That guy sounds gross. I think you should try and find someone that loves you first and then explore the kink aspect second.
1 0 0 0i think if we were like friends too then it would feel less transactional because then at least we would have some more things to talk about, but it just feels so transactional. He spanks, canes and paddles me and i give him head and he barely fingers me we don’t have sex... it’s weird, then afterwards i leave and we don’t talk about anything else. Just deciding that i don’t like it. thanks for the advice!
no problem If you find a seemingly regular guy who loves you and you bring out his Kink side that's wifey material. You will have a guy crushing on you super hard.
Yea i think i need to get to know the person before being kinky
Don’t casually date men. I know it’s lonely but you will experience trans actual in casual dating.
1 0 0 0i guess i kind of felt that in a way it made sense to get to know each other, but i think deep down you’re right
And no, as I’ve learned to dom I’ve had real relationships and been connected to subs.
I saw you said you haven’t felt chemistry in a long time. Do you know why that is? Or know why you felt it with him?
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0 1Because your early get connected
That's makes you really disappointed
You need to be clear first
Don't believe someone easy1 0 0 0i think i get my hopes up and get a little lost in what could be before getting to know who they really are as a person, you’re right i need to see who they really are before connecting so easily
Yes of course
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