Doting Girlfriend?

So - I get A LOT of women who are automatically judgmental towards this but anyway, me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years, we live together and neither of us want children, it's just us and some pets.

I love my boyfriend, crazy amounts - I cook for him, I roll his joints or pack his bong, I do his washing, I clean, I iron, I make the bed - Basically, I do everything in the house that needs doing on a daily/weekly basis, while also working 20-30h a week, he also works around 40h a week.

If he wants his dick sucked, he doesn't have to ask twice, the same with sex etc - anything he wants from me, I will happily give him. - He gets bjs while he's gaming, in the shower etc- basically everywhere if he wants one. He probably gets around 2-4 a day, and sex usually twice.

He does not have to lift a finger in this house because I am more than happy to do it for him, unless it is something he wishes to do himself, which is obviously fine.

Anyway, I am more than happy do to all of this, I love it, I love seeing him happy, I enjoy what I do and I also love having a happy home but yeah, the judgment from other women is starting to make me wonder if this is out of the norm?

I will never stop being this way or doing these things as we're happy and comfortable the way we are but is it really that 'bad?'
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  • My sister is much the same way excluding blowjobs and sex (I think, never really asked her ). It just makes others feel like the girl is doing this because she needs to in order to keep the guy. In some situations, this might actually be true. Think of it this way: If you did not do this, would you still be with your boyfriend? Would he dump you if you stopped doing everything you current do for him? If your actions are purely supplemental and are not used to keep him with you, I don't see a problem with it.

    • We'd still be together - he's more than happy to help out, I just personally prefer it this way so he lets me do my thing 😊

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  • Yes, your devotion and absorption with doing everything is out of the norm. But. . . why does it matter what other people do or what they think? If it makes you happy and it makes him happy, what is wrong with that. It's just like sex: it doesn't matter what other people think about whatever kinks you and he share together, because two consenting adults have the right to do whatever they want together when they are behind closed doors.

    by the way, the picture that is attached appears to show a woman with a furry tail. Is that one of your kinks? :) :) :)

    • Since it's a woman with cleaning materials, it's a cloth, not a tail and this post isn't regarding kinks. Why is it out of the norm? It comes normal to me because of the love I have for him, I wouldn't have it any other way but recently I've been receiving a lot of judgment and hate for it and don't get why

    • It is out of the norm because that is not how most girls handle the domestic chores when they are living with a partner. I'm not saying that you are abnormal in a psychological sense; I'm just saying that it is extremely uncommon to find a girl with that attitude. Other girls are hating on you because what you are doing is a direct contravention of everything that feminism has advanced for the past 50 years. Ironically, feminism does NOT want you to have the power to live your life however YOU choose; feminism wants you to live your life according to the choices which THEY deem to be appropriate for women. You are spitting in the face of feminism by your actions. The other component of this is that young people have been imbued with this belief that if anyone dares to counter PC approved thoughts or actions, that person should be shamed or berated until they submit and adopt the PC approved plan for everyone to reach sociopolitical utopia. For all of the rhetoric of the far left, it has absolutely no tolerance for nonconformers.

    • I guess I'll happily spit in the face of feminism then 😅 I've never really given it that much attention if I'm honest but it does make sense. If I was being forced into this and I wasn't happy, I could completely see the issue but I'm not, I do it because it's something I enjoy and I enjoy seeing him happy, it does make me personally feel a bit odd that this isn't common, I genuinely couldn't imagine living any other way

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  • If he also do what you want, it is normal. In my opinion, you two are happy that means there is no thing wrong. Keep doing what you want.

    • Thank you ☺️

  • As long as its going both ways and he's keeping you happy too. I see no problem.

    • He definitely makes me very happy, more than I've ever been and also seriously helps with my mental health. People just seem really judgmental because he doesn't do any house work etc or things like that, if I couldn't do something he obviously would, but this is how we're happy - I just don't see why I get hate for it? :/

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  • If you're both happy with it, that's all that matters. Are you? If that should change, and you wanted more from him (in whatever way you happened to), would he give it? If so, then there's no problem there.

    • Yes definitely. No question on wether he would help out if I asked for it, he'd also be more than happy too - this is just how we personally work best and what keeps us both at our happiest 😊

    • Then it sounds like the biggest thing to have to worry about is envy from more discontented people.

  • the bit many feminists forget about feminism is that it isn't a set of rules to live your life by but a freedom to choose to live as you wish... on that score you do exactly what makes you happy and you get my respect for that

  • But what I dont get is if you are happy and so is he why does it matter do what makes the two off u happy other people are not included into your relationship things like bad or good are irrelevant aslong as its somthing the two off you want

    • It wasn't something I even thought about previously as, yeah we're both very happy but more recently I've received hate and judgment for the way that we are and I don't understand why?

    • People these days love commenting on others lifes and pushing there beliefs on them they are just talking cunts ignore them

  • You sound like the perfect girlfriend

    • Can i pm you please

  • It's just a different approach to gender roles :)

  • If you like it and he likes it, fuck all else.

    It sounds like a pretty good arrangement.

  • All you need to know is not everybody is the same everybody's different take me for instance I'm with you I don't want any kids I'm too much for child myself acting yeah I know

  • If you’re both happy that’s all that matters

  • Just be yourself, if you are happy, that's what matters, don't judge yourself by the standards of strangers... by the way marry me?

  • Other women are jealous of your good situation and happiness. Ignore them!

  • Seems like he serves you in other ways looking at your other post

  • You sound great to me, he is a lucky guy, I wish I could find a woman like you and wish more were like you

    • Both me and him are lucky ☺️ We make each other as happy as possible

    • I wish I had that, maybe those haters are jealous