Guys, how can I accept my breast (I have AA / A)?

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I have a strong statement and i'm like second-class girl becouse of small breast size. I try all my might to love myself but I hear/read (when I research) that guys do like breast with prominent size, and perfect it is C size. I have beautiful face, legs and other things... I have education, knowleges, personality but I feel myself inferior in this way still. There is the opinion. that only small amount of male like them small and all they perverts or fetishists. I live into this overwhelming and discouraging feeling being invisible in front of opposite sex. I don't want my future man secretly watch/want big breast of other woman. This topic poisons my being
(I won't give a birth a baby, cuz I don't like this idea, so, do not write that this will change my forms)

[God_of_Thunder]

I can assure you that lots of men like & prefer smaller breasts, and they are not all perverts/fetishists. Many guys simply find them more attractive, that's all.

Besides, some guys don't care about breasts, at all. They prefer a nice butt, or great legs. I'm just speaking about physical attributes here; personality is far more important.

I'm sure you have nothing to be ashamed if, at all, especially given all the other attributes you ascribe to yourself. I've no doubt that you are very attractive, and men will look at you as such.

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thank you! but why I see myself as a second-class always? why I feel myself inferior... not fully fine, not whole

[God_of_Thunder]

You most likely have body dysmorphia syndrome, where you focus on what you perceive to be a negative physical trait about yourself. It is a condition that affects lots of people, and can make you feel that way, despite your many positive features, even though what you see as a flaw really isn't one, at all.

[God_of_Thunder]

Part of the issue could very well be the way that femininity is defined by society, too. Magazines, movies, the media in general; there is this association between womanhood, and curves. It inexplicably links breasts with being female, and incorrectly suggests that you must have a certain size in order to look like a woman. I've read about women who have mastectomies feeling like they are somehow "less of a woman" afterwards, as if theur identity as a female is directly correlated to their breasts. I can understand how that would make someone feel, but I promise you that it's not true. Even AA/A cups are beautiful and perfect, and still make you a woman. Guys will love them. 😊

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yes, maybe i do have some form of this syndrome. but i dont think it's a flaw as you said. i consider myself as a inferior becouse of people and male that adore and love prominent breast and any article and forums name small breast as flaw, like"how to conceal your aa cup breast with a clothes/ how to be brave in front of partner with small tits" all this and also man's attention come to big breast and small ones only for unconfident guys with small dicks cuz they can't "efford" such a GIFT and STATUS as BIG beatufil tits. Therefor small ones is a second -class and this thought spoil all my being

[God_of_Thunder]

Yeah; I can understand that, and that's kind of the point that I was trying to make with my second reply. You just can't judge yourself by other women, and what people think men want. I know plenty of guys, myself included, who would pick the woman with smaller breaats, over the one with bigger breasts. Male tastes & preferences vary much more than is commonly portrayed. I have no doubt that yours are fantastic, and that there are tons of guys out there that would love them, and never think of you as inferior, in any way.

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Thank you nice person! But it's very hard to keep that positive attitude and do not sink into humiliating thoughts about myself. Maybe I think that way to protect myself "if i think that bad already about myself when a man will poke me in this i won't that damaged"...

[God_of_Thunder]

You're welcome, and I totally understand where you're coming from. At the same rime, though, if you don't think positively about yourself, then you'll never have the opportunity to be happy, either, so I hope you're able to start having some confidence in yourself, as well. 😊

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( also man's attention come to big breast and small ones only for unconfident guys with small dicks cuz they can't "efford" such a GIFT and STATUS as BIG beatufil tits. Therefor small ones is a second -class) i have this comparison with dicks cuz dicks should be big and adequate. they compare it their dwarfish dicks and say dont worry about your size. but i will repeat they can't "efford" such a GIFT and STATUS as BIG beatufil tits could you comment this part of my message please?

[kkirk4442]

Your are not your breasts, so don't let them define you. There are some guys who have to have girls with big breasts, just as there are some guys who have to have a girl with certain hair color, etc. Any guy who really cares about you, and is worth having, will like you and love you for who you are, and will love your breasts no matter what size they are. If a guy loves a girl, he loves her body, including her breasts, no matter what their size. And he will enjoy them and have fun with them. He won't be looking elsewhere. Get you mind off your breasts, and focus on what you are like, your personality, how much you care about others, how empathetic you are, how knowledgeable, how compassionately honest, how emotionally available you are, etc. That will attract guys to you, and to your breasts.

