Why my gay friend keeps seducing me?

Why my gay friend keeps seducing me?
I'm a straight girl and my gay friend has kissed me on the mouth several times, he touches my thigh and he also gave me a hickey. All of these with my consent of course because I'm attracted to him.

He is Gay (if not, he is at least Homoflexible). There is no doubt about it. He had many same-sex relationships and he is currently in a relationship with a guy. He lost his virginity to a guy when he was 15. Now we are both 17.

I'm not the only girl he flirts with. He has given a hickey to one of our female friends too. And he has also kissed her in front of me. I personally think that he does all these because he finds really funny and entertaining the fact that he can make me wet so easily 😓🤤🙄.
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He sometimes texts me "I want you", "I'm in love with you" or "kiss meee" and I really don't know how to react.
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*HEEELP* I texted him to find out if he is bi or if he manipulates me. He says that I'm "illogical" and avoids to give me an answer. How can I make him confess something? If he is not bi then I have to cut him out of my life, so it's really important to me.
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  • He must be bi. It's his call to decide. He seems manipulator too. Cut him out. and make sure he don't kisses someone in front of you either. Be firm and neutral walk away if he is smooching around someone else in front of you. Do whatever it takes. You will not be happy for short term or long term.

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  • um... you know he can be pan or bi right? just cause he's only been with guys doesn't mean he can't like girls too XD

    • I have asked him and he denies that. He has been with girls too (including me in the past). He used to identify as bi but now he has made it clear to everyone that he is only interested in guys.

    • i mean i did the same but the reverse where i said i was only attracted to girls cause of the amount of people who think that "bi isn't real" or "pan people are fakers" .. I don't know XD

    • I texted him, and he told me that he flirts with anyone when he is not in a relationship. Does it make sense to you?

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  • Then he is not gay

    • He has to be bi, kissing girls isn't for gay guys

  • Maybe he is bi curious and playing around.

    Or just likes the power trip over people.

  • people have become crazy about sex in the last decade. And switching sexuality is very common i know many people changed their sexuality multiple times. So i don't trust I'm 'gay' im 'lesbain' ... I just said what i see

  • Whatever label he wants to use is fine, but this sexual assault need to end. Tell him it makes you uncomfortable.

    • lmao it's not a sexual assault. We play witch each other, I do stuff to him too

    • *with

    • But it does makes me uncomfortable because he does these things when we are at school and also I don't know how to feel when he identifies as gay and at the same time acts like he is bi

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  • You need to find a real man.

  • Not gay, he's bi

  • He’s not really gay he playing you one of my friends did it back in school and had more sex because girls wanted to see if they could make him straight

  • sound more bi

  • Sounds like he is bi and know how he can get girls. Good gig if you can pull it off.

    • I really doubt that he is bi because he told me once that he would not enjoy having sex with a girl. I hope that he is bi though because if he is not, it means that he manipulates me in a very unhealthy way. I suspect that he was trying to make me obsessed with him because he is a narcissist and controlling. And he has accomplished that.

    • How old are you? How does he control you? How far have you let him go?

    • I'm 17 and he is too. He accomplished to make me fall IN LOVE with him, and now I'm suffering so much psychologically. With him identifying as gay, it feels like my suffering will never end. And he is the only friend that I have. I see him in my dreams every single night and I cannot function well in my everyday life. Sometimes I can't focus on my studies because I fantasize about him and other times I start crying and feeling depressed because I can't fulfill my sexual desires

  • Well it sounds like he is bisexual kr bicurious!

  • Sounds like he isn't gay

  • He's not really gay it is just an angle to get into your pants; as well as other girls pants. If he really lost his virginity to another guy then he is bi.

  • well forget about him
    since he is gay, he can't do you lol

    • do u have highsex drive?

    • I'm lovesick.

    • lol dont say so:)) but he is not straight.. i guess he isn't someone for you

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