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How to find sex when you’re unattractive?

I know that no man will ever want to have sex with me, because I have some issues and flaws that men are going to find really unattractive and very hard to overlook. The biggest one is that my body proportions are really f*cked up, and I’m not exaggerating - they are weird! My boobs are really huge (30E) and my ass is massive, and it just looks so strange next to my tiny waist. It looks like I’m genuinely some sort of alien or like I’ve had plastic surgery to look like a Barbie doll, ugh it’s so embarrassing. Also my lips are so full, and compared to all my friends I look like I’ve had a bee sting or something!! I’m also really young looking. I am 22 but I’ve been told I look 14 because I have “innocent eyes” and am short. I mean, what man is going to want to have sex with a woman who looks 14 but has massive breasts? That’s so f*cked up!! And I have some serious psychological issues too - for example, I love the idea of giving a man a blowjob, but I am really ambivalent to the idea of him giving me oral back. I like the idea of being f*cked hard in the vagina and mouth interchangeably until he cums, and really not worry about my own sexual satisfaction. I just don’t know how any man would ever want someone who has such strange psychological issues and is so f*cked up. I’m really down about it. 😔

I desperately want to experience the feeling of flesh on flesh in flesh, for the first time, and feel loved and wanted. Please help me, I’m desperate. It’s getting hard to keep wiping away all the wetness my vagina is producing from being so horny all the time. 😔
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  • For once I'll answer seriously to a probable copypasta, but it's alright.
    I'm not a looker either. I'm 162cm tall, I have uneven teeth and smoke like a chimney.
    But somehow, despite being disgusted by sex, I always managed to get it simply by the virtue of not wanting it I think.
    Humans need to exert their dominance on other humans, and I think the kind of women I've had to deal and currently deal with just like to do that by shoving disgusting stuff on me.
    That, or they really like assh*les in the end, or I have some kind of superficial charm.
    Anyway, just stop caring about it and being desperate. Something will come along for sure.

    • You mean the other times you weren’t being serious?

    • I was. More or less. Here I'm more serious.

    • Okay, well I am HONOURED.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Well, what to do.
    First off, you are judging yourself way to hard. So stop that.
    Second, there are MANY men out there that would crawl through fire to get to your boobs and booty. Guys are pretty simple... big boobs (cool). Big butt (cool).
    Your sexual fantasies are nothing new. Many women want to get it hard and want to get the guy off. The only thing I think you should do is to let a guy go down on you if they want... I am sure you will love it.

    If you can't come to a resolve with yourself, then maybe a psychologist can help with the mind issues. But I think you are fine and you need to relax and find a guy.
    Good Luck.

    • Thanks for the MHO :)

Most Helpful Girl

  • I don't understand, I know a few guys who likes petite girls

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  • Please tell me this is some sort of back-handed joke...

    Women who are in waaaaaaaaaaaaay less fortunate positions than you find sex... quite easily. You are describing a lot of qualities that men want.

    Are you CONFUSED? GIRL. WAKE UP!

    • What are you talking about? I am so ugly. Like some China doll or something. I don’t look real, honestly. And I forgot to mention that I’m also really submissive and like just going along with whatever people tell me to do. Men hate pushovers. 😔

    • This responds 100% tells me that you are memeing. I'm not falling for it.

    • What do you mean? I was told men hate submissive women who look underage and have huge breasts? Is this not true? Is there some hope for me?

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  • very very very funny post i love you

  • So I read this post wondering when I was gonna get to the part where u say that your unattractive this is another prime example of the grass being greener in the 9ther side you have assets women work out to get so please stop over thinking

  • You get what you put out girl.
    Honestly though, go to a bar, act a little slutty, and men will be all over you regardless of if you had a bag on your head or if you had massive features.

    Non jokingly, you can send a picture of yourself and I bet a whole bunch of men would jump on you.

  • Trolls...

  • You don’t sound unattractive at all.

  • Oof if i was close to you id fuck you desperate ly with my nearly 7 inch long penis you sound great😘😘. Id fuck you at least 4 times a day

    • Really? That is actually so nice to hear, thank you! Are you sure it wouldn’t put you off that I look 14 and just want to give and not receive? Please be honest, I need to hear the truth.

    • Aww you're welcome sweetheart😇 as lomg as you have your id with you that young face will keep my erection s as hard as a rock

    • You are amazing - I didn’t even know men like you existed!! I’m so happy to know that not all men are shallow as I once thought. 😊

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  • Your kinks aren't holding you back. I would bet your looks also aren't. Your insecurities are.

  • you don't. You have to change your perception first

  • I guarantee not many people notice. It’s all in your head.

  • There is always someone out there for everyone.

  • there is "someone" for everyone... have faith

  • You never know. There is always someone out there who wants to be with someone like you. Never sell yourself short

  • Nobody knows your emotional problems, you can just hide them. Let the men do their job, just smile politely.

    • Okay, that is really good advice thanks. What should I do about my boobs though?

    • Hide them somehow

    • Should I get surgery to make them A cups?

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  • I fuck with you
    If you likes me

    • Wow really? You are very generous. Are you SURE you don’t mind that I look 14? 😔

    • No definitely not If you like me means anything will be fine Why are you so demotivated yourself

    • Can we talk

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  • Is it harder for even unattractive/ugly girls?

  • don't lose hope in yourself although what you said is really fucked up you can make it better
    undo any surgery you've got then have a strong exercise schedule and stick to it no matter what work on your boobs, on your ass, and even on your abs
    you are not unattractive, you just feel bad about yourself and you are letting that feeling destroy you
    you can become beautiful, you just need to believe in yourself

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