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Should People Card Someone Before Having Sex With Them?

Should People Card Someone Before Having Sex With Them?
Face it, people lie about their age but if it's a under age minor lying to an Adult, that could have legal ramifications for the adult. To protect yourself from that happening, maybe should check their ID, verify their age..
Should People Card Someone Before Having Sex With Them?
Should People Card Someone Before Having Sex With Them?
Unless people start making fake ID's to have sex like they do to get in the clubs 😂😂
Should People Card Someone Before Having Sex With Them?
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  • I've asked a question similar to this before although maybe that was the aids question 🤔 but either way, I think it's fair to do and I'll refer to once upon a time in hollywood when brad pitt did it to a hitchhiker. But past that, it's on you. If you are a bartender and you keep serving minors, you probably could get away with it for a while, heck, if you do it right, you might not even get caught but it's on you to be responsible and do the right thing. I think while it can be a mood killer, at a certain age range women can be really mature.
    I was just looking for a random picture and teens that do porn popped up. Let me start by saying she could pass for her twenties, absolutely no problem and that's where it gets tricky. I've been told an interesting way around this, is for both or you to order drinks. If she gets her drink where you can see her get carded, then you are golden but if she can't or disappears from view to get it, the she could have found another way to get it. Or even use the duel card method, even better. You pay for her drink but have the bartender check her to serve her. Something like that...

    Should People Card Someone Before Having Sex With Them?

    • Or just save sex till committed relationship with someone you really know

    • Yes, that too

    • We probably should be more careful about who we choose to be a potential baby momma and be in our lives for the next 18yrs lol

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  • If a minor gets caught with alcohol they get in trouble. Seems like there should be some legal repercussions for a minor who knowingly has sex with anyone 18 or over. Not only are they putting themselves at risk but they are putting the adult at risk of jail time. financial loss.& lifelong scrutiny and hindrance from society and a loss a normal productive life. I'm only talking about in those cases where it's not obvious they are under age. Especially if were talking a month or two or less from turning 18. Seems a little harsh when the judge handling these cases are pedophiles in most cases.

    • I agree 💯

    • I had a 14yr old girl that lived across the street from me when I was 18-19 & her dad was a state trooper. It was an apt complex so my friends and I would be outside a lot and this girl would not leave me alone. I don't know how many times I've went in the apt and next thing I know she's followed me in and came in my bedroom throwing herself at me and begging me to take her cherry. I would've had ended up dead probably lol but here she's not giving 2fucks and I wasn't giving one.

    • See! Yeah, that's exactly what I mean. I don't mean older people, cuz come on, you can tell, I mean I definitely look of age 🤣🤣 And you knew her age... But what had you not, or someone else didn't. She clearly didn't care if you got in trouble, so she probably wouldn't care enough to be honest about her age either... If you're bored scroll through the threads and find the female reply talking about her 15 year old friend that purposely was trying to get pregnant cuz she wants a baby before she dies of covid TF... I really hope that was just a made up story, cuz if it's not, that's messed up on so many levels, and yeah two of the guys she slept with one was 18, one was 19

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  • Interesting expression "carding"... never heard it being said like that... umm, well, I almost never get asked for ID these days (other than lately due to the strictness of COVID19 tracing)...

    I think handing over a card to prove one is old enough to have sex, almost sounds like providing ID/official documents to a modelling/talent studio before doing business... sounds very 'transactional', maybe?

    • Well yeah, you and me there's no doubt we legal 🤣 but more for 18-early 20's to make sure you ain't having sex with a underage person they could land you in legal trouble... You know some teens, especially girls be lying to guys about their age and not even think of the trouble they could be getting that person in, or purposely setting em up. So in cases like that, they should verify the age maybe, transactional better than being labeled a sex offender cuz someone lied to them

    • In that case, one should make it a global law... hah. Imagine that. "Ok, so here's my card, if you approve that, I'll proceed to begin with that doggy style position we talked about, 'cause you've been a baaaaad boy!" *insert whip crack sound effect*

    • 🤣🤣🤣🤣 omg thanks I needed that laugh.. After shoveling and laying in the couch in pain, and not good kind of "pain" lol

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  • it wouldn’t be a bad idea! Considering ALL the “Male Privilege” that men have, they sure do get HUGE prison sentences for screwing underage girls, whereas we poor “oppressed” women get hardly any time, and often only get probation for screwing the same aged boys! So if I was a guy... you bet your ASS I would check the ID of any young looking woman!

