My boyfriend is scared that pedophilia is genetic because of his brother. What can I do to help him?
For like a week my boyfriend was acting really off. He was sulking all the time, hardly speaking or eating. wouldn't go anywhere near my daughter or interact with her. Couldnt sleep without waking up in a complete nightmare. He was getting maybe like 2 hours of sleep if that a night. He said he needed to clear his head and went to the boat launch (its abandoned and he goes there to play guitar whenever he is in his head). He came back home in an uber, completely wasted.
At this point he started full on freaking out and bawling his eyes out. He is terrified that pedophilia is genetic. My daughter is almost 9. He is scared to death and kept saying over and over again that he is afraid that if it is genetic, maybe one day a flip will switch and he will "become a pedophile". I asked him straight up if he felt some type of way toward my daughter and he literally vomited at the thought. Started up-chucking every single ounce of contents in his stomach. He said that there is no way that he thinks of my child like that. I have tried reassuring him that pedophilia is not genetic but more a mental thing (I wouldn't call is a disorder like other people have but if you are attracted to children you are obviously mentally fucked in the head). He is still terrified and won't interact with my kid. What can I do to help him?
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