyDesii Why don't you want that, though. Those women have a VERY enjoyable experience.

    • Got downvoted by a manwhore 😂😂😂

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  • I don't think there are any virgins my age outside of the convents.

  • I don't do casual so more like, the one with the best personality & character wins.

    • Yes im not into casual either

  • I wouldnr be opposed to teaching a virgin, but someone with a little bit of experience will be easier to explain my body to. And vice versa

    • I hear ya

  • Ummmm Teacher I was sick that day. Can I come over and you teach me everything lol

    • Hahaha

  • Well when I was a virgin and still now I'm pretty inexperienced. And I prefer that my partner is experienced.

    • Yea a lot of nonvirgins are still inexperienced and i consider myself that as well. But i prefer someone else inexperienced

  • I’m a virgin so wouldn’t be much help there.

    • You still get a say tho

    • @Catlover1999 All you need is desire and enthusiasm.

  • Well I geuss I gotta say my virgin ass would rather learn with another virgin seeing as how I'm currently talking with a virgin girl.

    can't believe she just blurted it out first date lol.

    Tbh I'd rather have someone with experience that would show me the ropes without judgement, but that's not an option right now.

    • I rather discuss it first date just to get it out the way

    • Yeah she said that's why she said it, to just get it over with and see if the guy is weird about it I just thought it was funny cause from my experience it seemed like a bad idea to bring it up so I was gonna "keep it secret" and not talk about anything sexual till we were about to do it.

    • I always lay that shit out in the open up front. I'm not afraid to display my window sticker.

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  • I would rather be with someone I click with. If he happens to be a virgin, that’s not a problem, I don’t particularly like teaching men so it’d be more letting him explore what he likes and learn what I like😅 but if he happens to be experienced that’s even better as long as his body count isn’t nowhere near his IQ.

    • Hahaha

  • Meeeee waiting to be a man’s student one day lol

    • Hahaha

  • As long as they're free from any STD's I wouldn't care too much, but I'd rather someone show me the ropes, as I'm a virgin and consider myself to be submissive, mistress 😂

    You make a good point about their lack of experience with yourself and your body, but I think previous experience is more likely to help with that, than just a straight up virgin, so due to that, I voted 'Get with someone experienced although I'm a virgin'.

    Ultimately, if I'm with someone, they'll probably need patience and to understand the fact that I'm probably going to take time to get to a decent level sexually.

    • And thats beautiful. I say research all you can whether its by word or by porn. That way you at least know how things work. But watch passionate porn vids. Not rough neck ones that give you unrealistic expectations. The passionate ones taught my virgin ex well. He still struggled with foreplay but at least he was good at the sex and even showed dominance although a virgin. I took over in terms of dominance when it cane to the foreplay and i guided him on how to touch, tease, eat and please me

  • I think it would be fun to teach a virgin and like make her super comfortable with herself and answer questions she has. I feel like the journey of getting her comfortable would be pretty fun

    • I agree

  • B is fine Desi. When I saw the question I said: I'll be the virgin 😁

    • Hahaha

  • I am a virgin and my boyfriend wanted a virgin though he was not one. He wanted to marry a virgin girl though. If I do not marry him then I would prefer a virgin tbf because I want to be special to him and everything in life that happens the first time is the most special.

    • Im also not a virgin but used to PREFER to date a virgin. Now i just prefer we both have had few sex partners

  • I would prefer someone with some expirance looking back its cringy how I first was with my girl yes I picked up fast but thats because I wanted to pleasure her I dont think I would specially want a virgin

    • yea a lot pick up on it quick when they wanna please their partner. But im bossy so i like to guide him anyways

    • Fair enough

  • You have to learn how to please each new person, and they have to learn how to please you.

    • Right

  • A virgin , I prefer to be the first inside her

  • I’m OK with either. I just want a good woman who appreciates me.

  • "Some things porn just can't teach ya.".. That's a pretty sad line right there as ultimately porn shouldn't be teaching us anything.. 😂😂.. But you are right some people act like there ain't virgins who- once given a chance won't take all they've learned- and apply it gracefully.. 😌.. But we would be learnin together, which would be such a sweet experience..

    • Hahaha

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