Deleted her on snapchat, why did she block me instantly?

I hooked up with a girl and we didn't really have chemistry and we agreed to do it again but it ended up never working out and she would give me the rare good convo then stop replying after a couple messages. She had me on her private story after previously taking me off of it, but I didn't want to see what she was up to because it did kind of hurt that she wouldn't say if she wanted to meet again or not, so I deleted her the other day. Almost instantly, probably about 30 minutes after deleting her, she blocked me. Any thoughts why? I wouldn't message her again for another week at least after being left on read, so i'm not thinking I was annoying her, but did she do it out of anger or spite? Or just didn't like me and was glad she didn't have to talk to me anymore? She always viewed my stories and private stories but would never reply when I had other girls on them or even really at all anymore. Even if she did unblock me, which i'm not going to keep an eye on because it kind of helps me forget about her completely, I'd just like any input or thoughts as to why? Also the hookup was bad for me, she was terrible and disgusting at oral, and I guess it was too big for her to ride because she would let out a painful moan when i pushed her down, but on my part she told me she's never been this wet and was screaming that she was about to squirt and her entire body was trembling.
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When I say "it never worked out" I started seeing another girl when she flaked on me for the 3rd time, on our second date which was supposed to be more intimate and more than just sex, and she got upset and when I hit her back up after leaving the other girl she was cold and distant towards me.
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  • Well, I fully understand her for blocking you right away.

    Your comment "... I started seeing another girl..." made her realize that you were probably just a player that is looking for preys to add to a list of body counts.

    Also, your other comment "... she was terrible and disgusting at oral,..." definitely tells me that you are only looking for hookups and not a serious relation. Any decent girl would do the same and I am sure that she is glad that she saw right through you and what kind of person you are.

    You seem to place so much emphasis on sex and none whatsoever on the human being, the character or personality of those prey of yours.

    • No, I'm looking for a relationship but not into rushing into things. She was the one who contacted me about hooking up and having sex, I had always suggested a nice dinner with wine date but those plans always fell through and she only came to me when she wanted to have sex.. Also I said she was terrible at sex, because even though this was probably the main reason she started losing attraction for me other than no chemistry and me seeing another girl, the day after having sex I texted her and told her "last night was amazing" which was a blatant lie but I liked her vibe and wanted to try the original plan I had. She also recommended that we be friends with benefits when I told her I'm not into cheap one time hookups but not looking for a girlfriend right away which she also said she wasn't looking for a boyfriend right away. And by the way I never had sex with the other girl I was seeing, my body count is less than 10, and the girl who blocked me was afraid of being honest and sounded deceitful when we talked about it. I asked her about an std test and body count, and she got super defensive and told me obviously I've been "fucking other girls" when she knows I haven't. But in the end I'm pretty much over it🤷🏽‍♂️ And the only time she would respond to me after having sex was when I talked about sex, I would try to have genuine convos with her and she would never reply or give me dry messages. I don't know why Im asking the internet, cuz clearly we weren't right for each other and we both have problems that shouldn't have to be fixed by each other.

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  • I think she might have feelings for you and not want to feel jealous over other girls, or maybe she wants to feel she has control over the situation so wants to reject you more than you reject her, since your rejection of her might leave her feeling disempowered, even if it was a lighter form of detachment and not total rejection.

    • Yeah, i agree with the second one it seems most likely. It just seems like a childish thing to do blocking someone for absolutely nothing, but then again she was never a blocking person. She's always tried playing the long game with me and i feel like she blocked me so she could remember my username if she ever decides to find me again after some time

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  • That's what she does to guys that are not interested in her. It's fairly normal.

  • Probably blocked you out of spite, some women take deletes to heart.

    • Thats one of the things I kind of figured, but what I'm saying is she's a busy girl, and has a baby and always has dudes hitting her up, but she chose me over all of them to bang after 2 months of breaking up with her ex.. The main thing is, how and why did she block me so quick? She had to be checking my profile constantly or reviewing my stories to notice I had deleted her

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  • She’s angry and you guys didn’t work out

    • I mean those are things I already know, but i appreciate the insight