If it hurts when a guy gives you oral, it's because he doesn't know what he's doing. He shouldn't be stimulating your clit directly until you are fully aroused, your clit is engorged and erect and you're good and wet, otherwise your clit will be far to sensitive and direct stimulation will be painful. At first he should be gently teasing your inner and outer labia with his tongue and running his tongue lightly over your clit hood. Once you're fully aroused he can Swirl his tongue around your clit hood and use his tongue to slide your clit hood up and down your clit and as you get more and more aroused and your juices are flowing he can get into sucking on your labia (the inner labia is connected to the clit hood) and also sucking on your clit hood. If this is done correctly he should be able to give you multiple orgasms. It never hurts to direct him to your favorite spots as not every women enjoys the exact same thing. Communication is key in any relationship whether it is an emotional relationship, sexual or even in business. That is just a very quick and basic overview and I hope it helps. As far as fingering guys tend to be too aggressive far to quickly and often don't keep their nails trimmed properly and can scratch your vaginal wall making it very uncomfortable.
Where did you learn this and where can I find a man like you?
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I'd love to get you off and fully satisfy your needs. My biggest turn on would be giving pleasure and turning you on. I love to hear those involuntary gasps and soft moans of pleasure building within you. Most likely that will never happen unfortunately.
Maybe he just needs to be more gentle! The more sensitive the better in my opinion! So tell him just to lighten up because it can feel amazing!
I am honest with my man i ask him to lick and lube me the to slowly insert make sure to have his nails cut beforehand too and let him be gentle
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