Have to have a adult conversation about it sex is a thing I u one day stopped kissing her and only kissed her when u decided too it would be a issue sex is the same and if its not somthing that can be changed on her part or yours this relationship won't last
0 0 0 0I’m not sure I understand this “advice”. I go to kiss her all the time. I’m the king of affection. She’s doesn’t like it. She doesn’t come kiss me unless she really wants it. I’ve tried the pull back method too aka giving too much. But there’s no response.
I'm saying relationships are give and take both way if u stopped doing somthing she loved im sure she would have a issue with it so again talk to her about it and explain what u have said here
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What you're not getting is that she is your girlfriend. She is not your wife. But you picked her. If you love her. Then you deal with that. If you saying all you want is sex sex sex, and it's the truth. You need to pull back. Otherwise she's going to grow up to hate having sex with you and is making her depressed. Better for her to be honest with you now then for her to be cheating with another man just to feel good about myself. I'm not saying that she's going to be in the right but I'm telling you to respect her. Women don't want to feel like we're human sex toys. We want to be cherished and loved. Have self-control. What you doing makes people feel scared to have sex.
0 0 0 1When are girls like you going to really understand? You don't love her. You love the sex. Period. If she's telling you that you don't make her feel loved you're doing something wrong. That's why I don't agree with premarital sex. Because you're teaching yourself to want sex more than you want the person.
Please understand what you doing does not come from from the language of love. It comes from the language of you wanting sex. How we know? You said you can have three to five times every week. If she is so happy having sex with you she would not be saying those things. The saying that because he feels unloved, she feels just, you have unrealistic expectations of her. All the more reason why I am so glad I am not sexually active and never happened. I cannot be with a man who treats me that way. I get treated that way and I never dated anybody. But I get accused for being asexual. And I'm not. A woman needs love. A woman needs a friend. A woman needs to feel safe. She needs to feel cherished. She needs to fill value. She needs patient. She does not need somebody hounding her because she's not giving sex. It's what's expected her and she's telling you she can't provide that for you. And I think you noticed too. When I like that have nothing to do with her birth control. That's for her is miserable too. And I'm just being honest. Don't believe me go ask her ask her if she's happy having sex with you and I promise you she's either going to really give you the answer or she's going to rain quiet and then you're going to feel like crap. The one that really needs to change is you. You need to change how you are handling the situation and how you are treating her sexually. You're only doing this for your own sexual gratification instead of assuming that you feel the same way, you need to learn who she is. While it's good that you both Understand Each Other's Love Languages. You need to learn and understand who she is and you have yesterday because all you're doing is just having sex.
You are not having sex with discovery and knowing her. Sex is a tunnel from the thin, she has a truly desire that from you. She can't do that if all you do is take take take, and only give when you get to be able to take only. That's not love. That's selfishness. Control your sexual frustrations because that's your responsibility is not ours. And learn to love her. Not sex and not the sexy gives you. Learn to love her. Otherwise all you got in this relationship is that. Something that you want sex all time. Not my word. I hear that from a guy and he's responding that way I would not date him. I would not want to desire sex with that kind of person. And it ain't because I'm selfish. It's because I know I need love. And I'm not going to be used as someone sex toy.
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You can’t fix this. Possibly she could but as long as she doesn’t want to work on barriers to her own sex drive - which may not exist a it’s likely to get worse not better.
I’d strongly suggest you break up. If not now, when? This is what your whole life will be like if you don’t walk away.0 0 1 0
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