Is it a turn off if a girl can't take you hard and rough?

[Anonymous]

I must have some sensitive insides because I can not for the life of me take it hard. It's just not in me and even when I try it anticipates my period. I can fit two fingers, stretch pretty well but takes a few minutes. I've asked this to some random guys online and they all said I would make them cum quick, that I sound like a dream but most likely they were just horny. So please, in all honesty, I sound damaged lol?

Would you try to make me take it hard or just accept that I'm soft like that?

[Maraneva]

In truth not all girls are built to withstand a battering ram on their most sensitive part. You're not damaged, just normal. Some women have a naturally bigger opening and some are plenty tight. If the size difference between your vagina and the penis of the guy with you is very large though, you'll both have a tough time with intercourse. He'll get frustrated by lack of penetration and you'll get hurt from excessive penetration.
If I were with you I'd probably just give some extra foreplay time to loosen up and then try. Still too tight... I'd back down again and resort to fingers and tongue🤷

[SystemOfTheMachine]

If I was with you, I would do it how you want, because I get off when my woman gets off, so if you wanted it soft, I would do it soft.

[AustinMan]

I'd start soft and try to work out way up to banging you hard.

[Kurαȷ]

For me it's not, simply because I just don't like it "hard and rough".
I always found that getting to the end gradually makes for a much better orgasm.

[kkirk4442]

It sounds like you mean quite hard, and rough. I have never given it to a girl roughly. I have given it hard, but not hard enough to be anything like rough. It is fun to ram it hard sometimes. Regarding not being able to take is hard being a turn off. I think my degree of giving it hard would not be a problem for any woman, as it's not at all rough, just ramming it home fast with some emphasis.

[boggboss]

The more u get turned on via forplay the move it should stretch and when properly lubricated it should be fine

[Sam_The_Savage]

As a human I like you bkoz you're honest at least on social media.

As a guy I ignored you bkoz it will be turn off.

[Makeushiver]

It's the fantasy of hard and rough more than anything that's hot though "urgent" which is a slightly less version of hard and rough is great. When you're that turned on, you try to ( Or maybe I should be using the pronoun I" I feel like I can make my partner cum all night.

[genericname85]

it's relatively normal to not be able to go rough from the get go... takes some practice and warming up...

i would say those random guys online were not terribly experienced. cause pelvic floor immobility does not equal tightness. i would definitely give it a chance. but never being able to let go and just fuck the heck out of each other seems a bit of a downer. i wouldn't just throw in the towel tho. mabye there's a way.

[AmeerX]

Obviously how she likes it is better

[Jamie05rhs]

I would be as gentle as you need me to be.

[larry69]

Give it to you slowly ans giod