Why do people treat others badly if they love them?

I dont get it honestly. I know women do it too, but evey guy i have met that claims to love me. They want to degrade you in bed, slap, punch, choke, humiliation. I know everyone has their kinks but we what happened to "making" love? Why did the dating world change so much?
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  • They watched too much porn. They lack experience. And decide that the actions dictated by some director, whose trying to go out of his way to show violence as a part of sex, are how you have sex. It's fucked up but that's our youth of today.

    • It really sucks. I hate it. I dont want to be treated like some whore from an alley. I thought sex was supposed to show the other person how you care about them. Im not feeling very loved.

    • There is a simple solution - if anyone started doing that kind of nonsense. Stop, get them out of you and ask what the fuck they think they're doing. If they can't show you basic respect then they're getting nothing more from you.

    • Thank you so much! Im about to leave my boyfriend, he's joked about it only though.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Because of porn. That is what you see happening. Degradation of females. We need a white female movement. They are degrading us. I don't want Asians to replace us as beauty standards which is happening. I'm pissed.

    • Uh, Asian women are also treated in a degrading fashion in pornography, it's not exclusive to white women.

    • I see the bullshit wmaf porn on Reddit. They are elevating Asian girls. There's titles saying they have the tightest and wettest pussy on earth. I'm pissed but they treat white girls like meat or something by other races

    • What has their pussys got to do with anything? Is that really something to be jealous of? Lol

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Most Helpful Guys

  • Because they didn't really love you. When you love someone you put their life above yours, their wishes above yours.

    • Thats what I always thought

    • You were right! In a healthy and balanced relationship both partners need to communicate their needs and kinks to reach a common ground that satisfies them both.

    • You're around my age so im glad that someone else sees it like I do. I couldn't abuse someone I love and be turned on. I know everyone has their kinks but it seems like everyone is like that. Its really sad. What happened to loving them in bed and wanting to be around that person all the time? It seems like every relationship is abusive and a friend with benefits set up.

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  • Don't understand it myself, I wouldn't even consider doing any of that to a girl.

    • Thank you!

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Control

    • I dont like it.

  • Most women these days actually want the slapping, choking, etc. I blame feminism.

    • I dont think im a feminist by any means, but I dont like this treatment at all

    • The you need to let it be known that you like it gentle.

    • I don't think it has anything to do with feminism. I think it's just as with men, porn influencing what they think good sex is like. To some women that stuff translates into being oh-so desirable that a man can't control himself.

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