Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health I have had a very rough few weeks. My boyfriend of 10 months who I live with and we've just got a dog keeps looking up transgender women (look like women but have a penis?) on Instagram and Facebook. They aren't models just regular people in our city, who quite frankly still kind of look like dudes. I've noticed 2 or 3 that he searches quite often. I found screenshots on his phone and confronted him about it and that didn't go well.
He told me before we started dating that he has once been with a transgender person "by accident" and made it sound like the most embarrassing and shameful experience of his life. I was very supportive about it.
Now I just don't feel right about the fact he's looking up these women. He refuses to talk to me about it. Gets angry, shuts down and super emotional any time we have talked about it. Our sex life has been great until recently when this has all come up I have nothing against anyone's sexual preferences/choices, 3 of my best friends are gay (but that's kind of why it makes me more uneasy... these feelings don't just disappear).
I can't help but feel like this isn't going to work out. I love him and he is a wonderful guy. He swears he's never spoken to these women he looks up but that it is a fetish for him. I believe him that he hasn't spoken to them, but why keep looking them up?
I am just super confused and feeling quite lonely. It's very hard because I know he has no one to talk to either. H
e basically insinuated that if I leave him it's "because he's a little bi"?
That's not really the point though... I'm just super unsure how I feel about all of this.
**As a footnote I am in no way meaning to be offensive in my wording**
My boyfriend has a transgender fetish and I don't know how to feel about it?
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