How to suck a dick properly? In a way that pleases a guy the most? what other kinky things guys like?

I want to know how to be a good fuck. And not just lay there during sex. Which one of these can please a guy ( please i am into rough things, so dont tell me i he will think i am a hooker )

-should i moan or and what to dirty talk in bed?
-Where to touch him so it feels good. How to play with his balls without hurting him?
-I like to be called degrading names in bed as well. Can that turn a guy on?
-rimming
-hair pulling
-being fucked doggy style or the guy placing a foot over my face while penetrating me and spitting on me

-let him smear my face with cum? Or swallowing is better.

-deep-throating and gagging
-licking his nipples and his neck or guys dont like that?
-biting his lips
- getting his dick between my tits. and sucking my own tits in front of him.

-to lean my head over his shoes after he put his sneakers back on. While he is smoking a cigarette and checking his phone. ( that is a fantasy of mine)
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  • -should i moan or and what to dirty talk in bed? I love that as long as she enjoys hearing it too.
    -Where to touch him so it feels good? Anywhere intimate. How to play with his balls without hurting him? Lightly touch and fondle them. Squeeze them gently. His cock is not all that sensitive so you can grip it good and hard, esp at the base.
    -I like to be called degrading names in bed as well. Can that turn a guy on? Very much. Do you like being slapped around a little? Spanked? Held down?
    -rimming? Absolutely!!
    -hair pulling? I love it.
    -being fucked doggy style or the guy placing a foot over my face while penetrating me and spitting on me? I love to dominate that way.

    -let him smear my face with cum? Or swallowing is better. I prefer she swallow. Sometimes a facial where she uses a spoon and eats it.

    -deep-throating and gagging? Some of my favorite things.
    -licking his nipples and his neck or guys dont like that? Some men like it but not me.
    -biting his lips? Careful with that?
    - getting his dick between my tits. and sucking my own tits in front of him. That can be really hot.

    -to lean my head over his shoes after he put his sneakers back on. While he is smoking a cigarette and checking his phone. ( that is a fantasy of mine) I can't get a mental picture of that so no comment. Care to try again

    • Thank u so much you took the time to comment on them all☺️ The last point i meant that I would like to have my head over a guy’s shoes as a sign of submission. Even if we are not having sex. So he might be busy doing something else while i lay there at his feet. I dont think many guy would think of that. Its just one of my silly kinks😅

    • It's not silly. Is he dominant in the relationship?

    • Yea he is dominant but sometimes he likes me to take control. But i fail at being dominant. Because i do not enjoy it as much I enjoy being a sub

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  • For the girl, being a good fuck is basically just being able to manoeuvre yourself into the right position. Don't try to "fuck back". Just be malleable, cooperative and accommodating. From experience, I have found that if the sex is feeling comfortable and pleasurable for me, it's working for her too. If it feels awkward for me, it does for her too.
    As for oral sex, that is also very easy. Suck, involve your tongue and don't touch it with your teeth.

    • What about the v shaped area behind the gland of the penis. Shall i just focus on that? Or the shaft as well? do u guys feel any pleasure through the shaft

    • Yes. The penis has a lot of nerve endings on the "ridge of the helmet". What you should kind of be aiming to do is emulate the movement of a foreskin. That is the same whether he still has one or not.

    • So i just have to move my lips up and down the ridge of the helmet? Do i need to added some pressure with my lips or it can hurt. ? What about eye contact? I see in some videos that the girls look at the guy while sucking his dick. But i find it to be weird a bit😂 but i can do it though if guys like that

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  • i dont get this one:
    "-to lean my head over his shoes after he put his sneakers back on. While he is smoking a cigarette and checking his phone. ( that is a fantasy of mine) "

    moan yes , actually moaning makes it more pleasurable for both , when you moan small you eventually get used to it to the point you program your mind to enjoy it and moan for real and louder.
    for dirty talk , can be like am your slut , cum inside me , i want to swallow it.

    i crave your cum. i want you so deep in me. put it all the way in etc.. all the dirty things in porn.

    where to touch?
    around the pennis. and the balls and under the balls between his ass and the balls. small pressure there.
    also when he is about to cum touch his balls and left them tiny bit up like 0.2 inch only that will increase his orgasm intensity like 5x.

    about the balls it depends from one guy to the other , so some too sensitive like me just licking slowly and tiny sucks not rough while others can handle full rough massage and sucking strong like blowjobs.

    i dont like rimming. but i dont mind her touching my ass during the blowjob and apply some pressure with her fingers , but not putting it in , it feels weird.

    hair pulling : i like that and i think most guys like to do it specially during doggy (but not strongly )

    spitting on her and placing a foot :/ hmm not sure because i will feel bad for her , its like treating her badly which i dont want to do that to a girl i love/like.

    cum on face is nice but i love the to swallow more. but i enjoy both.
    deepthroat is fine. but normal blowjobs feel better.