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Thank you for your commert. But why are you dictate how am I should be? I dont like being compassion, empathetic, this isYOUR wishes about a girl so leave them inYOUR head. I have strong and bright personality with sharp traits. SO what? I'm not feminen cuz I AM NOT just like that! I hate the way you described a personality. My question was about TITS. AND i dont want to be SECOND CLASS GIRL i want to have choice to be with rich succesfull man not with some cute shy guy who will CONTENT WITH me and secretly WATCH other gilrs cleavage!

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your somment is NOT most helpful, stupid system made a choose itself

[kkirk4442]

Your post was about how can you accept your breasts. My comment about ways in which you can accept your breasts, by focusing on what you have to offer, which is a lot. I'm sorry that you were offended by my remarks, but they were not meant to try to make you be any particular type of person, just to be the great person you can be, and to focus on that. That is a reasonable reply to your post. Whatever, nothing I said was ever meant to dictate anything to you. It was meant to find way of accepting yourself.

[AustinMan]

I'm so very sorry to hear that you're suffering so. I'm sure you've considered remedies. I only recommend them if it's for you and not for someone else. It seems in this case that that's the truth. I suggest you think about augmentation but don't go overboard. I suspect with the rest of you being so attractive, a set of Ds would complete the ensemble nicely. By the way, I'm much more into nipples than breasts.

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i said ACCEPT!! and you propose me to CUT MYSELF AND TREAT MYSELF AS SEX DOLL! you are horrible, sexist and violent sh*t not a man! probably your problem is a small tiny penis

[AustinMan]

A) I am so sorry that I offended. I know a number of women who found acceptance through surgery B) I'm none of those things you called me. I have over 26,000 followers so I rest my case on that score. C) I'm blessed with a large penis.

[summiter]

I do not mind smaller breasts... no big deal. Don't overthink it you are what you are and guys should appreciate it!

[AndyOh]

Wow... so you don't have boobs. I dated a woman years ago who did not have boobs either, just like you a AA or A. She would wear little pads in her bra to give her some shape. Everything else about her was great, like you.
You need to get the stereotype out of your head that men only want big boobs. Men want a woman who is fun, interesting, sexy, and likes sex. If you don't have big boobs, so what, you still have a brain and body that you can do things with.
And if a guy likes small boobs, he is not a pervert of has a fetish... well maybe a fetish for small boobs, but that is okay.
Love yourself, your body, and what you are graced with. Change your attitude and you will find it is no big deal.

[Miristheiss]

Only you can do that for yourself.

I promise you women with smaller chests can be just as beautiful and sex as any other woman. Smaller breasts are sexy and even though some men may have a preference for larger chests tons of others love them and find these women irresistible.

How others see you cannot help you with your own image. I can promise you your insecurity isn't based on reality.

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baby my insecurity based on real critic words of other people guys towards me!! all my history made from pain and rude coments about my body. i 've never thought bad about myself before!

[Miristheiss]

Almost everyone has been teased about something at some point in their lives. If you have braces... teased over that. Big boobs... teased about them... small boobs teased about them, glasses... teased about them... clothes style... teased... tall... teased... short... teased... everyone gets teased. That doesn't mean the subject of the tease is really something to have shame about.

[LiamSawyer]

Small breasts are wonderful. Message me.

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Hi Liam thank you darling. i messaged you

[lonestar_01]

Personally think you're overthinking too much. My girlfriend has small breasts, she's still attractive to me

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I wish you deep and happy love forever. I hope you won't change your opinion and won't hurt her

[sheezuskist]

I like small breasts and your will find there's a lot of men, more so than you read. And research is just a number of random guys being asked the same question it just so happens that researcher asked guys who like larger breasts. Or I can say in sorry about your choices in men, its not just the size of a woman's breasts that makes or brakes a relationship there so much more involved. so much more you are perfect the way you are never forget that, you yourself need say that.

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Thank you very much. I know that there is much more then breasts in relationship. But male are primitive. They say you are fine just to get laid at least with someone. But they truly desire of something curvy and plum but just can't efford themselfs it and content with small but not fully happy. I had bad comments about my body from even random guys at school, university and my relatives. And just a few good but from reeeealy horny pervert idionts. you feel my pain?

