Is it a big deal that I couldn’t get hard because of too much whiskey even though I still made her squirt 4 times?

[warrenstone]

I couldn’t get hard because I downed about 9 shots of fireball and I have no alcohol tolerance, but I didn’t let that stop the fun, so I fingerbanged her and ate her ass and pussy the whole night and made her squirt 4 times. My apartment was soaked. At the end of the night we ended up kissing and cuddling very passionately. Is it a big deal that I couldn’t give her any dick? Because it’s making me insecure as fuck in my head, even though she knows it was just whiskey dick.

[PrudentGuy]

I read your Details and know exactly what you're trying to say, or... pardon me... justify.

No dude, no. Foreplay is always foreplay, no matter how many times you made her cum.

Sex = penis in vagina.

And that's why it's called the "climax".

Sorry dude, she may not say anything, but I must because the name of man has been spoiled by you: when you know you're going to get laid, please stop "whisky dick" mode. It's simply unacceptable.

PS: Other than that dick, I think you can be a great lover.

[warrenstone]

So Is this why she’s not coming back?

[warrenstone]

by the way I didn’t know I was gonna get laid. A friend brought her over to my place when I was already drunk

[PrudentGuy]

I would never know nor guess correctly. Just call her, ask her out, and buy her a meal. Then talk. No worries the past. But assure her that you’ll guard over your drinking habit. In fact, speak nicely and request her to be a part of your recovery. Girls like to be involved in such, as long as you're sincere about it.

[warrenstone]

I don’t have a drinking problem hence the low tolerance. It was just a bad coincidence. I’ve tried seeing if she wants to go again but she’s playing games so I had to cut her off. I told her that my dick works perfectly when I’m not wasted so maybe she’ll come back around.

[warrenstone]

Plus she’s seen my erect penis via dick pics

[PrudentGuy]

OMG! Dick pic? Did she asks for it? No dude, unless she asks, girls hate receiving dic pics. Sorry, but you really screw up big times. Try again and ask her out. Start fresh if she agrees to a non sex date. Sounds like you like her. But she had bad first impressions. Do amendments if she give you another chance. Otherwise you likely lost her already.

[warrenstone]

Random nudes were a thing with us. She actually hmu one day and told me she wanted to be fuck buddies. That’s the vibe we had.

[PrudentGuy]

"she wanted to be fuck buddies"? So why ask the question? Ask her over and start fucking! This time no whisky!

[warrenstone]

I’ve already pursued too much with no luck. It just sucks like hell. I feel like i blew it with someone I really wanted to be friends with benefits with, and she’s probably gossiped with her friends about my whiskey dick. She probably sees me as less of a man. It’s got me depressed as fuck. If I knew she was coming over I wouldn’t have touched a drop alcohol.

[PrudentGuy]

Your replies are so contradictory. You mean she wants to be FB before the drunk fuck? Or after? And now she doesn't want? Come on dude, make it clear. For now, I'll stop replying until I know exactly the sequence of events. You sounds like a troll.

[warrenstone]

She wanted to be friends with benefits before the whole whiskey dick episode, and now she curves all my attempts to get her back to my place, so I had to stop contacting her.

[warrenstone]

I feel like I’m coming from a point of desperation to prove to her that I can actually dick her down when I sober, which is the true, but I don’t think it’ll ever happen at this point.

[PrudentGuy]

Ok. I believe your story. Give her a break. Stop contacting her for 3 months. Then try again, as if you're attempting for a new date. Yes, you screwed up. Hence give her space. Perhaps better luck after she start then broke off with another guy.

[PrudentGuy]

And by the way, NEVER act on "point of desperation to prove..." Girls hate desperate guys. Trust me on this. Be patient. Wait 3 months. No contact. Remember this axiom of relationship: guys think of sex, girls feel for love. Learn it, master it, and you'll win her heart, then her vagina.

[warrenstone]

Do you think she’ll remember me as the guy with the whiskey dick, or the guy who didn’t let the fun end by eating the absolute hell out of her ass and pussy? This is a serious question.

[PrudentGuy]

Trust me, after 3 months, it doesn't matter anymore. This is why I suggest you wait patiently. Then when you contact her, be sincere and honest and don't be boastful. Let her feel your sincerity and desire to be her lover. Yes, girls feel. If you can "melt" her, she'll overlook all your shit faults. (This is why many girls endure abuses by "bad guys".)

[PrudentGuy]

I think this thread is too long and getting off topic. PM me if you want to chat further.

[DrunkAss]

If you did really well, you'll probably get another try when sober.

[MountAverage]

Why are you talking like a giant douchebag? Are you a giant douchebag? Because if you aren't, then you should stop talking like one.