    • They should

    • I agree, but I also believe that women should be held equally accountable for sexuality abusing boys! I am SO tired of hearing that teenage girls are more mature than teenage boys, yet these less mature boys can’t “perfectly” handle a sexual relationship with adults, and we MORE mature girls cannot. Whereas we girls are “abused” by a predator, the boys “scored” with a hot-teacher!

    • There will likely always be that double standard. Teenage girls are perceived as something that needs to be protected while teenage boys are seen as winners by their peers whenever their teacher has sex with them. I agree with you, we need to change the punishment for statutory rape to be equal. I don’t see it happening anytime soon though.

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  • It's been a long time since I was young enough, or dated young enough, to need to worry about that.

    • Right! Same here 🤣

  • If you're dating someone who looks exceptionally young, I would.
    If they can't produce a state ID or driver's license. Leave them alone. They aren't old enough.

    • Right!! I don't have that issue at my age, but younger people 18- early 20's who may be fooled by an underage teen

    • Fooled? I'm guessing they're not fooled, they just don't care and in some cases it's a kinky thrill.

  • I never thought to ask for his ID. I’d take him to a casino first. If his fame ID somehow got past them then i wouldn't be surprised if i fell for it

    • Ha good idea 🤣🤣

    • Sadly they still card me because im 5’2 and look like a teen 😂

    • Girl, I went once in middle of night, got dressed half in the dark, they were gonna card me till I got up close, I was... Oh hell no, you made me walk over here now you gonna look at the damn thing= guess my clothes made me look younger but my face looked old 🤣

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  • You can get a citizen card in the uk which you can use to prove your age to buy age restricted items or put men's minds at ease. Only problem is they have your real name on them.

    • Well if you gonna have sex with someone, shouldn't you know their name 🤷🏼‍♀️😂

    • Nope. Better not to know their name, and even better if they don't know yours.

    • Also useful if you have an older similar looking sister who doesn't hide her card

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  • Oh sure. And photograph the ID as proof, too, before fucking that tender 16 year old who claims to be in college. LOL

    • Lololol 🤣🤣🤣

  • Ideally if I let someone hit it, it's someone who I know at least enough to know basic stuff like their name and age :)

    • 👍👍 same here... This would more affect the younger people and the ones into hook ups

    • True, I still hook up but only with close to my age :)

  • Not an issue at my age lol. It does come up but not very often. You could be forgiven for assuming that if they're in a bar or nightclub, they've already been carded by someone at the door or the bar staff so they wouldn't be there if they were underage.

    • You should be able to, if the bouncers do their job right, but some of them will let a pretty girl with big boobs get in...

    • True. I've seen it happy to a friend who was around 27-28 at the time. He picked up a girl at a club who he thought was about 19, turns out she was 16 and he didn't find out until the morning after when she said she had to get up to go to school. Talk about a shock. Thankfully the legal age here is 16, but she shouldn't have been in the club.

    • See yeah, that's exactly the thing I mean... She didn't tell him till the next morning, and even if legal, some would have a moral issue with it, wouldn't have slept with her if they knew she was 16

  • OK, maybe YES, but do you know how to tell if a Driver's License is a fake? Do you know what to look for?
    But the real question, I guess, is "Are you a Cougar, liking the guys that are so young that you might need to know their age?
    Not judging, in ANY WAY!! :) :)

    • Omg, why do you think every question I ask involves me? This question was more because a younger user told me a story about how he was going to put the moves on a chick while on vacation till her father showed up because she was only 15... At my age, I wouldn't be having sex with anyone that would look young enough for me to have to worry about that! In the future, know some questions are general or based off things seen on here, not every question is personal, about the question asker 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @brainsbeforebeauty Honestly, I never assumed every question you post is about you, as you imply. I never assumed anything about who you prefer, as a partner, or whatever! Sorry if the "Cougar" term implied something I didn't mean, but, as I said, NOT JUDGING! Are you pissed off at me, for some reason? I meant no offense, in ANY WAY, yet this reads like you are thinking I am judging you for something, and pissed at me? I don't understand?

  • I only fuck men old enough to be my grandpa, so this isn’t a problem for me.

    • Lol okay... But I more mean for younger people 18-early twenties who could be easily fooled by an underage teen

    • Maybe just ask them if they’ve heard of Joni Mitchell?

