Sexual Relationships
+1 y

Does sex feel better for men or women?

Trying to see something here.
Men
Vote A
Women
Vote B
Select gender and age to cast your vote:
Girl Guy
0 1

Most Helpful Guys

  • Us guys typically associate sexual pleasure with an orgasm.

    Simply putting, "sex" to the point just before the "point of no return" is called "blue balls" and it's extremely displeasurable, even make the guy irritable and lose basic human decency (which may rape the girl).

    But for a girl, the entire "sexual" episode may simply be kissing, cuddling, and intimate serenading. And she's satisfied just prior to an orgasm.

    The above is about "sex" without reaching orgasm.

    With orgasm,

    the guy enters the refractory phase. He is satisfied and usually goes to sleep.

    the girl may ends there should the guy sleeps. But reports shown she's not 100% satisfied if the guy just sleep without some intimate cuddling.

    Otherwise she may have multiple from foreplay to climax.

    See the different stages and orgasmic outcomes?

    To conclude, who is more pleasured cannot be determined in a general statement. It depends on every circumstances.

    But in general, sex brings guys his craved orgasm and hence most guys prefer sex to masturbation;

    whereas girls may not receive her craved multiple and hence usually not as hard up for sex as guys. But many don't mind give her guy sex because she is satisfied with him showing more attention to her during the wooing process.

    Such are the differences, making it extremely difficult to answer your question.

    • I mean the feeling of penetration itself, would it feel better for women or men? The feeling of a penis thrusting in a vagina I can say feels like a really good internal massage, especially when it reaches the g-spot. I‘ll go crazy when it’s done correctly. And well, any woman will beg you to fuck them this way. For men, I’ve heard it feels like they’re fucking warm, wet velvet or it feels like apple pie lol those sound pretty descriptive and fantastic. If I could imagine sticking my clit into a wet vagina, I would definitely say men have it better.

    • From this reply, I'm more convinced that my understanding about penetration and orgasm is correct: that they are both different, like red and blue. Which is "better", red or blue? There is no answer. But they are experienced differently by two color-blind, one of red, another of blue. Yes, us guys can tell and like blue, but don't understand red. Vice versa you girls who knows red, but cannot understand blue. They are both "good". But we are blind to each others pleasures. Too bad...

  • I voted "women", but of course it would, and does, depend on so many other factors. Besides, it isn't really possible to compare, unless you've experienced sex from the perspective of both genders which, of course, no one ever has.

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

Related Questions

If women don’t enjoy penetration then why do they like sex?
What makes someone of opposite sex good in bed for you?
Is getting a circumcision the right answer in my case?
What is the safest way to dispose a used condom that was not your husband?

What Girls & Guys Said

1 16

  • It's both common knowledge and scientifically backed up that girls get the better feelings in sex. Whether or not the partner gets them to that stage is a different matter.
    Guys have a lower threshold which makes the girls orgasm more intense

    • Excluding orgasm, I mean. Which is better?

    • Probably still stick with girls. Like their hormones drive them crazy and they lose control easier

    • You’re right lol It happens when women ovulate. That explains why they go crazy.

    • Show All

  • When i have sex I have 1 goal and That it to take here to a place she has never been and just almost stop and start again and this time do the same thing but with all w www touch and build her up to that peek again and a slowly start again but this time it's going to be so intense and as it builds. To anout 85 % I will drop it to 5 % back up to 85. To 80. To 5 then it's on we are going to go 110 and ride it till 1 15. 120% and in that moment it's so loud to so quite 20 min later u feel some thing touching ur back you fight to open your eyes but theythety won't you fight and find as they open. You feel your self. Sitting up so fast. And that's when you say wow it was the bed lol and I just has best sex. Sex ever Andi just had the best out of body experience. In other for me to have the best sex ever I have to given it to her first so I can feel it coming from her2 energy's touch they rife it out together I'm going to have to say it's a tie

  • When we open up, we expect and anticipate pleasure. ;)

  • I don't have experience to say but I would think it's pretty equal although, women have the feeling of the entry point and the touch on the inside so it might be more pleasurable for her overall

  • Sex is the similar for men and women, in the sense of the amount of pleasure received. That is. as long as the partners are both loving and into giving each other pleasure.

  • I would assume women. The clit has way more nerves than a penis, plus the multiple orgasm thing

  • I have always been of the opinion that girls get more out of it. But it really depends on who is the more giving partner. Some guys will only fuck for themselves and some girls only want sex a certain way. Some people simply can’t enjoy sex.
    I don’t think you can say one or the other enjoys or more.

    • I’d say guys because they have more options for the thrusting. Vaginal, anal, oral, etc. But I don't know. Only will we know when someone has actually experienced both sides.

    • Lol! Well I think a few trans have experienced both and could give an answer but that actually proves that it really depends on your state of mind. Like if you are worried about what they are wanting or what you are able to give you are not going to enjoy it as much.

    • No idea, I know men are going to say women and women are going to say men... but here’s my personal opinion: -Some women are only interested in sex at certain times of the month, while more guys never take a break. -There are more self-reported female asexuals than men. Is this a statistical error? Biology? Culture? Is it because women are more likely to have been sexually assaulted and traumatized? I don’t know. -Women are more likely to bear the consequences of sex via pregnancy. They suffer more from diseases like HPV. -Women are less likely to reach orgasm from any given sexual encounter, especially if their partner is not invested in their happiness. So on average (with exceptions), women get less satisfaction from random encounters and may be more likely to pursue relationships from guys who know what they like. Some women have trouble orgasming outside of established relationships since they need to be relaxed. -Women are also more likely to describe sex as painful. In short; there are more sexual downsides for women. So that’s why I went with men.

  • I've wondered that, too. I read that it feels better for women many years back, but I have no idea and it could have been BS.

  • Not sure how to answer that lol

  • Women can have multiple orgasms.

    They win hands down.

  • Both of them

  • I think women do

  • Women have more erogenous zones so they win in the sex department.

  • I think it's better for women

  • Women by far

  • both

    • Well of course it feels great for both, but which do you think enjoys it more?

  • sex fells better for both when it is performed on unanimous decision.

Latest Questions

Sexually frustrated, am I in the wrong?
I caught my girlfriend reading erotica on her ipad -- should I be concerned?
How to stop feeling self conscious about my butt?
Girls- Do you like to swallow a guys cum or is it nasty?
Home >  Sexual Relationships  > Does sex feel better for men or women?