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Why do I get turned on by the idea of my boyfriend having sex with another girl?

I need to describe him so maybe you can understand. He is 6ft 2in tall, blonde hair (kind of long but styled), brown eyes and a big dick. He is really hot and girls stare at him wherever we go together. He is complimented even in front of me. I sometimes get jealous. I honestly imagine him having sex with other girls when I'm watching porn and It makes me even more excited if his dick looks the same as his. I don't imagine myself as the girl. I imagine that he is cheating on me with someone else because that's my worst nightmare. I can't describe why this turns me on.
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  • You're a cuckquean, or rather, you have those fantasies - that's pretty much the textbook definition.

    I honestly don't understand why that turns people on, either, but it's a lot more common than you would think. That's not to say that you would ever necessarily go through with it, if given the chance.

    It's possibly a psychological thing where you translate the insecurity, or nightmare, into a fetish/fantasy to enable your mind to process it, and deal with it.

Most Helpful Guy

  • It is kind of turn on. In fantasy we are the creator. We can do things we can't usually do in real life. Third person point of view is lot better most of times. You may think yoy are nit enough for him. Trust me you are enough for him. He is probably very good looking so your fear is right. He will get lots of opportunities to cheat. I wonder fir how long he can stay faithful and who he gives up to. How much persuasion it takes. How long it took you to land him?

Most Helpful Girls

  • Because you are planning on dumping him and thinking "Good luck!" to the other girl. He will be her problem from now on and you'll be free!

  • If it makes you feel any better, I am extremely turned on by the thought of my husband and sister in certain situations together.

    • Really?

    • Oddly enough.

    • More like trolling enough.

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  • Having a fantasy doesn't mean that you want to actually do that in real life.

  • Maybe because you feel like your attachment is threatened which is exciting. Or maybe because you want the girl to be jealous of you since your his chosen.

  • God why did I picture my mate Kells XD Now all I can see is MGK doin that-

  • doesn't need to make sense... i mean i like to watch girls im with fucking other men. no idea why but i like it and thats that

  • You aren't the only woman with that fantasy.

    • Is it really common

    • Not to step on any toes here but I think it’s becoming more popular because of porn. They act out that scenario all the time.

    • @JPrez I don't think it has anything to do with porn. People have been kinky since about forever. Porn has only made people more aware that other people share their interests.

  • Well that's just your insecurities transforming into a fetish. I'm guessing you have self confidence issues that's why you're falling a prey to it.

  • You have a fertile imagination.

  • It's cuckqueen phychology. It turns you on that he might find some other girl more attractive than you which is kind of like natural selection. I think that's what makes it sexual, the fact that he is still a guy with raging hormones that would want the hottest girl he can find.

  • complex shit going on in your brain... lol it's ok. Just enjoy your fantasies, don't pick em apart

  • Perhaps you're a Cuckqueen

  • Alrighty then...

  • you have a fantasy, most people do. do you want to turn it into a fetish, get rid of the jealousy

  • Its called being a cuckquean.

  • Yeah it's understandable I get turned on by the thought of my girlfriend having sex with someone else

  • This is called pre-selection. You know that other women want him, so you see him as more valuable than you. Maybe you lack self steem and don't feel good enough for him, thinking that he would prefer other girls and not you.

  • You are a straight up Cuck with textbook insecurity issues.
    You're not fantasizing about it because you want to share him, you get a thrill because it's your "Worst nightmare."
    That's not healthy and you could end up with a fucked up humiliation fetish if you don't get your head out of your ass.

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