  • Orrrrr just don't have sex with someone that you don't even trust enough not to lie about their age. It's beyond me how you couldn't trust someone enough not to lie to you, yet trust them enough to literally put your dick inside them.

    • I agree 💯 there... But come on, how many young people are having sex with people they don't even know, one night stands, hook ups off the internet... Me personally, yeah I don't do that, this question was actually sparked by a story Another user told me on here where he was going to put the moves on a chick while on vacation till her dad showed up cuz she was 15... So it happens 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • Yeah, it's better to do that than catch a damn case by mistake.

    • Exactly, and that's not right! She/he lies (but seems more girls do this) and the adult will get charged but the person that lied don't 🤷🏼‍♀️ I'm glad I'm old enough not to worry about it 🤣

  • Maybe, if ya runnin around gettin it in with a bunch of randoms

  • Better to stop having one night stands. Actually dating and having a relationship before sex because by then age isn’t a mystery

    • Exactly!!! Right!! preaching to the choir lololol

  • while it's a kinda mood killer it may be a better idea to do so these days, especially with how many out there who aren't who they first claimed to be

    • Right!!

  • If you’re going to do that you have to be smooth. Don’t ask under the context of sex or they’ll get offended. Just tease them and say you don’t believe them. If it’s a woman, say she looks younger. If it’s a man say he looks older. Charm them. Then ask them to prove it and look at their id.


    I’ve done this to girls who had baby faces. If they go out of their way not to show their Id it’s sus. I’ve never had a girl not prove her age.

    • This wouldn't be an issue for me at my age... More for people 18-early 20's who could be fooled by a teen that looks older than her age and for those into one night stands and hook ups...

  • Should People Card Someone Before Having Sex With Them?

    Here's my ID

    • 😂😂😂😂

  • Nah...
    I'd just tell her that if she is under the legal age for this jurisdiction and she's lying like a Democrat, should I suffer from arrest or such, then 'my people; will visit her and rearrange her looks so she'll never attract another male for years to come. Threats of violence have their benefits.
    (My neighbourhood is so tough that we drive around in stolen police cars.)

  • I'm past dating anyone that young, but if I were suspicious I would definitely ask.

    • Same, but right if there any doubt people should verify

    • The legal consequences can literally ruin your life.

    • Exactly!!

  • I think so. UNLESS the female is specifically trying to get pregnant or is already pregnant. Then I think no matter her age, sex should be legal between herself and her coital partner and proof of her age is no longer relevant. :) I have a friend who is 15 and who had as much sex as she could with various partners because getting pregnant was her goal. I tried discouraging her. But she said she wants to have a baby before she dies of COVID (she's already had it twice.) She was successful and now her belly is growing plump with baby meat.

    • But if the father is 18, he could still get charged with statutory rape and a sex offender label for life. She's 15, she is not of legal age of consent. What does wanting a baby or getting pregnant change about that? Nothing!! Whether she consented or not is moot when it comes to the law cuz she's not LEGAL age to consent. And that is not right or fair to not care how that could affect or destroy someone's life

    • She 100% thinks she is going to die of the virus. She told me she had unprotected sex with two guys in the same day. I asked her why. She said, "I didn't tell you? I'm trying to get pregnant." I said to her, "don't you want to wait to have a baby?" And she said, "wait for what? To die of covid?" She made her choice and nobody was going to talk her out of it. I even told her that if she gets pregnant and dies of covid, the fetus dies, too. She just said, "really?" And a week later her pregnancy test was positive.

    • Again tho, what does any of that have to do with her having sex with someone who could get charged for doing so? Then she should of had sex with people her own age, not adult males who could get in serious legal trouble for that. Even without her reporting it. She tries to get state insurance, and had to make the father, they can start a case against the guy. Hey parents could. Because SHE is not legal age of consent... And that she didn't even think of that, doesn't sound like she's ready to be a parent in the first place. Because most of being a parent is putting what's best for someone else above yourself. And in the scenario you're describing, ALL she thought about was herself 🤷🏼‍♀️

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  • If you have any doubts. We don't need to be carded, though, do we, Brains?

    • You saying I don't look 16🧐 lmao 🤣

    • LOL, Brains, you know what I think of your looks (I am still resisting the urge to compliment you).

    • 🤣🤣🤣 I'm just messing with yah and thanks 🙂

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