Why does he want to watch me fuck his friend?

[Anonymous]

The guy i've been seeing for 5 months has been very possessive up until now, always making me promise I haven't been with anyone else and getting jealous if he sees another guy text me or hanging out with me, has asked me to have a threesome with him and his closest guy friend. We did it, and it went well, and now he wants to keep doing it and we've done it two more times. TRUST me, he is not gay, but my question is, why does he want to keep doing this? I don't get how he is generally very jealous but now is suddenly okay seeing me and his friend fuck?

[centerline]

its a strange thing to try and describe, but some guys get off on having their partner have sex with other people while they watch... its a fantasy that can come true and can be fun and rewarding. its not for everyone, but for some its nearly a way of life, and as time goes on, it seems to be a growing trend.

typically, the guy usually wants his woman to fuck someone with a much larger cock, while he get to see how turned on she gets by it.. and there are also women who like to watch their husbands fuck younger women, not older women or big women, but usually a woman who the wife thinks is better looking, has a better body, or is a better fuck than she is to her husband...

it seems to have something to do with the power we hold over our SO, as in, we seem to think its the ULTIMATE action we can ALLOW our spouse/girlfriend/boyfriend to have... and even though we allow it, it means nothing to us, and maybe even a little hurtful) if our partner doesn't want to participate in what we allow them to do...

some people have been together so long that they look for ways to spice things up, and trading/swapping partners and having 3sums (and moreSums) is one of the easiest and most exciting way to do it... its NOT cheating, but only sex with others. its not wrong but only a different way of living that goes against the conventional way of man and woman living together. and a lot of couple are doing it... and it doenst make your boyfriend gay, no more than if you invited another girl into the fun... its exploring things that we never have before, which can be exciting, but doesn't mean we will will be switching sides any time soon...

some people feel a bit apprehensive or reluctance to do it, and so its not quite as fun as it could be for them, but to really enjoy it like they could, one has to give in to their carnal desires and become a very willing participant, and be comfortable in the role as the "third wheel" or as the "center of attention", which can change quickly in a setting such as that... and dont harbor guilt feelings about it, because it isn't wrong, but its only enjoying more sex than others usually get, which can cause them to be jealous and try to make you feel its bad because you like it...

I think you are a lucky woman in that you can fuck someone else once in awhile other than your boyfriend, and I think you boyfriend is lucky to have a woman that is willing to explore sexuality with him, and i think the friend is lucky cuz he gets to fuck you... I can only wish I was as lucky.

[Andres77]

Communication... it's easy to say but it has to happen.
Express your desire for your boyfriend and tell him how you feel.
Possessive guys are a mixed bag. Sometimes they react differently than expected and sometimes exactly as expected but to the extreme.
Delicate but genuine. Be ready to leave the relationship if he won't back off of this, if you don't want it.
You said you did it three times. Is the friend using condoms? Is it a threesome or is ur boyfriend just watching and jerking off? Is the friend bigger than ur boyfriend? Do you obviously enjoy it more with the friend than the boyfriend?

[Asker]

No condoms, threesome (they both take turns fucking me), and my boyfriend is already very big but yea he's a bit bigger. And no I try to make my boyfriend feel very secure but I honestly don't even know if he'd be bothered by me enjoying it he kinda seems to want me to.

[Andres77]

So you're enjoying it but just don't understand why and maybe trying to avoid future drama?

[Asker]

yea i just don't like the idea of him not caring if i fuck anyone else, but at the same time he's possessive so i think he does care if i fuck someone else? i just dont get why he isn't jealous during it

[Andres77]

Well, if it's just this one guy then it's not just "anyone else". You don't have something going on with the friend apart do you? Do you like the threesomes? Listen, my wife had numerous threedomes before we got married. We've had 3 more during our marriage and we're planning one more. If you want to dm me I'll give you the details.

[Andres77]

Do you ever kiss your boyfriend and tell him that you love him as you're cumming on the friend's cock?