    "licking his nipples and his neck or guys dont like that?
    -biting his lips
    - getting his dick between my tits. and sucking my own tits in front of him."
    all these huge turn on and would give me a boner even after i ejaculate , most likely will go round 2 immediately if a girl do any of that to me hhhh
    i also would like to put my dick between the tits and cum on her (never done it yet but planning to)

  • A big reason that the male orgasm happens (best) from head is when there is a very steady rhythm stimulating the tip. "Deep throating" is not such a big deal because all that does is simulate the experience of being in the warm wet snug vagina. During intercourse, it is the tip being touched and stimulated that causes excitement and orgasm.

    Keep in mind, all the best BJs are also a bit of a hand job as well so don't be afraid to give your mouth a break.

    And don't forget the balls! They get lonely and are STARVING for female attention. So, sometimes use your fingers or hand such as cupping or teasing testicles or the penis.

    Google "Fellucia Blow" and STUDY those videos. Those women are experts at fellatio and genuinely love it. The sensuous BJ really is best both for the guy and for the woman. Watch and notice how easily they do it yet aren't choking or getting sick. And watch how they switch between mouth and fingers.

    Also, look into videos for:

    A) lingam massage (tantric massage for the male genitalia)
    B) yoni massage (tantric massage for the female genitalia - he should return the favor).

    That said, consider studying good hand-job videos. All you then have to do is imagine doing what the woman is doing with her hands and fingers, but instead replace with lips, tongue, and mouth.
    I'd upload a video, but it is not safe for G@G. PM if you want the links to two such videos.

    • Thank you so much! I will check those videos now😜

    • You have to PM me.

  • Dont waste ur time on the shaft we dont feel anything there. Focus on the tip of the penis. Move ur tongue and lip up and down the tip
    moaning is amazing just dont over do it
    dirty talk also is something that makes me go crazy. But the right words at the right time.
    you can lick the balls, or make him rub his balls in your face while u rim him. But dont touch the balls a lot they are very sensitive
    -calling a girl degrading names in bed is hot if she is into. Actually it can be the hottest part
    not into rimming or hair pulling.
    but I would love the one with the whole doggy style thing with the foot on the face. That is actually very hot.

  • varies in every way from one individual to the next.

  • Moaning is a huge turn-on.
    Definitely some hair pulling.
    I've never done doggy but its a big fantasy.
    Swallowing is and easy clean up. I think the smearing your face with cum would be insanely hot.
    Don't know about gagging but deep throating is awesome. It feels so fricken good.
    Licking and biting gets me going insanely hard. it's like flipping a switch on me.
    A dick between the tits, mmm love that.

  • Go to porn site I guess they will show you how to suck properly , at least no teeth.

  • Send me a dm.

  • Gluck gluck

    • 😂 the words you wrote in german means luck 😂

  • Suck and lick the head (The most sensitive part)
    Fondle his balls and moan deeply.

  • then go watch porn or something. We're not going to dirty talk you here, bro

  • You sound like a good sub. You will find plenty of doms to degrade you during sex. The key is that he treats you well all other times.

    • Yea i like to be submissive during sex. Though i am no sub in real life. But i like to submit to my man in bed.

    • Perfect! I'm not a dom and wouldn't be a good one anyway. I treat my lady the same all the time, respectfully.

  • Different guys balls are different kind of sensitive, and some guys like to be squeeze his balls.
    I love to squeeze and kick my balls very hard , and then suck my dick that's feel so good.

  • lick suck and play, dont forget the balls. and a finer in his butt

  • Its necessary to do alternative movements and use your tongue.

  • You have serious problems darling, but you sound like my kind of fuck you horny bitch.
    Don't forget to call me daddy or gramps?
    Now get over here slut.

    • That was hot!!🥵🤩

  • Rollll your tongue just beneath the head of his penis and also his inner shaft.
    he will gone crazy.
    good luck.

  • Squirt Nothing!, It Erupts!

  • Most of those will please a guy
    My advice for a bj is to use lots of spit and suck till he's completely done cumming
    My advice for rough sex is fight back

  • 1. Do both
    2. Just holding them and a light tug feels good
    3. Some guys like that
    4. I don't like running but some do
    5. I like hair pulling
    6. Doggy is good
    7. Either is good
    8. I don't like deep throating but a lot do
    9. I like when a girl licks my nipple and neck
    10. I like a little biting
    11. Not a fan
    Any more questions just ask

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