[sheezuskist]

Sorry to read that your relatives would even say something like that to you, and most guys like you said are primitive and yes horny, but not all are perverts, stay away from the ones who say your fine until you they actually see that you are when you decide to show them. Other than that yes they are saying it to get laid,

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@sheezuskist 1) I will only sleep with my husband or at least my fiance. 2) it is not a problem to recognize the intention of a man. 3) what do you advise me to do? rely on approval when he already LIVE sees and says I like it. that's bullshit! he should like everything in advance! 4) I was talking about something else, that small tits "like" only perverts and horny freaks. but adequate guys - no. at least they didn't tell me, only the perverts complimented me, so I concluded that (boobs) can only be liked by unpleasant individuals

[AmeerX]

I like flat chested girls same as other girls. It is just that they are actually much cuter ☺️

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i dont want to be cute i want to be VISIBLE for a succesful man! and be gorgeous! not some stupid cutenss ew! as a puppy

[AmeerX]

You will be visible for a man if you have the right personality. Cute doesn't mean you are a puppy or anything bad you know. And if you want a successful man then you will need to adjust yourself according to them. It is not easy to find what we want. And flat chested doesn't make a girl any less desirable

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this word is applicable only for something round, baby, fluffy, toys, pillows, puppies. and this word makes me feel weak and inferiour i want to feel power and be alpha not some cUtE... this is lose

[AmeerX]

Alpha females are femine, seductive no matter what their bodies are they make a man feel like he is incharge and manly too. It doesn't have to be about your body doing your work for you. Be confident that your actions can also make you desirable to men. A beautiful woman but with a bad attitude and poor personality can make her just as toxic even if she has the best body in the entire world. I think you need to get lesson. Let me tell you a story we had from our native culture. The beautiful hot girls were waiting for someone to hit on them at the festival while in the meantime the ugly girls became centre of attention of entire festival with their good personality. Sorry it is not a perfect translation but it conveys the biggest message of all. A woman that is just relying too much on her bodily features isn't going to get anywhere

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I dissagree personality is shit! I have okay personality and have zero admirers. Zero messages, dates, eyes on me. Your words sounds horribly to me. cuz that means girl with small breast need to compensate it, with personality. That means that small breast is a MINUS but all still want to get something from you. not phisically but at least mentally. I won't be nice!! i'M AS IAM there are veeeeryyy few guys able to manage with me. my taste, intellect, wit! nevertheless i'm lonely. just becouse the lack of courage of guys.

[AmeerX]

Oh my God, you think guys don't like you because of your small chest? No that's not it. I just meant that girls don't need a model like body if they want a guys attention. Why would you think you are compensating it as if personality is a substitute for an average. No, media has just made you think that all guys want a beautiful doll faced barbie like model. Personally, I never liked barbie like look. It is just weird why anyone would think that. And there is a chance that guys might be having a hard time reaching you?

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Why would you think you are compensating it, as if personality is a substitute for an average (i didn't get this and last question) hard to reach? reach in any way. like any adequate girl is, i'm not easy catch. and i dont like your tone

[AmeerX]

I think there is a misunderstanding. I thought you understand a great personality as compensating the small chest. That's definitely not it. A good beautiful woman is loved for her substance and not just how she is superficially.

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Why would you think you are compensating it as if personality is a substitute for an average.( I didn't get this like and the last question) hard to reach? YES absolutely! i will as I am! it is a matter of coward and stupid guys not my problem. not easy catch as every normal woman! and i dont like your tone

[AmeerX]

Okay 👌

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this site didn't show me your answer and i repeted my message, becouse of error of this site. so you name personality as a compensation? or what ? i can't understand cuz if it so it is horrible and hummiliate all my being, and thus small breast is MINUS and NOT a gift and something gorgeous.

[AmeerX]

Oh I thought you were getting angry. Look I had a few crushes. They had flat to medium size. And I see a lot of girls and I think 7/10 times I am more inclined towards a flat chest girl. It is definitely a positive thing. I don't know you otherwise I would love for you. I will be honest I have hots for slav girls :) and I know they are not all with big breasts like Latin or American girls but their natural beauty far exceeds any other girl

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a girl on the other forum said that guy will choose (beautiful, tight C than aa) anyway! in hypothetical situation where a girl has the same face and inner world. this though poison me. i can't always be good i'm bad and histerical sometimes and unconfident so if i have small breast with this othew flaws i;m doomed. (could you anwser on my message not tell random story ok?)

[AmeerX]

Okay you can message me of course. I am not lying. If a girl had everything else same and only her breast size was changed it wouldn't matter to men. And I don't mind you are just worried about your future and it is alright. And no you can potentially find a lot of guys who love flat chests or are indifferent about sizes. By the way a natural flat chest is desirable to me over a synthetic plastic body

[joeldalton]

Doesn’t sound like your problem is your boob size. It’s your stupid personality.

[Meldrum]

SOME men like big tits. I'm not one of them. Anything more than a handful, to me, is a waste.