[Tiffany_Taylor_Made]

He sounds like a cuckold, a guy that gets off from seeing his girl get fucked by other men. He probably doesn't want you cheating with some random guy, but probably trusts his friend a lot. I'm assuming it's "safer" for a guy to be cucked by his best friend rather than some stranger that could have an STD or be dangerous. Either way, being with a cuck is definitely not for me. I prefer real men that can satisfy me themselves and don't want to share me with anybody. However, if you're interested in that, then have fun I guess.

[Daniela1982]

Why stop at a threesome? If you really want to make him happy - and his mates - you would let all of them pull a train on you. Who knows, you may even like it.

I'm ready guys - cum one cum all!

[rebeliouse]

@daniela1982 have you ever had a train run on you?

[AustinMan]

He's clearly a jealous guy with a group sex fetish. He trusts his friend around you. Is the friend fucking you? Are you sucking his cock or is he just there for other things?

[Asker]

they alternate between fucking me and i suck the others dick during

[AustinMan]

Does that turn you on, a stranger dick?

[Asker]

no im doing it to make him happy

[CakesNCream]

Never do something to make someone else happy. This guy has issues fi he's possessive and now you're doing things you don't actually want to do

[JuliaStyles]

Why do half the questions on G@G seem to be trolls and not true? You anons should get jobs writing scripts for a porn movie. You are missing your callings.

[JuliaStyles]

I see at least 3 gullible downvoters who believe this anon's hogwash. Thank God I can block her/him and don't have to see these made up scenarios anymore.

[Shihab-91]

i agree gag changed a lot it wasn't like this 3 -4 years ago

[Ilikegirls2-2]

@juliastyles totally agree with you. Anons are ruining gag. Mods don’t seem to care and people are so daft they just keep feeding them.

[weysally]

maybe it voyeur instincts maybe coming out a lot of men have them

[OlderAndWiser]

Do you view this boyfriend as a prospective husband?

[Holisticapproachsara]

What? he doesn't sound like a stable guy. If u r okay with this life style its up to u. But you will eventually contract a horrible std or so.

[abc3643]

He has a cuckold fetish.
Move on.
I am serious.
Dump him and move on because you will not be happy with this.

[ItsURBOY]

Yup move on

[abc3643]

Hmm... We have some men-sans-testicles here.

[HollyF]

It's this weird cuck trend that's going around. Makes no sense to me.

[Shihab-91]

people became crazy

[HollyF]

@Shihab-91 So many weird fetishes that I don't like but at least understand; then there's cuckolding, like wtf?

[Shihab-91]

lmao normalizing cheating XD

[DiegoO]

No fucking sense. I would rather have an open relationship, and DON'T call it serious.

[JPrez]

Probably because he trusts that his guy friend is not gonna make a move towards you whereas he can't trust other guys. Also, he has a fetish watching you have sex with someone else and seeing your physical reactions. It give him his jolly's.

[wankiam]

for some guys they wouldn't want to think of you leaving them for another man but might want to watch you getting fucked... this sounds a bit like that to me

[boggboss]

Because he is a cuck

[Asker]

I don't know, he's generally very aggressive in bed and I have never given any indication I want to be with anyone but him.

[boggboss]

It dont matter what he is like in bed as he has said he wants to see u get fucked that makes him a cuck lol you wanting or not wanting anyone else is irrelevant to him wanting to see it

[EyebrowChewie]

he's bisexual and actively showing you that without saying it.

[Another_Old_Guy]

This isn't likely to be okay.
This is a power/control thing, and this guy doesn't respect you.

[JosyJosy]

So what did he answer when you asked him this exact same question?

[KirstyW]

Have you asked him why? I'm guessing he'd probably be happy to tell you.

[cth96190]

If you look at the amount of cuckold pornography on the Internet and look at the site counters, you will see that the cuckold fetish is much more common than many would think.

[recvcv]

could be his fantasy?

[DiegoO]

You need self love. Leave that guy, he's already ruining you.

[AmeerX]

He is polyamourous

[Born-for-sex]

I’m guessing that he is afraid of you cheering but might fantasize about it... maybe you should ask him why he likes it so much. And maybe suggest a bringing in random strangers so that it doesn’t become a thing between you and the friend.

[sidhutv]

He is sick